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when making out... does the girls bottom lip go inbetween the guys lips? ive been told that but then how is the tounge involved?

It really doesn't matter who's goes where. It works both ways--so do whatever you guys want! ♥

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ok i have covergirl foundation stuff and it comes off throughout the day... like i look in the mirror in the moringin and i look good but after a few hours at school it all comes off and i look really tired! does anyone know any good foundations that stay on? thanx!
*i rate high*

I'm not sure about any good foundations--but you could always go to the mall and go to a makeup stand. They can give you some tips. But as for it coming off---you can just bring your foundation to school and reapply it during the day! Hope it works ♥

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Is it normal to shave a little bit below your belly button and bit above.. cuz i got the little hairs but they bother me

Everyone gets a little hair on their stomach. But DON'T SHAVE IT! Even though you hate it now, it's just going to grow back thicker and darker! Then you'll hate it even more. So unless you want it to look worse--don't shave it! Good luck ♥

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Okay this boy in my year iv'e known him since first school and we've always been good friends. Im 13 by the way.I've been out with him a couple of times but nothing serious just a laugh really. I've always had something for him and a couple of weeks ago he asked me out I said no because i didn't think it was right.Then he asked again and i still felt the same. But now i REALLY REALLY like him.He blanked me today and I feel as though i have no more chances?He's not the same with me and he hardly talks to me. Am i right or can someone out there help?? Thanks xxx

He already asked twice so he's realizing you "don't" like him. But you really DO. If you want him to know that, the only way for him to find out is if you tell him. Or you could just talk to him, hang out with him, and of course..flirt. Hopefully he'll eventually realize you like him. Good luck ♥

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Ok does anyone know how to check if anyone answered my questions???? Not that anyone does answer them i just want to know how to! THANKS :)

On the left, there's a blue (or green?) column. Go to the section where it says "Welcome, (your username)!". If you look down there's a link that says "Your Questions". Click that and then it should bring you to a new page. Click which question you want to go to (it should say all the titles of the questions you've asked). There you go =)

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how much does getting your belly button pierced hurt? what do you have to do to take care of it and do you think 13 is too young?

I have never gotten my belly button pierced, but I know people who have. The said it hurt SO much. I think you do the same thing to take care of it as you would with a regular piercing, like cleaning it and twisting it, maybe? You can always go to a piercing place and just ask for information. You may have to bring your parent/guardian with you though, they don't allow 13 year olds sometimes. You might not even be allowed (by LAW) to get it pierced (sucks). Yes, I do think 13 is too young. Even though I am 13 also, I still think if I got mine pierced, I'd regret it. If I were you I'd wait until I was older..at LEAST 18. Hope this helped. For more info ask your parent or as I said, go to a piercing place nearby. Good luck ♥

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I love gymnastics, but I went to this one gym and I had no friends there. Yes, i am pathetic like that. So I switched gyms and it seems like they don't really like me there either so I don't really have any friends there. And it's a pretty lonely 3 hours each night when no one really likes you or talks to you. i love competing but i just have no friends there are theres no other gyms around. the only reason i don't want to quit is because i love tumbling and i'll get fat and won't be known as the strongest girl in my school anymore. but i love gymnastics i just dont have friends and i hate wearing a leotard. should i quit? i only went to 2 practices at this new gym, but i don't really like it. i'm gonna look like an idiot quitting after this soon, but i don't want my parents to buy all the new team leo's, warm ups, and evrything

Just start talking to people in your team/class. Eventually you'll make some friends. They don't NOT like you. They probably just don't know you so they don't talk to you. Get to know them and have fun. If you really HATE gymnastics--then talk to your parents about it. I know how expensive it is--I did gymnastics for several years. It's not worth the money if your not having fun. Go a couple more days and if you really don't like it, tell your parents. Hope this helped ♥

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Hi, I was just browsing the net when I came across this! So heres the
thing, I'm sure it's over told, I really like this guy at my school. I
find that he's hard to read though, like somedays he'll act like he's
really into me, and likes me, but others he doesn't say a word and acts
uninterested. So, here's what makes me think he is; He teases me in a
flirty way sometimes, and seems to like it when I laugh. He remembers
stuff that we've talked about before, even if I said it like in front
of the class, or mumbled it under my breath. This one time in class, he
was talking and when he said the word "amazing" he was definitly
looking at me. Sometimes he'll smile at me in the halls. When I needed help
with the copier he helped me, and seemed sort of nervous, more so
because it was just us, rather than around all of his freinds and class
mates. I also think he might have been staring at me a couple of times,
it's yet to be proven. But, we really have no connection outside of
school. Somedays, it's like he hasn't noticed me in the room, or
sneaking looks at him, I want him to see me! I've been flirting as
discretly yet noticably as humanly possible! I think he's noticed, but I
think maybe were both being to shy. I would ask him out, but I really
don't want to be rejected from him. I really like him so much. I don't
know too much about him either, I know that he hunts, likes fish (as in
pets), plays football, and loves poker and card games. He knows that
I'm in Tae Kwon Do, and am a vegetarian, and also that I've volunteered,
he even said I was special when I said I volunteered without a
sarcastic tone. I think he likes me too, but he's making it hard, or maybe I'm
not reading him right, either way, please help!

