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My names Britney, I go by Brit. I'm a senior in high school. I've been through a lot so I know pretty much anything. I'm really outgoing and I love to have a good time. So any queustions, just ask!

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i have a coughing problem and i have no idea what im going to do because it comes so fast and at random times its ruining my life!! okay so in class il just be sitting and il get this feeling in the back of my throat and sometimes its only on one side, and it will make me gag if i dont cough!! and when i do cough my eyes get all watery, and the itchy/weird feeling in my throat wont go away. il have some water and itl go away but then it will come back. im not sick, and this comes only at random times and i always make a big scene cuz i gotta get up and go to the bathroom cuz its so loud and..bad. i hate the feeling!!!! somebody PLEASE HELP ME! ive tried coughdrops/water/gum and it doesnt help!

You might have a sinus problem, stuff drips in your throat and it clings on to your throat, but are you taking any medicine? Because if you are then your probably allergic to it. Becuase I was taking this one kind of medicine and it really bothered my throat and it made it itch really bad like seriously I would take something and shove it in my throat just to scratch it. And I went to the doctors and it turned out I was allergic to it. But when you do get that problem just carry some water with you and drink it and just clear your throat. But maybe you should see a doctor. Good luck

My cousin's family invited me to go on a cruise with them to Cancun and Cozemel. I really want to go but if my cousin and I spend at least 2 hours together, we don't get along. She will get mad at me and I will have no one to hang out with because her dad's side of the family is coming, too (I don't know them because we're not related) But this is a once in a lifetime opportunity...Should I go or no??

You should go, because if you don't you'll regret it and that's not good. If you and your cousin do start to fight or you think something is going to lead to a fight just apologize right then and there and let your gaurd down. I mean it would be different if it was your side of the family but don't let stupid fights get in your way of having fun. Good luck.

there are some songs i want on a cd but it's only about 5 songs so i need more so i don't waste a cd..what songs should i put..i like pop...some rap..and r&b...it doesn't have to be a new song..

50-cent - love it or hate it, piggy bank
Destiny Child - Cater 2 you
Jennifer Lopez ft Fat Joe - Hold you down

Er I can't think of that many but look up a site like lyricstop.com it shows you all new songs that come out.

i'm about to have a bath and wash my hair, can you help? every time i wash my hair, i use pantene pro-vo, then i blow dry it, and it's really frizzy, even when i use all the frizz ease products on it. how can i stop the frizz? is there any particular way to wash my hair, or how to rinse it easily after putting in shampoo/conditioner? when i've got out of the bath, what should i do to my hair? i have stuff like gel spray, mousse, frizz ease, heat protection spray, hair straighteners, hair spray and stuff like that, but i'm not sure what to use and in what order, because i really need to stop the frizz tomorrow, i get really fluffy/flyaway hair and i'm getting teased because of it =(

I used to have this problem. When I put conditioner in my hair I comb throw it and then let it sit for a min and then wash it out. But after wards I dry my hair with the towel. And then i put biosilk in my hair. It's for frizzy hair, its a heat protection and it makes your hair really soft. It cost about 10 dollars and it really works. You should give it a try.

Good luck

Hey , I have a question. I have this like lump sort of thing inside of my breast. I'm not sure what it is. I don't think that it is breast cancer.. but I really don't know what else it could be. Help please! I'm freaked out.

P.S. I'm 13.

Go to the doctor, my friend had a lump in her boob and the doctor gave her medicine and it went away.

Does anyone have or had scoliosis? and had to have surgery?? if so what was it like? thanks!

I have it but if you do some therapy it should start to get better. But I guess since yours is bad your getting it. I don't think mines that bad to get surgery but I'm sure you'll feel something. I doubt it would be a painless procedure but you'll be fine so dont' worry about it. Good luck.

hey... you have me as youre favorite columnist! im maria2653 just to tell ya. i really like youre backround. where did you get it? i know i dont know you but we can write to eachother. put a message in my inbox if you want. thanks
-maria(thats is my real name)

yeah I search on google for it and I found this website - http://chaguilera.free.fr/. It has a whole bunch of pictures of Christina Aguilera. By the way thanks:0).

How can you get a faster matabalism?

I heard drinking green tea makes your metabolism go faster. Good luck. xox

My friend is soo depressed, that everytime I'm with her, she brings me down too. And I try to cheer her up, but she just gives me one of those fake smiles. It is breaking up our friendship now, and I don't want that to happen. What do I do to help her?!

Aww I'm sorry. It's kind of hard to bring your friend up when she's down like that. Try taking her somewhere really fun. Like if you go to the mall or somewhere, bring a camara and take funny pictures of each other. Or take pictures of people you don't even know without their permission and laugh at some of the expressions that make when you do that, its really funny. Just try something that she used to enjoy. Since she is depressed she probably hasn't done anything really fun so do something really fun. If that doesn't work, make her talk to you, I know she'll want to talk about it but she'll probably hesitate at first. Don't let this break up your friendship, she really needs you. Just imagine if you were depressed, what would you want? People that are depressed don't like to open up so just try and talk to her. Good luck.

my friends stepdad molested her last night and i dont no what to do. i no i NEED to be there for her. and her mom said that if they cant find another house to buy they are moving over an hour away. which means i will probably never see her again. she is like my best friend. someone please help me. it has just hit me that i might not ever talk to her again. someone please help. i have been crying a lot...

