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my boyfriend of 7 months got drunk the other night and planned on hiding it from me. i found out from someone else who was there. my boyfriend always promised & swore that he would never drink and how stupid he was. he ended up getting drunk with his friend and when i found out, i gave my boyfriend soooo many chances to confess and tell me the truth and he didnt. later he finally admitted it and i was so outraged that i broke up with him and told him i never want to see him again, and i hung up. he hasnt tried to call me or fix things up. my friends called him and said he was crying and too afraid to talk to me. i dont want to call him first...but should i forgive him? he broke my trust. (link)
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okay.. If he does this occassionally, like everytime he goes out with his friends, you cant find out information directly from him, you have to go to his friends to find out whether he was drinkin or not...then thats a probem and i say no... but if hes done this once or twice.. i would say forgive him. If hes too 'upset' to talk to you though.. thats an issue. Is the friend that told you this reliable? because if not, maybe s/hes trying to get you back into a situation you might not want to be in (such as going back out with your boyfriend, after he makes numberous promises to you, and breaks them...) if its one of your close friends that you trust though, belive them. And instead of calling him, why dont you go over to his house. talking in person is always btter because that way you can get how hes really feeling/his emotions...if he is sorry for what hes done, i would stay with him... but i understand where your coming from, when youre lied to on numberous accounts, and dont know what to do... but i say just go talk to him in person, find out WHY he lied to you (was it because he knew youd be upset, or was it becasue he was afraid youd tell his parents, theres so many reasons...) and once you get his reasoning, you need to choose whether or not to forgive him.. this is a hard situation, but i know youll be able to figure it out soon enough!! good luck (sorry im not of much help...)
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okay, well heres how it goes..i really like this guy and hes super gorgous and he always makes me laugh. I mean he seems so perfect and i can be myself around him.I feel safe when i'm with him. Well the problem is i like him and i'm pretty sure he likes me but i guess he shy to ask me out. I mean hes not shy when he's flirting with me. well my question is how do i get our relationship to move further .. !!PLEAZE HELP ME!!
Thnks XOXO oh and i will rate for good advice**
oh and i want him to ask me out im not really the type of girl that will ask the guy out. (link)
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Okay this is really wierd.. like really wierd... because im in the exact same situation... he knows i like him... so first off, let him know youre availabe and that you think hes really cute, so pretty much let him know that you like him... then if he gtes the hint (mine didnt seem to get it for about a month til i had to scream in in his face, lol) then be really flirtatious with him... and if you have the guts (which i somehow managed to do... very very suprising!!) ask him if he likes anybody... chances are he will say your name... and if he does be like well i mean were both single... have you ever thought about us... chessy right?? well it works... really really well!! so just make sure he knows how you feel... um and the rest is up to him.. im sorry im not sure what else to say! but good luck!!
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do u think my ex-boyfriend would get jealuse if I hag out with a guy that likes me and flrits with me in frount of him? (link)
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Of course he would be jealous. If he met a girl and hung out with her in front of you, youd feel like you were replaced or that you dont matter anymore. So if you hang out with this new guy, maybe your ex will feel replaced!! But if this guy has already started flirting with you in front of your ex, maybe you should watch his reaction.. if hes all pouty about it, he proably is jealous, and you guys should hang out somewhere other than in front of him!! but if hes off in his own world talkin to his friends.. he probably doest have a problem with it!! I hope i helped!!
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I'm applying to be a bagger at a grocery store. I was wondering if most places require an interview for that kind of job? (I've heard that jobs like that don't even bother with it and just hire on the spot, but wasn't sure.) And if so, what kind of questions do you think they'll ask? Thanx. (link)
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Theyre gonna ask you questions... and 90% of em wont even relate to what your doin!! Just answer them the best you can, most honest answer... (orlie if your not comfterable w/the honest answer...lol) i doubt they would find out!! but its not that big of a deal... the pay here is probably about 5.50... but i think it can range from 5.15-7.00 (plus if your allowed to take tips!! that adds more!!) here are some questions they might ask--
1. So do have you worked anywhere previous to this? (If so, how long did you work there, and why did you quit/ get fired?)