Hoplessly in Love

Sounds like he definately likes you. You should just talk to him more! Ask him if he wants to hang out after school! I'm sure he'll say yes--unless he's too shy. Just get to know him more. Good luck =)

Oh yeah--welcome to Advicenators. Enjoy your stay ♥

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my cat has this bump under her left eye and it is losing hair and it has some red spots on it. Does anyone know what this is or have any ideas? Please help me!

Go to your veterinarian. They'll tell you exactly what's wrong and what you can do about it ♥

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I no its not healthy but will starving myself help me lose 2 inches off my stomach. i really need to. im going to florida in april and i wanted to get my belly button pierced but it think im too fat. with my clothes on i guess i look ok, but not the way i want to. please help

NO! Starving yourself makes you GAIN weight! (Hard to believe..but it's true!) Just eat healthy, don't eat too many snacks. Or just eat healthy ones. April's a couple months away and you can lose a few pounds before you leave. Maybe you could go to a local gym and just work out like 3 days a week? Or get involved in a sport! Don't worry about it too much. Good luck and have fun in Florida ♥

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does anyone know where you get those VOTE FOR PEDRO shirts? ive seen a few people that have them!! and its my boyfriends birthday next tuesday and we both watched napolean dynamite together and we LOVE that movie....so i reallly want to get him one as a joke....

I LOVE that movie too! It's hilarious..well anyway, they have some Napoleon Dynamite merchandise at Hot Topic. They have those post cards? (just like paper with pictures on 'em, I guess). Also they have Napoleon t-shirts, but I'm not sure if they have the "Vote For Pedro" ones. You can check though! If they're not there--just get him a different one if you want! ♥

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MY column is wierd. I have 40 or so rates but it says i only have 37 and won't let me get any more. i also can't get a cursor to show up. Anyone know what's wrong, or has this happened to anyone else?

There are reasons--just check out the FAQ to find out. Here's the original FAQ:

http://advicenators.com/faq.php

And here's the FAQ for YOUR question:

http://advicenators.com/faq.php?f=25

Read through and you'll figure it out.

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My life stinks and i hate it I have like no friends cuz i go to such a small school. And my parents are having a divorse which is not going good. We are losing all are money my parents are both dating i hate my moms boyfriend who is a jerk my mom doesnt want to tell my dad that she has a boyfriend cuz shes a weirdo and she just yells at me all the time because i dont like her stupid boyfriend i have a boyfriend but he is MIA (missing in action) havnt heard from him in like a month. And my brother is a big jerk and i just want advice on what i should do I want to kill my self.

HELP ME

If you feel comfortable--talk to your teacher about it. If she's a good person, she'll do SOMETHING for you. I'm sure she will. But if you don't want to talk to her, find someone you trust or can let everything out to..like you did here. Going through divorce is the worst..maybe not the worst--but it's still bad. My parents did the same thing. Maybe TRY talking to your mom..it might help, seriously. OR write her a note. That might be better. I always felt it's easier to write notes then to speak how you feel. I don't really have much more to say to you, but I'm here if you want to talk about anything. ♥

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does anybody know any sites that have music to put on my xanga? thanx! and i WiLL rate

Here's some sites:

// http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=REAL_ZangaMusic [[ I recommend this one ]] //
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=forever_m_U_s_i_c //
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=alternativemusic //
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=icons_crash_music //
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=music_911 //
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Music__________1 //
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=music_______rock //
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=music____e_v_e_r_y_t_h_i_n_g //
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=music___101 //
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Music___Always [[ this looks like a great site for music..gives you a bunch of links to other sites ]] //
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=music___always2 [[here's another one like that]] //
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Music___Music //
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=MUSiC__ALwAYz //
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=MuSiC__lOveR //
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=music_02 [[-pretty good-]] //

