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k so i've liked this guy since 8th grade(i'm going into 10th)...we've actually been really good friends for almost a year and a half now. I would never tell him how i actually really feel because he's going out with one of my OTHER really good friends,but the other night i snuck out and met this guy at his house...we ended up getting drunk and one thing eventually led to another and we ended up having sex.His girlfriend was out of town for 2 weeks.The next day i went back over there and we ended up drinking again and messing around again. we haven't really mentioned it to each other since...does it sound to you like he was using me since she was out of town? we agreed not to tell her anything. I don't really feel guilty for what I did to her, but for what HE did to her! should i talk to her? or maybe him? please answer this! i need advice! (link)
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ok 1 you shouldnt have gone over there in the first place if she truely is one of your good friends..2 yes both of you should feel bad him for cheating and with her friend and you for being the friend..she deserves to know. 3 yeah he probably was using you if he had to cheat on his g/f to be with you and had to wait for her to be out of town and you had to be drunk..come on now hunny youve helped one of your friends get cheated on and youve been used..idk bout you but id b mad at him and myself for that much.
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ok this boy i liked (mike) asked me out and i was really happy. he asked me to go over his house one day n i did. he asked if we were going to do stuff and i said yes. but i never mad out or n e thing .. can someone please tell me how to , and how do you no when they wanna make out or do something with you? (link)
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ok 1 if hes asking you to come over bcuz he wants to make out with you then he doesnt like you he wants some! i mean damn i think its obvious! he should want you to come over to see you and be with you not so you can "do stuff"
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Hey,
I need some help. Lately my gfs "old friends" are talking about me and trying to get in fights with me....she instsits she loves me more and everything and they call her names on aim and everything and she says we wont talk to them anymore and she asks me if I promise. I say yes and then the next day shes telling me if I want to see her again she HAS to sleep over their house. Also let me note that everytime she sees this so called friend we get in a fight. Last time she slept over her house she snuck out at 2 in the morning to another boys house wich she promised to never talk to again. I think shes lieing to me also...we've been in a ton of fights lately because shes on the computer almost 24/7 talking to people. Also, her parents don't even allow her on aim, she and I have to lie to them about it, when I would rather not go on it at all. Everytime I'm over her house she gets on the computer, then we go to my house, and she gets on, then we go home to our own houses and she gets on right away...she hardly even calls anymore shes to busy on the computer. Then she says online when we get in a fight that I want to break up with her and I don't....now she wants to go to her friends house...what should I do...she makes me cry and throw up almost everynight. What should I do? Should I break up with her? (link)
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ok 1 i give you major props for being a guy open enuff to come on here and tell your feelings..2 yes you deserve so much better i mean you obviously have more feelings for than she does you..and if she letting her friends get in the way of your realationship she doesnt deserve you! break it off and find someone new! good luck!
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mmk.. well i have a boyfriend names lets say larry.. and he has a brother close in age names bob. They are my bestfriends cousins. She doesnt mind eaither.. however larry has liked me since we first met which was about 6 months ago.. and we always see eachother and chill and stuff and i liked bob before but he didnt show any interest besides good friends. I didnt tell anybody about my crush but i started to like larry. So we would talk and say i love you and everything and hug and stuff. However online i talk to his brother bob and he started to tell me he always liked me and woudl tell me how bueatiful i was and everything. So i began some feelings for him but i still liked larry more. Then a month ago from now me and larry started going out. Bob came out and told everyone that he liked me.. oviously that caused aloot of shit to go on in their house they are spanish so they are more aggressive and wen ur their woman ur THEIR woman.. lol and then i was crying almsot everynight cuz i didnt know what to do.. i liked them both they werent talkin because of me and idk.. and so then bob gave upp on me.. so it was good for a while.. untill yesterday... when we all chilled.. and of course some feelings came back.. but i began to flirt and open up to him and uk just be BESTFRIENDS! theeen i began to like him as much or mooore then my boyfriend.. because he was just more mature more open.. more my speed ina relationship.. and idk i just liked him more.. and soo then ic ame home and just criiied.. this is a weird situation.. their parents and my bestfriends parents are close to me and them and are soooooo opinitated and soo they would say something if i just dumped larry and went with his older brother bob.. and it woodnt be niice. Also larry told me that if he ever lost me he would probably kill himself.. and i dont take him as someone who would kill himself but i cant deal with the guilt and the hurtness of him.. and everything and i have NOOOOOO IDEA what to do
im only 14 and idk what "love" is or how to dump a guy for the right reasons and to me dumpin him for him brother isnt the right reason but i cant be with him if he isnt for me and if i like his brother more.. but its his BROTHHHHER!! uk
i need help im so lost and confused plllease tell me waht i can do (link)
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hey omg its so not funny ive been in the same situation almost..see i was dating this guy justin and his older brother shaun told me he had feelings for me and the thing was it was mutual..but i still loved justin to death and didnt know what to do and then shaun came out and told justin so they werent happy with eachother or me bcuz i didnt know what to do..then shaun laid bakk and everything was fine until him and this girl started dating i got my jealous feelings..then they broke up and me n justin broke up and i was going to date shaun but the thing is..THEY ARE BROTHERS. i mean if you really care about "larry" you wont do that to him..i mean if you wait a while after you and larry end it maybe..but leaving him for his brother doesnt work. i kno i sound hipocritical and all but its true. now on the other hand if larry breaks up with you then hello "bob"!lol! good luck!
