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I'm Marcia. Somehow, even though I'm only 15, I've changed enough over the past year for my entire lifetime. I've been through a lot, and I've seen a lot. I've dyed my hair horrible colors, I've gained & lost best friends. I've had idiot boyfriends and amazing boyfriends. I've fallen for friends, I've had my heart broken, and I've done the stupidest things. Almost anything you can think of, I've been through it. I never seem to do the right thing on the first try myself, but I learn from that- that's probably why I'm good at giving advice. I want to be a psychitrist when I'm older, and I think this is as close as I can get for now (:
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am a very bad dreamer. i don!t no why i offent dream of bad things witch some time come true.so why do u think that happen to me why i dream am 30 year and i live in gaudeluope


I think you have bad dreams because you're stressed, or just dealing with something bad in your life. But I don't think that your dreams and what actually happens to you are related to each other. Maybe just relax & give yourself some time off, and your dreams will get better :]

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14/f (9th grade)

I need a tote bag for school. It doesn't have to be big enough to carry a bajillion books (i still have arms and boys :] ), but I want it to be able to carry some books and stuff.

I like PacSun's bags (minus black and a lot of them aren't big enoguh :[ ) and I kind of don't want to pay $40 for one (coughAbercrombiecough).

So can you give me a link or a place to look at some cute totebags?

Thanks.
-Hater of akward backpacks




I get most of my totes from American Eagle or Wet Seal. There's some cute ones at Old Navy too :]



www.ae.com
www.wetseal.com
www.oldnavy.com


Hope you find something you like :D

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its by a guy, mabye a band. and its a country one and the song just recently came out. he is talking about if the wife or somebody is reading the letter then hes already home. im pretty sure its called already home but i cant find it anywhere. whats it called and whos it by?? thanks in advance



It's called I'm Already Home, & it's by Tim McGraw :]

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i want to buy a motorola sliver in pink with an unlocked GSM.. is this a sliver?

http://www.wirelessgalaxy.com/mobilephones/motorola-l6-pink.asp

it says its an L6, which i know can be a type of sliver.. but no where there does it say sliver, so i dk if that is really a sliver or not.

can anyone tell me if it is? and if so, what is the difference between the L6 and L7? and if it's not where can i find one? thanks!



Yes, that's a sliver.
The difference between the L6 & the L7 is that the L7 has a better hearing quality, and has a matching bluetooth set :)

here's the review for the L6 & L7 if you want to read it - http://www.mobique.com/motorola/l7/page4.php

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i was at a camp last week, and i had forgotten about the pic of a penis that a guy sent me in december but then i remembered it was on there and some other girls were looking at my pics and they saw that, then they told like the director of the camp and this whole ordeal happened.

but the girl who saw it had a pic with all these different pics of ppl giving blow jobs and stuff.

and i got in so much f-ing trouble it wasn't even funny.

i'm back from the camp now but i just still feel like crap about it, i just feel so worthless.


it's not like i was the only 1 with porn on my phone. god.


Well, I don't think it's really a big deal. Nothing to feel worthless over, of course. Everyone will forget soon enough, and everything will blow over :]

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how much does it usually cost to get your hair stripped at a salon? i know that it will vary from salon to salon, but what's the average amount? and if i got my hair stripped, could she color it a different color that same day or would i have to come back later?

(i dyed my hair black, and i want it brown now.)



My friend got his hair stripped, and it cost about $50, not including the tip. And yes, the stylist would probably color your hair on the same day :]

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see, there is this boy at my school. me and him are close and once in a while, i would go to his house and we do some things that i would never do. now i know he is a flirt. also are basketball teams scrimage each other often. now he is going after my teammate he will never see again behind my back and they both talk about me to each other... plus my teammate goes out with my brother! and when school starts back up, he will want to go back to messing around with me... wat should i do?



Honestly, this guy just sounds like a player. If he's messing around with both your teammate, AND your brother, and then still expects you to want to mess around with him, then he's crazy. I don't really think anyone deserves to be treated like that.