AWWW I'm sooo sorry to hear about your friend. But meanwhile you can help them find a house or apartment. Help them look for one so maybe they can stay near you or something. I have no clue what so ever what to tell your friend but make sure she knows that your there for her.

Yes, I realise that these questions are asked ad finitum, but mine is SLIGHTLY different, so please hear me out!
I'm having problems with spots but I have INCREDIBLY sensitive skin - concealer, spot sticks, even tea tree oil sets me off in huge rashes. I've tried all sorts of face wipes and washes, including Garnier, Clearasil, Clean and Clear, WitchHazel, and Skin:Naturals, but none of them seem to do anything much for me. Does anyone know of any more 'natural' or 'home' remedies that I could use and are suitable for sensitive skin? I'm talking about both the occasional spot and all over here. Thanks!! xxx

I heard that if you take a bath in oatmeal. Like pour a bath and then pour oatmeal in and it just rub it all over your skin it helps. I don't know I hear my grandmother talk about it all the time because my brother has sensitive skin. But if I was you I would go to the doctor. The medicine will probably help you more than oatmeal.

good luck.

I have been really sick since thursday and iam terrified of doctors. the probelm is that i get really high fevers and they dont come down . is there any medication that i could take that would not only bring my tempurature down along with getting better? (i have the flu)

Everytime I used to get fevers when I was young my mom would put me in a cold bath with ice. It was horrible but it brought down my fever. And I used to drink really cold drinks. I hope you get better, I hate the flu.

Good luck.

Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship.

Most girls think that because most guys do want sexs. I mean theres alot of guys that do want relationships, but you always hear that "he was using her for sex, blah blah". And alot of times girls say that because that incident has happened to them.

Every time i chew something like gum or a meal..my jaw pops/clicks. Anybody know why..or how to stop this? thanks a bunch!

LOL i know this sounds stupid but it might be lock jaw. Some place near your ears there is a hinge where everything is connected and if its out of place it pops and clicks. Sometimes if it gets really bad you can't close your mouth all the way. Your jaw is like dislocated. I get it sometimes but it's not that bad, and it goes away in a few days, there's nothing you can do.

my dog bites alot, we can not stop him. sometimes he is good somtimes he is bad. how do i cure his problem?

smack him everytime he bites and yell at him. It sounds kind of stupid but he'll most likely stop if you do it. good luck

this i guy i like is touching me a lot lately not like i'm complaining but he today he touched me in the stomach and he was hugging me today once again. we are cuddling a lot does this mean anything? he knows i like him and he likes me too.

This goes both ways, he might like you for real, or he might be using you. So be careful. If he knows you really like him then he'll think that he can take a advantage of you. Good luck.

yes.. ok so i poked my mom's eye with a clothing hanger.. it was by accident. we were taking about how she sits at home and does nothing while my grandparents hafta take care of my brother and sister who is 2 and 5... ya she started hitting me and then i was all like "stop hitting me" and then i accidently poked her in the eye and then i said sorry and then she started crying really loudly like how she does when my dad and her start fighting and they make eachother bleed and bruise all over.. yes.. screwed up.. neway ya.. after she called my dad to gimme crap about poking her she started dragging me across the floor and hitting me and crap and then i told her to go to hell.. ehh.. ya.. so wut am i supose to do now? i'm not calling child helpline or w/e..

Ahh I'm sorry. How old are you? It sucks when you have no where to go besides where your at now. Is there anyway you could go live with your grandparents? I really don't know what to tell you. When my parents hit me I just hold really long grudges and they apologize, but that might not be for you. Talk to your friends or something maybe they can hellp you. Good luck.

i am in two classes that has people that make fun of me so should i just ask my mom to talk to the principal so they can put me in a new classes? or should i stay there?

If he bothers you that much get your classes changed. Telling your mom in the principal will only make it worse. They will make fun of you for going there, especially if you get them in trouble.

well my boyfriend is really sick! and he is in the hospitol and i am worried about him! and i want to go and see him and he hasn't told me that he is there cause he doesn't want me to see him like that and hes afraid that i won't like him cause hes sick! but his mom called and told me and in 3 days we would be going out for 3 months, so i was wondering if i should go see him then? and to tell him that i do care about him and i don't care if hes sick or not because i love him? soo just let me now wat u think and if its the right idea?

Aww its a really good idea to go see him. Then he knows you really care about him. You should buy him something to make him feel better. I hope he gets better. Good luck.

ok well my bf and i we hang out all the time! and hes the sweetest guy ever and i love him to death but neways when we go out to places or we watch movies he makes fun of gay people! and it kinda pisses me off but i don't say anything i just laugh cuz i don't wanna lose him! but the reason why it makes me mad is cuz my step brother is gay! and i don't know how to tell him that he is and that it bothers me! HELP

The next time he says that be like shut up my brothers gay. And maybe he will stop. And if you lose him he isn't worth the time because if he can't respect your the brother he can't respect you.

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