2. Do you participate in any sports?
3. Do you have anyother siblings? And what ages?
4. How do you do in school?
5. Do you get along with people? (in otherwords are you a "people person")
haha i cant think of anymore... but i hope this helps...
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ok so this yr im a freshman & the 1st day i have to bring EVERYTHING! i mean biders books supplies, gywm clothes, gym shoes,,its ridiculous! whats the best way to get it all there without lookin lik a total nerd in front of my new school?!?! (link)
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well if you have the choice, go before school starts and but all your stuff in your gym locker and locker...but if not do what you can to put it in your backpack and carry some stuff... dont stress out about it tho... all those other kids are going through the same exact thing as you!!
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Ok, well i have this friend named heather. and we both like eachother as a boyfriend and a girlfriend, but we live about 30 minuets apart.. so were just friends. And i'm over weight, and im really thinking about not going to see her because of it.. She says my appearence dosen't matter but, i've just been made fun of and stuff soo much i can't believe her until i see her reaction. Someone please help me.
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It doesnt matter to her... thats what she said, right?? i personally dont find anything wrong with weight, and neither do many other girls out there... just make sure when you see her, you look/act confident, thats a huge turn on!! and also wear clothes that make you feel comfterable...sorry i couldnt help much
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I really need help!
I can't fall asleep ever, i'm getting in a really bad habbit, a REALLY bad one. School atarts in less then 3 weeks! And I start school around 6 *thats what time it's suggested that you wake up*
And I dont go to sleep un'till about 3:57 AM or atleast 6:24... Between those times. That means I'd have to stay up for almost 2 days straight!
Are sleeping pills healthy? I really have to get out of this habbit. It's going to ruin my whole school year!
And P.S: I sleep atleast untill 2 in the afternoon, Thats what time school ends. I can sleep through school!
So about the pills, what is a really good brand that really works. How long do they take to work and make you fall asleep (kick in)? I have pill-Phobia for large pills, Do they come in a big size? My parents don't want to spend over $50 for them. They want me to have a good education, do they effect your mood in anyway if you take them? How many do you take?
Sorry it was so long, but im trying to get as much information I possibally can.
Maddy
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I have the same problem... but i sugest not leaning towards sleeping pills... its really dangerous... plus you can get addicted in less then a week, and you wont be able to sleep (much less live) with out them... but if you do end up taking them only take one... i personally drink a glass of milk before bed... it helps your body calm down and kinda puts you in a trance (or at least it does for me) but get all the distractions out of your room too... like if you have a computer maybe thats whats keeping you up, put that downstaris... or if its your phone tell people you need to go to bed by 11 so they wont bother you after that... if thats none of the reasons, try setting your alarm clock for like an 10 or 11 (depending on how much sleep you need) the first couple of days will be hard... but itll make you tired, so the next night you fall asleep earlier... im sorry im not much help! but if you have any other questions, feel free to ask!!
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You have just been PIMP KISSED! Tonight at midnight your true love will realize they like you. something good will happen to you at 1:00-4:00 pm tommorow, it could be anywere.Get ready for the biggest shock in your life. if you break this chain u will be cursed with realtionship problems for the next 10yrs. Send this to 15people (link)
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i guess im cursed.. these things LIE!!!
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hey, lately xangas have been the popular thing, but im getting sick of it...any more cool things i could use? thanks. i rate (link)
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i use myspace.its alot of fun. sort of like xanga, just more like email/IM... and i belive theres a lot more people on it too.. and 99% of people on there have pictures so at least you know who youre talking to (i find taht a very positive thing about it) but yea... umm and i use buddypic too... but its not all that great, sort of insulting (bc people judge your pictures) but you can email to people on there.. .its kind of fun to talk to people you dont know... haha but hope i helped!
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everything is goin great between us or atleast it seems like it...lately he hasnt been tlkin to me as much and stuff like that...i have a feeling sumthing is goin on but i need someone elses opinion
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thats how it was with me and my sorta-bf... we talk all the time, hang out all the time.. and sometimes theyre just lookin for a break.. not always a break up, but you know, time to hang out with their friends or family... i honestly dont think that anything else might be going on, unless you guys hang out and he gets phone calls from people you dont know (girls in particular), or if he starts acting suspicious...if he seems suspicious about the subject, confront him on it, let him know you feel like something else is going on... if hes usually really truthful preson to you, listen to what he has to say, and belive it.. just dont assume anything... if you need anymore help feel free to ask me... hope i helped!!
