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okay, well heres how it goes..i really like this guy and hes super gorgous and he always makes me laugh. I mean he seems so perfect and i can be myself around him.I feel safe when i'm with him. Well the problem is i like him and i'm pretty sure he likes me but i guess he shy to ask me out. I mean hes not shy when he's flirting with me. well my question is how do i get our relationship to move further .. !!PLEAZE HELP ME!!
Thnks XOXO oh and i will rate for good advice**
oh and i want him to ask me out im not really the type of girl that will ask the guy out.
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Sounds like you both like each other a lot! Whatever you do, mae sure you show him that you are really interested. When he flirts with you, flirt back. When you go out with your friends, invite him to come along. Go out of your way to make him feel special. Guys fear rejection, so once he knows that you really like him, he won't be afraid to ask you out!
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Okay this is really wierd.. like really wierd... because im in the exact same situation... he knows i like him... so first off, let him know youre availabe and that you think hes really cute, so pretty much let him know that you like him... then if he gtes the hint (mine didnt seem to get it for about a month til i had to scream in in his face, lol) then be really flirtatious with him... and if you have the guts (which i somehow managed to do... very very suprising!!) ask him if he likes anybody... chances are he will say your name... and if he does be like well i mean were both single... have you ever thought about us... chessy right?? well it works... really really well!! so just make sure he knows how you feel... um and the rest is up to him.. im sorry im not sure what else to say! but good luck!!
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Sounds like a great guy. The hard part is getting him to ask YOU out. Try flirting like crazy and get him to open up with you!!! And it doesn't hurt to wait a little for a relationship. Usually, waiting makes it better. By then you've developed love,trust,and honesty with each other that usually guarantees a successful relationship. Since you're a classy gurl, and you want him to make the first move, you have to be patient. I know, sounds hard!!! But really get him to open up and be patient. Sometimes if you rush things, the guy might get blown off. So take things as they come and be patient. I'm sure he'll ask you out soon!!! Hope i helped!!!
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If you want to step up your relationship with this guy, it's either time for some heavy duty flirting or you can just ask him to see a movie/have dinner at your favorite restaurant. It's really easy. I promise. By then he SHOULD get the point and SHOULD ask you out.
You know the drill...if you want something done, you're going to have to do it yourself ;) Even if you're not "the type of girl that asks someone out", it's time you changed and become more confident in yourself and take charge! Because...come on...think about it. Would you rather ask him out and have a better chance of him saying yes...or be too afraid of asking him out and have a chance of letting him go? Mmm? Sure you can wait it out and cross your fingers, hoping he'll ask you out...but is that what you really want? If he never asks you out, you'll never know if he ever liked you and just remember it's your fault!
And if this dude just doesn't work out...remember that there are plenty more to hunt down! Dating is all about bonding with someone, finding what you need and want, and gaining new experiences. If things don't work out...you move on and live life!
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