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I hate school.
Now I know most people say "Oh I hate school!", but really, I do. I get made fun of so much but I try to brush it off because I don't want to seem like a weak person. One girl and a few of her friends call me a dike whenever they see me. I don't know why, I'm not; I don't know what gave them that idea. One kid calls me fat and makes fun of the clothes I wear. For one, I'm not fat... I'm not the skinnest person ever, but I sure as hell am not fat. Then theres this other guy, who also makes fun of the clothes I wear. For instance today I had a Sid Vicious shirt on and he harrassed me the whole way home about it. "Oh my god he killed his girlfriend" "Sid Vicious is so gay" "I hate the sex pistols" "You're a loser if you listen to them" I really have had it and I'm really sick of school, I just can't put up with it anymore and have no idea of what to do. I want to drop out so bad, I just can't put up with people and there stupid jokes. Anybody know what I can do about this. I really don't want to talk to anybody about it but I just don't know what else I can do. -kate
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you just need to ignore them. they sound like a bunch of stuck up bitchs. they think their better then everyone else, and they dont accept anyone thats different. but usually the popular crowd has more ppl that hate them, then actually like them. just realize that if they wanna waste their time talking about ppl and makeing fun of them then they dont have a life. i'm sure you have friends that love you for you, just hang out w/ them and ignore the other ppl. dont let them get to you..because that's what they want. let them waste their time being stuck up and thinking their just so perfect:-) hope i helped*xoxo
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i think you have one of two options:
1. attack them back- give them a taste of their own medicine and the way i look at it- if they dont like you because your strong enough to fight back then your just getting them upset. which is great because, yeah who likes to be upset right?
or 2.kick their ass- haha yes, people say violence doesn't solve anything but it sure does make you feel better and they will be to afraid of getting beaten up again to make fun of you
- hope everything works out for the best
let me know what happens
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Hey, Kate. I have some advice for you. I know many people have already told you this but... honestly... they're doing because they want to be cool and they're jealous because they can't have what they want... and that's for you to be miserable. Don't give up and don't let them see you crying. Come back at them. Once they see you're tough, I guarentee you, they'll be bowing dow to your greatness. Trust me. It'll work. They're immature losers who have nothing else better to do. Ignore them. They are losers. You, on the other hand, are a very cool person and they just don't take the time to figure that out. Don't worry. Everything's going O.K. I was afraid of school. I hated it but... I stood up to those bullies and let me tell you... I whooped their butts like crazy. They have never talked to me since. Of course, that was 22 years ago but.. hey, even back then, people fought. LOL. Do your best on keeping your chin up. And remember... DONT LET THEM SEE YOU CRY!!! Bye, hun. Update me whenever you want and rate me and write extra info so I can know how you're doing.
Best of luck! xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
~~~Kayla~~~
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I wish I could tell you there was a magical potion you could drink that would turn all those mean kids into frogs but unfortunately there's not (well, not one that I can give you anyways). However, there is always communication. Now I know you clearly said you didn't really want to talk to anybody about this but unfortunately, that's pretty much the only option you have. A parent or guidance councler is an adult that has generally been through alot. All the problems that we face today, the previous generations have been through and they can lend us valuable information that will help make things easier to tame. I really hope things work out for you and if you ever need any advice, please feel free to ask me a question directly. <3 *iCY iS ALWAYS LiSTENiNG* <3 Oh and by the way, the Sex Pistols rock.
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hmmmm...you should either A) tell soemone, that they are bugging you. or, (the more appropiete suggestion)B) Hey! Yea, You! Come here! Im not a dike, Sex Pistols rock, and im not fat! or even if you really want mercy, or if you dont like a or b theres always C) Hey, im not gay, and im not fat and i like the sex pistols but, do you wanna hang out? I dont know how old you are but i think you know whats right. xxo good luck!