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So Cheerleading.I love it but this year i didnt do it.It started today and i went and watched my cousion do it.I really started to miss doing it.So now i want to do it again.Im nervoes to tell my mom cause she will probly say i told so.I also dont want to do it because im so darn bussy.What should I do? (link)
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Well when you say your really busy, it probably means you are, so cheerleading would interfere a lot with your other plans (im sorry to say)... but why dont you practice at home and if you have the urge to still do it talk to your mom about it.. im sure she would have no problem gettin you back into it... also... if your mom doesnt want you to pursue cheerleadin, you could try gymnastics... i say you wait it out for maybe a couple of weeks, and then depending on how you feel about it go for it, or leave it, even if your mom says 'i told you so', she may not have a problem with it, but just let her know how important it is to you...im sorry im not much of a help...
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I'm not anorexic i just have a problem gaining weight. I'm 13/f and appx. 93 lbs. i have an extremely high metabolism and can actually loose weight in my sleep.i eat like a pig and i eat constantly. my doctor told me to eat five meals a day but it doesn't work. i've gone to a different doctor and he says i'm normal. i want to gain weight because i get picked on just as much as a heavy kid would and i don't want my bones sticing out. Does anybody with a heigh metabolism know how to gain a quick 10lbs.? (link)
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okay.. im so built the same way... except i am (or was as of like 4 weeks ago) 15 and weigh(ed) 96.. everybody always gives me a hard time about it and i got so fed up of it... actually still am!! but i weigh 111 now... and well what i was told to do.. was definatly higher your dariy and protien... so for me.. in the morning i would drink a glass of milk (apx16oz) and have a bowl of peanut butter (i personally find it gross, but it works out) and also eat some eggs, or some other source of protien... for lunch have a peanut butter sandwich (or 2) and like chips or prezels, another big glass of milk, and then some sort of sweet (just to satisfy the sweet tooth, you know), and then for dinner eat w/e your family is eating, and if its good take seconds haha... umm and for snacks just like a scoop of peanut butter or some sort of nuts (pecans, walnuts, almonds (most protien) or peanuts) then before you go to bed drink more milk.. i kno its a lot to remember... but it really does work.. my dads a doctor and hes alwys tellin me im anorexic and so i asked him how to gain weight, and thats the way he told me.. and it (honestly) works... but just make sure u get lost of protien and dairy!! hope i helped!!
(just wanted to let you know, in case you didnt, peanut butter is pretty much ALL protien, so thats why i said so much about that!!)
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i have had a sugar glider for three weeks now and she still won't let me hold her. i've tried holding a walnut on my hand but she just steals the walnut and runs off. i tried to hold her while she was occupied with her nut but she kinda attacked me. i don't want her to be unsocialized because i don't think i'll get the full enjoyment out of her. Please help me. She's the cutest thing and when you look into her big buggy eyes you just want to hug her. oh yeah, she's a little under a year old if that helps
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okay well first off, sugar gliders are somewhat wild animals... i mean when you walk on the street and see a rabbit, its not gonna come running to you just bc you have a carrot in your hand... so u have to get her adjusted to you first... you have to let her know you dont want to harm her in anyway, as soon as she realizes that she probably wont be as shy... but my brother he made a pouch for his... its like out of felt but if you put her in that you can hold em, cuddle em, or w/e and they wont try to excape b/c they feel safe in that pouch... soo if you dont already have one of those make it... and then once she learns youre harmless, she should get pretty attached!! hope i helped!!
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This is going to sound so stupid. But I've been noticing some hair under my arms and its getting really dark so I want to shave it. The only problem is that my mom and sister shave their underarms but it leaves bumps and little black stubs/dots. Is there anyway that I can shave and not get any stubble? Like if you shave with a certain razoe, is it possible to have NO stubble? Any tips on shaving would be great! Sorry so long. Thanks! (link)
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well theres no razor thatll do it... i mean all razors are pretty much the same... but the way you keep from all that is you use shaving cream (of course) skintimate works realy well... and then for deoderent use Dove.. it works really well and keeps the "stubble" or w/e u call it away for longer... and the deoderent also make it smoother so its less likely you'll end up with razor burn or cuts... hope i helped!!