Hope that helps :]

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Does anyone know of some songs that are kinda sad, saying that youll miss your loved one bc they are leaving?..

my boyfriend is leaving for college friday, and Im not sure when he can first come home, and I just want a song to help say what I cant..



When You're Gone by Avril Lavigne is a good one, but it's extremely sad.
If you want something less sad, then Thunder by Boys Like Girls is a good one. It's a favorite of mine :)

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I have two really great friends. Rachel and Megan. Rachel is like EXACTLY like me(we like the same stuff,same everything) and have the same "moral standings". But Megan is exact oppisite of me. She has pretty much no morals at all.
Well one day in Volley ball we had to choose partners and i automaticaly go for Rachel. And in Science, and History and Math i do the same thing. Idk why but i really don't ever pick Megan, and i feel horrible about it. I just don't like the way she goes about things. She is a bad student(gets C's and D's and sometimes F's) and Rachel and I are straight A's.
I don't know how to envolve Megan and idk if she is even like a friend to me.
How can i envolve her. And in your opion am i being a bad friend? I don't want to be that way anymore. HELP



I know how you feel. I think if Megan's important to you, you could include her the same way you include Rachel. Maybe you helping her & including her will help her become a better person & student. I'm sure Rachel wouldn't mind if you picked Megan to be your partner every once in a while, and Rachel could also help you include Megan, so then nobody would feel left out.

Hope that helps :]

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I keep reading everywhere that Chi straighteners are the best ones out there, but I know that there are so many different models of the straigtener. Which model do you use or which one works the best?! Pictures would be more than excellent.

Price does not matter what-so-ever. thanks!


Chi flat irons do work really well, but this is the one my friend uses - http://beauty.hsn.com/bed-head-tourmaline-nano-ceramic-hair-straightener-2_p-3621141_xp.aspx?webm_id=0&web_id=3621141&sf=bs&dept=bs0069&cat=bs0126&attr=4797&prev=hp!sf!dept!4797
and it's the best I've ever used, and I've gone through several flat irons. Plus, it's not as expensive as Chi flat irons.

But if you specifically want a Chi, my mom has this one- http://www.originalchi.com/chi-turbo-flat-iron1.html
It works really well, and straigtens my hair quickly, and I have the most unruly hair ever. & doesn't take forever to heat up. :]

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hokayy.
here goes.
i like a guy.
everyone tells me i shouldnt.
cause hes a major player.
but he understands me like no other.
ive hung out w/ him a couple times.
it was hella fun.
my closest friends say go for it.
everyone else says no.
but next time i see him.
im gonna tell him how i feel.
i get mixed signals though.
now hes no virgin.
hes gonna be 15 in a couple days.
i turn 14 in january.
:D
i just dont know.
help?



Well, if your close friends, the ones that know you best say to go for it, maybe you should give it a try. It sounds like you and this so-called player have a lot of fun together, and like things could work. But before you get into anything, just make sure you know what your putting yourself up for, and be prepared to maybe be hurt by this guy. Who knows, maybe he could change.


Good luck :]

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okay so like if you read my other questions, there is this guy who i like, i kissed him, and we have been talking ever since ((online)). which is like a few days. and i think he likes me but i could be wrong. i dont know. i think that its going to be awkward between us. we only hang out when we are with other ppl and i hardly talk to him. i just dont know like how to talk to him and all...i need advice.

Things are always somewhat awkward after you kiss someone you aren't dating, but it probably won't be too bad. Especially since this guy sounds like he actually likes you, if he's talking to you and everything. Maybe you should try hanging out with him, just the two of you, so you can get over the awkwardness quickly, and have time by yourselves to get to know each other.


Hope that helps :]

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anyone notice that kat von D looks a lot like amy winehouse? weird. anyways, whats the name of the song in the commercial for Miami Ink?



