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Virginity
I really am inlove with this boy that my family and i have known since in was 2 years old. we are so in love that i think i want him to be my first. i know about safe sex and all and i am 15 but i am planning on spending my life with this guy. we have everything in common and he is so hansom and sweet, not a jock at all. we really want to be with eachother. but i wonder, does it reall hurt that bad the first time, and how do i get him in the mood for sex?
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this depends: has he ever done it?
hope this helps,
chynna
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Awwwwwww.
If the guy's big, and you don't use tampons much or whatever, it's probably gonna hurt. It hurt like hell for me because I never used tampons, lol. It doesn't hurt everyone, but it hurts a lot of people.
To get him in the mood, you just have to know how to turn him on...Act all sexy, dress revealingly, tease him a lot. Kiss him, etc...you'll figure out what he likes in no time, lol. Guys are really obvious as far as turn ons go, lol. Good luck, have fun, and be safe!
-Siren =)
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It hurts some girls really bad, but other girls just feel a little discomfort/pain. To get him in the mood, you gotta know his turn-ons. Just kiss him, run your hands through his hair and down his back and go on from there. :) good luck:)
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Hi darling,
Congratulations! Sounds like you're sure you've found the right one. Talk with your partner about sex and your worries and make sure your first time is well planed and not rushed - it makes it all the more special that way. Theirs no reason why sex should hurt even the first time, generally that's just a myth but why not talk your worries through with a sex/relationship councillor or even your family doctor? If you where wondering if 15 is an OK age to have sex then the answer is: YES, of course as long as you both feel ready. One more thing don't be put of my certain people (I'm thinking mainly your parents) who may just dismiss your relationship as a 'teenage crush' or make comments like 'they think there in love'. Love can come at any age and many people find the right one, the one they stay with forever at 15 and even younger. God bless and good look
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Ok i cant tell you from my own experience because i'm still a virgin myself but everyone is different, I've heard it hurts and i heard it wasnt that bad. To get a guy in the mood you can like make out then like either give him a hand job or head and what not, then go from there to sex. Good luck! and be safe!
-holly-
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ok one ppl always say o we are so in love and we'll be together forever but in truth no1 is together "forever"..if you feel you are physically mentally and emotionally mature enuff for this then i say talk to your parents..mother preferably..let them know b4 you do it bcuz there is no such thing as safe sex..the only kind of safe sex is no sex. bcuz the condom can tear or slip or anything like that they arent 100% reliable! but if you both do feel you love eachother and are ready for this then i say go to a movie come back and spend time ogether and let the mood go for itself..there is no certain way to make it happen unless its rape..it just happens.
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Well if you are sure you're "planning on spending my [your] life with this guy", I don't see why you are in such a hurry to have sex. I think if you two wait a while, say until marriage, you will both cherish it a whole lot more. Your first time should be full of love and no regrets. Just think about it -- it's a big step, but your call. I wish you the best!
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Dont you think your kinda young? You are supposed to wait till your married. But if you cant wait till you are married then wait till at least your over 18!! If yall love each other enough then it should not be a problem!! (rate me) **Kelli**
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Are you sure he wants to have sex yet? You might want to talk to him, and make sure that you are totally ready. If you ever want to talk about "what it's like" the first time you do have sex...My sn is KateStar1011.(AIM) I've not done anything yet...but I do know a lot about it. I'm here to listen hun. <3
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Dont you think your kinda young? Why dont you wait awhile and make sure he wants to have sex.. not just to have sex but because it means something... but i am sure it does hurt-trix
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