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left out
everytime me and a bunch of my friends always get together i always end up feeling left out. i try to like talk and talk in their conversations but i just cant or they end up ignoring me. and i dont know how to amke new friends. what should i do?
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I think that you should sit down with maybe 1 or 2 of your friends at a time. You should talk to them about how your feeling.If they still dont treat you right or ignore you, i suggest you join a club that you like or get yourself noticed in a positive way so people will come to you and want to make friends with you.Overall I think you sould do what you think is right.
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That's a hard one and a lot of people have that problem when their friends leave them out. The best thing to do is talk to them and be yourself. Don't try to fit in because that may make them annoyed and will want to leave you out more since they know you're trying so hard to just fit in. Don't worry about it, too. If they're your real friends, it won't continue for much longer. In the meantime, try to find some other friends to hang out with so they will realize that they miss you. I'm sure everything will be O.K. and I hope everything works out! :)
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tell them that you feel left out everytime you go with them but like start your own conversation and then then will go on with you and then you wont be left out
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well, since you tried already joining in conversations and they are ignoring you. it kinda sounds like they arent the best freinds to you. am i wrong?!?! to me it sounds as if they dont care. but it all depends. has this happened once? twice? or more?
if you like other people or if you know they are nice. you can ask them if they want to hang out or go to a place where it fun for you to hang out. now, im not saying completely drop your old friends, but set yourself away from them..if they treat you poorly. but it this has happened once? maybe they were just interested in something..aand they didnt notice that they were leaving you out. humans are only humans and they make mistakes.
but have you tried bringing this to their attention?? if you have then again i dont think they are the nicest friends. because friends are suppost to be their for you. if you havent then you should try.. tell them that you are feeling left out and that you wish they wouldnt ignore you..
it sometimes works. just depends on the people.
hope this helps.
brittanyMegan:]
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