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Question Posted Monday August 6 2007, 12:46 pm

hokayy.
here goes.
i like a guy.
everyone tells me i shouldnt.
cause hes a major player.
but he understands me like no other.
ive hung out w/ him a couple times.
it was hella fun.
my closest friends say go for it.
everyone else says no.
but next time i see him.
im gonna tell him how i feel.
i get mixed signals though.
now hes no virgin.
hes gonna be 15 in a couple days.
i turn 14 in january.
:D
i just dont know.
help?


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phatdopelove answered Monday August 6 2007, 7:00 pm:
Well thats your clue that he's already gonna be not so great boyfriend:

HE'S A MAJOR PLAYER.

If you've heard that most likely it is true.
He may understand you and stuff like that but
it'd be safe for you to keep him as a friend.
He could be a really good friend for you,but not as a boyfriend. These "mixed" signs need to be ignored, if he really likes you he'd be the first to initiate things, I don't think he would be shy cause keyword: MAJOR PLAYER. Let him be the first to intiate things, then you'll know if he really likes you.

Also, think about this, if you know hes not a virgin then he's more than likely not going to take things slow with you when you're alone with him and you also don't know how many girls hes been with or who so look at it from this perspective.

I'd tell you to follow your heart, but sometimes when you follow your heart, your mind is blinded into thinking things that are right when they really aren't.

Take him as a really good friend, you love to hang out with. Hope things work out for the best.

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_marcialynn answered Monday August 6 2007, 3:30 pm:
Well, if your close friends, the ones that know you best say to go for it, maybe you should give it a try. It sounds like you and this so-called player have a lot of fun together, and like things could work. But before you get into anything, just make sure you know what your putting yourself up for, and be prepared to maybe be hurt by this guy. Who knows, maybe he could change.


Good luck :]

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ASAPcamille answered Monday August 6 2007, 3:20 pm:
He probably acts that way with all his last girlfriends. He is a player, and he does not deserve a nice girl like you. I am sorry- but he just is not going to do anything for you. Do not tell him how you feel- you can remain friends if you want, but he is a player- end of story.

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