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half months...and I love him so much. But lately (since we will be in highschool together next year) he is afraid that I am going to dump him for another guy. WUT SHOULD I TELL HIM! I dont really like gurls that much cuz they are snotty in my eyes...so i have guy friends and he gets jealous and we fight. I am a gurl and im 14 wut should i d0?
PLEASE SOME ONE HELP ME!!! (link)
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hey well im a girl and i dont think im snotty lol..but yeah im the same way with my friends i have a lot more guys than girls bcuz girls nowadays seem to judgemental..but i think after four months idk if u can truely love someone but if you do and you know you love him and know youre not gon break up with him let him know..say "i love you and no1 there is going to change my mind about that" and then let him know that your friends ARE JUST FRIENDS and that he shouldnt be worried bcuz he is the only love in your life..but again in my opinion idk if you honestly love him it may just b puppy love and again highschool is a bigger place with more ppl so you never know who you will meet to honestly say u wont break up with him bcuz u cant really know!
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hey, i heard this song on the radio that i love. but i don't know who wrote/performed it (it was a woman though).
some of the lyrics go..
"i held your hand through all of these years"
Anybody know?
i rate (link)
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My boyfriend is a punk and i am like a cheerleader and im like a prep and stuff i dont know if i shold break up with him because later on in life i mean we might not work because he is a punk and he told me to choose him or cheerleading i am half hawaiian so like i have been doing hceerleading since i was 5 and surfing since i was 2
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ok if he really cared about you he wouldnt make you choose but i guess if you want to choose choose cheerleading..youll get more out of that then some boy..they are worthless until its true love..and trust me i dont think this is true love if hes making you choose b/t your sport and your b/f
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I really am inlove with this boy that my family and i have known since in was 2 years old. we are so in love that i think i want him to be my first. i know about safe sex and all and i am 15 but i am planning on spending my life with this guy. we have everything in common and he is so hansom and sweet, not a jock at all. we really want to be with eachother. but i wonder, does it reall hurt that bad the first time, and how do i get him in the mood for sex? (link)
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ok one ppl always say o we are so in love and we'll be together forever but in truth no1 is together "forever"..if you feel you are physically mentally and emotionally mature enuff for this then i say talk to your parents..mother preferably..let them know b4 you do it bcuz there is no such thing as safe sex..the only kind of safe sex is no sex. bcuz the condom can tear or slip or anything like that they arent 100% reliable! but if you both do feel you love eachother and are ready for this then i say go to a movie come back and spend time ogether and let the mood go for itself..there is no certain way to make it happen unless its rape..it just happens.
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when should i look into a boyfriend? i'm 11 now, and i think i'm way too young. whenever i have sex, it will be when i'm married. i will not ever use a condom, because it's against the catholic religion, which i am. so i'll have two kids at the most (maybe). and i will definately be having one child. when should i have a bf? i don't want to go throuhg a break up...should it be when i am old enough to get married, just in casE? (link)
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i think you should start maybe in your freshman or sophmore year of highschool..bcuz you never know when youll be ready to get married and you have to "shop around" and play the feild..youll probably start dating in highschool anyways bcuz youll see all the other couples and maybe find a guy you like..but dont let anyone pressure you to do anything or go against your religion if youre truly dedicated.
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How the hell do you get a tampon it! i have been trying for ever! i even used some KY Jelly and the slender sized ones! i found the hole and all but i just cant get it in! anyone have any tips or anything??!! EMERGANCY! (link)
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well im guessing youre not sexually active if its not sliding in easily the only advice i can give is to sit on the tiolet and this may sound funnii but spread your legs and put the head of the aplicator at the entrance of your vagina amd slant it upward and try sliding it in..if it doesnt work then try other angles but make sure whichever slant makes it go in is comfortable..you may just be one of those ppl who cant wear them..o and yes playtex or kotex are my personal favs and i do like the pearls.
