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he told me that if he ever lost me he would probably kill himself!
mmk.. well i have a boyfriend names lets say larry.. and he has a brother close in age names bob. They are my bestfriends cousins. She doesnt mind eaither.. however larry has liked me since we first met which was about 6 months ago.. and we always see eachother and chill and stuff and i liked bob before but he didnt show any interest besides good friends. I didnt tell anybody about my crush but i started to like larry. So we would talk and say i love you and everything and hug and stuff. However online i talk to his brother bob and he started to tell me he always liked me and woudl tell me how bueatiful i was and everything. So i began some feelings for him but i still liked larry more. Then a month ago from now me and larry started going out. Bob came out and told everyone that he liked me.. oviously that caused aloot of shit to go on in their house they are spanish so they are more aggressive and wen ur their woman ur THEIR woman.. lol and then i was crying almsot everynight cuz i didnt know what to do.. i liked them both they werent talkin because of me and idk.. and so then bob gave upp on me.. so it was good for a while.. untill yesterday... when we all chilled.. and of course some feelings came back.. but i began to flirt and open up to him and uk just be BESTFRIENDS! theeen i began to like him as much or mooore then my boyfriend.. because he was just more mature more open.. more my speed ina relationship.. and idk i just liked him more.. and soo then ic ame home and just criiied.. this is a weird situation.. their parents and my bestfriends parents are close to me and them and are soooooo opinitated and soo they would say something if i just dumped larry and went with his older brother bob.. and it woodnt be niice. Also larry told me that if he ever lost me he would probably kill himself.. and i dont take him as someone who would kill himself but i cant deal with the guilt and the hurtness of him.. and everything and i have NOOOOOO IDEA what to do
im only 14 and idk what "love" is or how to dump a guy for the right reasons and to me dumpin him for him brother isnt the right reason but i cant be with him if he isnt for me and if i like his brother more.. but its his BROTHHHHER!! uk
i need help im so lost and confused plllease tell me waht i can do
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hey babe wats up?! i feel sooo bad for u ur situation is really tough and im thanking god righta bout now that my bf's brother is 17! anywho tho i think u need to go with ur instinct, bob but thers gotta b sum way that wont hurt larry to much to tell him so u might jus want to call him and b like hey larry its so and so and well lately iv ben feeling that u need to hav more n a relationship or sumthin like that and then be like and i really like bob and i no this really suks and im really really sry and i stil want to hang out with u and b friends but umm i need to break up with u. thats how i would do it bcus to make other ppl happy first u hav to b happy and if ur not then wats the point! u hav to do wats right for u girl no matter wat. about the kill himself thing i think larry is being a little melodramatic and probly doesnt mean it. if u really think he does u should tel sum1. im about the same age as u r and no1 nos wat love is yet so u gotta go for wat u do no like hoo u like and thas n ur heart so good luck write to me sum time
hope ur sit. gets better
<3 fran
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hi, well...damnnnnnnn dats huge prob there...hmm honestly i feel ur pain cuz i wouldnt kno wut to do...but i'mthinkin n in my opinion u should b wit who u like more! may be tell larry that u need some time off b/c u dont know wut u want..n ur feeling a lil confused...n ur not sure wut u feel bout him...so tell him to take a break...but also tell him that u dont promise to go back wit him...tell him to "see other ppl"...wit time hopefully he'll see other gurls...n w/e...n then u see his brother or w/e...i dunno or u might change ur mind bout both of them or i dunno...u never know wussup...plus ur young..so...anyways just take some time off n then decide :) xoxo effy best wishes
if anything else then holla at yr gurl :)
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hey omg its so not funny ive been in the same situation almost..see i was dating this guy justin and his older brother shaun told me he had feelings for me and the thing was it was mutual..but i still loved justin to death and didnt know what to do and then shaun came out and told justin so they werent happy with eachother or me bcuz i didnt know what to do..then shaun laid bakk and everything was fine until him and this girl started dating i got my jealous feelings..then they broke up and me n justin broke up and i was going to date shaun but the thing is..THEY ARE BROTHERS. i mean if you really care about "larry" you wont do that to him..i mean if you wait a while after you and larry end it maybe..but leaving him for his brother doesnt work. i kno i sound hipocritical and all but its true. now on the other hand if larry breaks up with you then hello "bob"!lol! good luck!
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