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ok this school year is gonna suck because i aint gonna be able to buy that many clothes for school...we are broke and my mom has to buy school clothes for 3 kids so i know its hard for her..and shes a single mom...i was just wondering if yall knew any ways that i could make some money to buy my school clothes...i am only 13 so i cant get a job...please help!!...thanks a lot (link)
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well if you are looking for a job, and have some neighbors with young kids, you could try and babysit, or you could walk their dogs, work on their lawn, theres so many jobs you can do, w/o having to leave your neighborhood, you just have to ask around... otherwise, if youre just lookin for places to buy clothes, tj maxx, marshalls, ross, old navy, gap, etc... they all have clothes for pretty cheap, plus theyre cute on top of that, and preppy! or if youre not afraid to be unique, you could mix and match your clothes from last year.... like wear one long sleeved shirt with short sleeved over it.. theres so many styles you can make up one ur own, that i honestly have to admit are really cute!! i hope i helped, if you need anymore advice feel free to ask! rate if you'd like! thanks!! =D
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im just starting cross country...i used to run just for fun but no matter how good of condition i was in i can never keep my breathing normal. i constantly have to keep fighting to get enough air. how can i change this?? thanks in advanced..
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i used to run... and i always had a problem with my breathing... and also my running, oops!! but what ive heard has worked for people, has also worked for me... when youre running you should start out (from the very begining) and go all the way til the end just breathing in through your nose and out your mouth... you need to hold each for bout 2-3 seconds. that helps keep your breathing in a rhythm and within no time itll become a habit when you run... the good part about it i found tho, is it takes your mind off the idea of running... which i personally love, since im not really the running type!!... well i hope i helped, feel free to ask me any questions..
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ok im 13 and i just broke up wit my boyfriend and i said i just wanted to be friends is it normal that we dont talk in person that much anymore? (link)
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that is very normal!! when people break up, depending on how close they are/were usually determines how much theyll talk later... if you guys were really close, i can understand that he would be completly crushed about this, so he may have a hard time talking at first... and if you guys were sortof close, then itll still be hard, but theres more of a chance of you guys talking... right now im just assuming hes really hurt so hes going to do what he can to get away from what cause him to feel that way... so let him get used to the fact that you guys arent together anymore... so wait a week or two and then if he seems better about how hes feeling, approach him, if you still like him (as a friend or if more) ask him to hang out with you... bu invite him in a group so theres less pressure on him... once you guys hang out in a group for a while try talking to him one on one... it may take a while... but he'll come through... hope i helped... feel free to ask me anything else...
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okay im 14,female, i have braces,and i still suck my thumb, i need mucho help! like BAD i need tips. every time i try to stop i just can't its addicting. none of my friends know i do it. please HELP =) thanks ♥♥♥ (link)
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welll i just stopped about a year ago... but i had to go to the dentist and they gave me a bar... it just feels wierd and hurts so you dont wanna do it... that was the only way i could stop... but its pretty pricey... so im not sure what else to say... sorry i coldnt help..
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Already i might seem like a COMPLETE LAME for asking this.. im not a real computer person at all.. i only get on it to help people on this site or to do homework.. i wanted to know what is XANGA everybody mentions it on this site and i have no freakin clue what it is.. so if you explain to me ill be happy to rate high.. loves ya! (link)
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xanga is kind of like a diary... you can write stuff in it... but its not private, so its open for anybody to read, so i suggest if you end up making one, dont put important stuff on there that you dont want certain people to find out...its really fun, i personally think... but its just like a diary, but u can decorate it, like with differnet layouts (backgrounds) and you can add music to it and put on icons... hope i helped..
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Does Abercrombie and Fitch ever have clearances? Thanks! (link)
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well i dont really consider it clearance... but if you go to the back of the store there is always a place where they have all their markdown prices... their shirts are usually marked down to 9.90 or so and the jeans usually range between 29.90 and 15.90... im not sure if all of them are like that (like the stores markdown area) but usually theres some pretty good things back there... hope i helped
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