Well--I gave you a lot of sites--so hopefully you will find SOMETHING..but if you DON'T..go here. It's a search on Xanga for music sites. Just go to the sites (some I gave you) and then scroll down and press "More Results". There are SO many there:

http://www.xanga.com/search.aspx?type=users&term=music

Hope you find something! =)

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Now I know most people say "Oh I hate school!", but really, I do. I get made fun of so much but I try to brush it off because I don't want to seem like a weak person. One girl and a few of her friends call me a dike whenever they see me. I don't know why, I'm not; I don't know what gave them that idea. One kid calls me fat and makes fun of the clothes I wear. For one, I'm not fat... I'm not the skinnest person ever, but I sure as hell am not fat. Then theres this other guy, who also makes fun of the clothes I wear. For instance today I had a Sid Vicious shirt on and he harrassed me the whole way home about it. "Oh my god he killed his girlfriend" "Sid Vicious is so gay" "I hate the sex pistols" "You're a loser if you listen to them" I really have had it and I'm really sick of school, I just can't put up with it anymore and have no idea of what to do. I want to drop out so bad, I just can't put up with people and there stupid jokes. Anybody know what I can do about this. I really don't want to talk to anybody about it but I just don't know what else I can do. -kate

I know it's hard for you to deal with this, but you're just going to have to. Who cares what that kid thinks? You wear what YOU want to wear. What clothes you wear shows what you like. DON'T change your style just because some kids don't like it. They're LOSERS..not you. If it gets serious, I suggest you talk to someone. I KNOW you don't want to--but you should. They can help a lot sometimes. Maybe you can switch schools? The people at your school don't sound too friendly. You should really tell your parents what's going on, and see if they have any ideas for you. I hope it all works out--I'm here if you want to talk =)

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Is there any way for you to find out if you've been rated?

Go to your column, and at the top it should say "View Feedback" or something like it. Click on that and it will bring you to all the ratings you've gotten. It will only show your ratings if you've been rated at least five times though. Click on the number you were rated and it will bring you to the question you answered for that. Hope this helped..

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i don't experiment with my hair. usually just keep it straightened and long. but anyways i feel like doing something new with it and i just took a shower so it's still pretty damp but with my actual question: what does mousse do to your hair? i've been trying to get that like crimped *but not so crimped* like.. wavy/curly look. and when i talk to girls who do it they say their hair is naturally like that and they just gel it up. but my hair is like.. just small wavy when it's gel'd and my best friend said just put mousse in it but problem is i don't have any mousse and i'd like to know what it looks like before i go borrow or buy some.

Mousse is just like gel--but it's like foamy instead of liquidy. It makes your hair like hard? I guess that's what you could describe it as. It makes it easier to scrunch your hair with tho. You just put the mousse in your hair when it's wet and squeeze your hair together with your hands. Then you can dry it with a hair dryer once you're done if you want to. Hope this helped =)

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Me and my mom made a dealy bribe about the PSAT; I read a big book on it and take a practice test, and I could get somethin special. She had been really adamant about not getting a second hole before (I'm 13), and this is the first time shes actually said that I could (I've done a bunch of bribes before that she held out on.) But also, she said, instead that I could get a new, fancy schmancy cell phone instead of a second hole, maybe even she would split the price on a laptop! (But that would be all my $$.) What should I do? lol
-Bribe schmibe

It depends what you want most. I would say forget the second hole because that's not that big of a deal. Laptops are pretty expensive--but it's a good deal. She'll pay half, so I'm guessing you'll pay around $500 to $600 (depends on what you get). If you really want/need a laptop then go for it. Just think--if you get the cell phone--are you going to use it a lot? If not, skip that. It's not worth it if you're not going to use it. AND: is your mom going to pay for the cell phone..or for the service each month? That's a good question to ask. Think about which one you want the most--then you might be able to decide. Good luck on that =)

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Im 15/f and i really like this boy that is 13 and he likes me too. we are very close we talk on the phone and he even had told me that he had fallen in love with me.Everyone thinks that we go out cause we always together. I dont know what do to because he ask me out, and he is waiting for an answer, whats holdin me back is his age and that peoples might be talking like am too old for him, So im really confused what should I do?

If you both like each other--the age shouldn't matter. It's only two years anyway. If you're worrying so much about your age difference, then maybe your just not ready to go out with him.

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Does anybody know any store that sells Paul Frank hoodies?? Pacific Sun doesn't sell Paul Frank hoodies anymore.. but thanks

I know that Delia's and RAVE have Paul Frank. I'm not sure about Journey's but you could give it a try! Good luck =)

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