Haha, that's exactly what I thought when I saw the commercial.
And the song's called Dancing with Myself by Nouvelle Vague :)

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does anyone know any stores where I can find "artsy" or "hippy" realy earthy type clothing?



I love clothes like that :)
Urban outfitters or Delias would be a good place to shop for what you're looking for.


Hope that helped :]

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i heard that americans can shoot people if they are tresspassing on their property. if its true, i have a few questions:

1.can you shoot someone without warning?
2.what if you are renting the place? you just live there, and you dont own it. can you still shoot someone?
3.what if you are at your freinds house, and youre freinds not in? can you shoot the person trespassing?

thanks a lot. british fella.



No, that's not true.
At least not where I'm from. But I've never heard it before, and it sounds pretty crazy, even for America :]

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hi,how do i say to my girlfriend 2 dress nice so she can meet my parents with out been rude?..im 17 by the way


Honestly, I don't think you need to say anything at all because most girls would be nervous to meet their boyfriend's parents, and would plan on looking really nice anyway.
But if you really think you have to mention it, I would tell her that your parents are really critical, or something like that. But make sure you tell her that YOU don't care how she dresses, because you like her no matter what :]

Hope that helped :]

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i need advice on my best firend...

I was going out with this lad i liked but i best firend went out with him..!! and she was givin me a few tips on him.. but now were over and she thinks its all because of her and it anit and other people have started getting invode now and i think i'm gone loss my best firend..!!

What do i do..!?


I think you should let your best friend know that YOU know it's not her fault, and the opinions of the other people, or the boy don't matter. Also, let her know that she's more important to you than any boy, and that you would absolutely hate to lose her. I'm sure your best friend will come along, you just have to give her time.


Hope that helped :]

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hi. i've read a lot of your answers to questions and they were all really good, which why i'm asking you specifcelly.

well me and this girl have been friends for about 6 years, and we always called each other BFFs and everything. but lately it just seems like we don't talk as much, and when we do it's just really boring. i think it's because we've gotten into a ton of fights this year, and its all like building up. a couple days ago she told one of our other friends thats a boy that i liked him, and it makes me really mad. i almost just wanna give up. what should i do??



Well, I can relate to your situation. I don't think you should totally give up on your friendship yet, especially since you two have been friends for so long. I would talk to your friend, and tell her how you feel about getting into all those fights, and her telling your secrets. You two could agree to just start over new, and forget about the past. If that doesn't work, then maybe it's just time for you two to split up. Yes, it sucks. But sometimes the hardest thing and best thing for you to do are the same.

Let me know how things go :]

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16/f, I want to sing more than anything.
I'm not too good at it but.
Please don't just tell me I need to spend all this money to go to a place where they can teach me singing. I just want to be able to do it and I don't want my parents to know its kinda embarrassing.
Is there only certain people who can sing or can you train yourself? I can't read music either. Or is it possible that certain people can only sing certain songs?
Maybe I'm just not trying the right songs?
Thanks so much to everyone who can help me



If you're at least somewhat good at singing, you can train yourself to sing bettter. To fine-tune things and everything. I'm the same way. When I was 11, everyone kept telling me I was a great singer, but I knew that I needed help, but my parents didn't want to spend a million dollars taking me to a professional. So, the choir director at my church helped me. If you go to church, you could do that, or maybe even the choir director at your school could help you.
Also, I think it's true that some people can only sing certain songs. It depends on how high or low your voice naturally is. Well, I hope that helped :]

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what styles are cute now for Back to school? like backpacks (or the big purses), clothes, pencils, pencilcases, yeah i know specific, but clue me in. also where can i buy them from? i have my own style, but i like to sorta form it around whats currently "in", so i dont look kinda retarded.

13/f
thanks! :)



Yeah, giant purses are definately 'in' opposed to backpacks. Some of my favorite stores to find bags are Charlotte Russe, Wet Seal & American Eagle. They're all cheap too :]

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