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I have a question that i hope someone can help me with. Is it right to change for a guy? I use to have this one boyfriend that was a punk and I was jusst a normal 13 year old girl. all of his friends were punks to and at that time I was overwhieght and diddn't care about what I looked. Well then all of a sudden my boyfriend just dummped me w/no explanation. And a little while later I started getting into the punk music and cloths and i lost 20 pounds. Now I'm obsessed w/punk music and cloths but i don't know if it's b/c i want him to see what he missed out on or if it's really what i want. About 6 months have passed since my break up w/him. Since our breakup was just b4 the summer no body not even my friends have seen me, so I can't wait till school starts so i can see everyone's reaction esspecially his. But do n-e-of you think this is righ? Pleae someone help me.
Always
Nat (link)
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my personal opinion is that if you like the music and the style then you like it..i think the only way he may be involved is bcuz he is the one that opened your eyes to the style..if you do still have feelings for him and you feel youve changed for him but you like it too then who knows..im sure youre very gorgeous and he'll drop ded when he sees what hes missing!
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im 14 years Old nd i was never kissed or never had a bOy .. my friends say im pretty nd everythin but yeah i dont feel like that ..y ?
o nd hOw can i nOt b shy rOund them its soo hard fo me ??????PLEASE HELp ! (link)
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hey its all good girlie dont wry..every girl and i mean every girl has somthing that she thinks is wrong even tho they are gorgeous..and dont wry about being shy..that right guy will come along and then you will feel right with him..maybe the reason guys dont ask you out or anything is bcuz they feel to good of friends with you or think ur one of the guys..show them youre a chick too..or maybe they dont like your attitude euff to date u..maybe theyre just stupid..after all they are guys
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Hi, my names liza im 14... i have this guy lets call him *Dave* and we were goin out for like 16 months, and then yesterday he calls me sayin "yeah liez i have a gurl her name is kelly and laughs and says i know its gonna piss you off, oh well bye" and i cryed for hours, im still crying right now. i know it was stupid and i dont know what love is... but i really did i was seriously in love with this boy and i cut my like my whole arm up, and did a bunch of stupid things. i really dont know what to do anymore with my life i dont wanna live, i wish i was dead. does anyone have any ideas for me to get him backk or something cause i REALLY wanna get him back... and i dont know how to. s0o pleaseeeeee pretty please someone anyone please help!!!!! :( ill rate you, just please help me... xo liza (link)
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in my opinion you would be just as bad as him if you got revenge..men..no excuse me boyz like that rent worth it..take some time and let it go..hang with friends..maybe some of his..lol..and it will go by i promise!
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My boyfriend, we'll call him *Bob*, and i always fight...like seriously, we can't get through a day with out fighting about something. but i love him with all my heart...and couldn't break up with him even if i tried...but what should i do? i can't handle all the argueing? (link)
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i think that maybe it might be bcuz you spend to much time togeher but im not sure bcuz you didnt state that in your entry..but that could be it..it happens the same way with friends..if not maybe you two need to sit down and talk calmly and make sacrifices..youre both probably stubborn and have to much pride to let the other win..even if he is wrong somtimes let him win...the fighting will cutdown and the realationship will go smoother. you have to remember that men always have to feel dominant..so let him win every now and then without letting him walk all over you!
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ok ive been asking for advice on this one guy1 who asked me out a while back and i sed no to. and i sed i regreted it. well yea i still do and i think i like him. but just tonight by best guy2 friend told me he liked me. i was really shocked. idk wut to do. and then just last night a guy3 told me he liked me to. guy3 sed tonight while i was talking to him that we needed to talk. and i was like ok? and he sed but not tonight tho. and im scared hes gonna ask me out. cuz if he does im gonna be bad cuz i hate saying no to ppl. but i actually have a reason for guy3. and i tell guy2 and guy1 alot of things. guy1 thinks guy3 is gay. and i just laugh about it. guy2 thinks hes desperate(but not about liking me)cuz he liked me sis awhile back. idk wut to do. i gess i like both guy1 and guy2. but i have know clu wut to do. please help lme b4 something else go on. i dont think i can handle all this likingness. please answer quick and ill rate u. im serious i rate alot of ppl. please help thanx.
signed
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well i would tell guy3 that you dont have those types of feelings for him yet he is still a good friend..and you said you "guess" you like guy one and two but in my opinion if you dont know for sure than you really dont. In my mind i think you just dont want to lose either one of their effection just in case you do turn out to like them. Hunnii if you dont like them now and you do later on down the line im sure they will too. Let them know whats going on bcuz otherwise they will know somthings up and get suspicious.
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