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I'm not saying change yourself, i just saying make your outfits the same but maybe a little bit sexier like wear super tight jeans and a sid visious t-shirt. thats what i do but i wear ramones shirts (ramones rock!)hope i helped!
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i had the same thing happen to me...i wanted to die soo bad....well since you dont want to talk to anybody about it you should talk to them or just ignore(sp) it..i know i didnt help you out but the thing is it might still be happening and you have to stop it..but dont drop out of school for what their doing..change you attitude..they probably will leave you alone afer that
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tell them to F&*k off or go along with it be like.. i am a loser thanks.... or sid vicious is gay or something.. just go along with it and have a change in attitude.. theyll notice the difference and prob leave you alone.. if you need anything IM me on unxreachhable...
hope i helped
-;- jessie xo
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Hey babe dont let them people do that to you. ask them what the hell is your promblem? and stuff like that. Maybe they do that to you because they think you are soft like that. You need to tell them if you keep bothering me I will hurt you so bad. Thats what i did and now they dont bother me. Dont let ppl hurt you like that and make you feel crapy about yourself. Tell them straight up about all this and if they still make fun of you then beat them up and if that works and you get in trouble at least you know when you go 2 school they wont mess with you anymore. I hope I helped with what you needed. Good Luck. And if need anything else IM me on hotlilbit131 or go to my Advice Column.
oxoxoxox,
Cheyenne
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babe, i can totally relate cause ive been made fun of for 7 yrs, going on 8 now& i know its fucken hard as hell to keep your head up when you know you dont have anything to look forward to when you go to school, trust me, im the same way! I hate school too! But try just ignoring these people, i know it gets tired after awhile but you just gotta stay strong! If i wwas there, and you told me what was goin on..i would totally fucken stick up for you and kick those kids ass's cause noone and i mean NOONE has the right to put down people when people probably put down them! Remember, kids only make fun of other kids cause they are insecure about themselves and they wanna seem coool. which it isnt cool to say shit about people. I mean i hate it! And when things like this happen..just tlk to your guidance counselor or simpley handle it yourself by saying "Look, im not a dike and its not up to you what the fuck i wear to school, you might not like it but i sure as hell do! So back off or ima get you in trouble and you wont fucken like it!" Just say something like that and maybe they will back off but if you wanna tlk more about this situation sometime just IM me on my sn: Hiximchristine ! ;) love ya babe! STAY STRONG!
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Well, don't switch schools or anything, that'll make you seem really weak. Just ignore them whenever they say anything, because if they don't get any reaction, they'll think what's the point and they'll stop. Or just tell them off! If you feel you need to, talk to the principal, your counselor, or a teacher. Just shouldn't have to put up with crap like that. People these dayz... Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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I know it's hard for you to deal with this, but you're just going to have to. Who cares what that kid thinks? You wear what YOU want to wear. What clothes you wear shows what you like. DON'T change your style just because some kids don't like it. They're LOSERS..not you. If it gets serious, I suggest you talk to someone. I KNOW you don't want to--but you should. They can help a lot sometimes. Maybe you can switch schools? The people at your school don't sound too friendly. You should really tell your parents what's going on, and see if they have any ideas for you. I hope it all works out--I'm here if you want to talk =)
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Hun you sound like me. i used to get made fun of all the time people just thought it was the coolest thing to do n i got so sick of it n i was like i want to drop out so bad but i cant my parents would kill me n of couse the leagal age is 16 n i was too young. so then i decided if people really want to make fun of me ill give them a reason. n thats exactly what i did. i decided i was going to me completely different. now i deicded i was going to be the type of person who didnt care waht people think n this was sixth grade mind you when all this happened n ever since then i havnt cared what people think people still talk there shit but i let it go or i say shit back. so my advise is to just not let what people think get to you n just let it all go...n just be different. being different is the best way to go. so now im in 9th grade dont care what people think of me n living a semi happy life. i wish you luck if you have anymore questions. xomegzmichellexo--alwayz n forever--megan hope i helped
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