Untouched1's

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i love my bf a lot hes a very good person hes never done anything to hurt me but sumtimes i just get really paranoid and i feel like i cant trust him i think too much and im like what if this what if that even tho i have no reason to not trust him how can i stop being so paranoid?

u have to learn to trust him better cause if you dont your relationship is going to go down in flames in the long run if u dont start trusting him and everything, and just dont think about it as much
-Cass-

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Okay, I have only had my period twice now, well 2 weeks of it. I don`t think that made since, but ok. I`m only use pad because i`m scared to use a tampon. Do they hurt? How does it feel when you stick it in. lol sorry that sounded sooo wrong. =/

it doesnt hurt but when you use it you have to relax and everythign or it will hurt when it goes in cause your not use to it
-Cass-

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how do you know when you are truly in love with a guy and how do you know when it is the right time to tell him?

Its up to you when you know that your truly and honestly in love with a guy and you tell him when it feels right you always ask yourself that question cause no one can answer that but you and your heart
-Cass-

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is it true that you can use a tampns during ur period and still swim??!?!?!

yes
-Cass-

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i want to get something for my boyfriend who i have been going out with for 2 years on june 26th, 2004. i feel like gettin him something or making him something just because ... anyone have any ideas ?

What i have done in the past if you have pictures of you two together take them or scan them and everything make copies and take a jar and put the pictures on the out side of the jar and fill the jar with memories you guys have had together or just inside jokes that you two only know or whatever then put like candy or a rose ini the middle of the jar...You could also mke a mini scrap book for him of you two together with pictures of your friends if you want i know that my bf loved these both but its up to u
-Cass-

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okie well i want to have guys over n i want to go to gusy housess to hang out but im a lil scared to ask my mom if i can hang out cuz me n my mom r rele tight n she might makefun of me bt neways how do i ask her w. out having to b scared

i rate good

just tell her that its like a little get together or somethingand you and some friends are going over there to just hang out or whatever visa versa and everything i think that she woud be cool with it if your already taht close
-Cass-

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is it weird that i don't like anyone? i mean all my friends obsess over who they like, but i seriously can't think of anyone that i like. and im 14!

you may only be 14 but there are some many guys out there yeah they might not be the ones that are aroudn you or whatever but i mean there is some one out there that youll begin to like they just havent showed up yet
-Cass-

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how do you heal a sprained wrist?

go to the doc and they will but a brace on it
-Cass-

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i have fallen in love with my best guy friend, and i told him that i love him he said that he loves me back, but says that i just cant be. we hug, kiss and are all over eachother, but we're not dating, and everytime i bring it up to him he just says " it just cant be right now". i feel hurt but yet i cant stop thinking of him. what should i do? am i obsessed? ( i am 13/female )

i think that you just need to talk to him and everything i mean he has to understand the way your feelings are becomeing and all i mean he cant say that he doesnt want what you want when you kiss and everything like that i mean you dont just kiss some one to kiss them you have to kiss them for a reason and maybe hes just afraid that he will lose his bestfriend by becoming more then just friends
-Cass-

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OK heres the thing me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year, and hes a grade younger than me, so next year ill be in a different school an im wondering if othr people are goin to make fun of me and stuff, i rlly like him but im afraid that it might ruin my reputaion, also im afraid wht will appen if he was to brake up wit me? will my reputaion be ruined forevr? PLEASE HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!!

Just because hes in a grade lower then you shouldnt keep you from loving him and everything what you do in your relationship is your own personal business no one elses but yours and his and i mean if you honestly care what people think that you honestly dont really care enough to just let it surpass and everything if you love him then dont let others get in the way of that you do what you want to do in your relationship no more can control that but you and him
-Cass-

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you know how pac-sun has those cute shirts that have stuff about boys and all..and their really cute..do you know any other stores that have them?

hollister and abercrombie
-Cass-

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Is 8 months a long time to go out with someone when your 14?

I dont think so i have been with my bf since i was 14 and now im 17 and thats 4 years
-Cass-

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On Friday I was with this boy it was our first time hanging out we've been friends for almost a year. We made out and stuff and he went up my shirt. He kept asking to finger me and I said no and then he would ask again and again. I dunno I think this is a little werid don't you? We're not going out like bf and gf but I can see us doing that. I really do like him but should I let him?? and please don't tell me o0o wait until ur comforable bc I don't want him doing it then never talking to me again. sry if this is long

oh sweetie i mean yeah im going to say do what your comfortable with and all but i cant cause you said so and i mean if this guy likes u and all then i mean it wouldnt hurt but its all up to you
-Cass-

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-Cass-
I think I might be bipolar because of a lot of reasons. 1. It runs in my family (my dad's side) 2. because sometimes I become very mad, depressed, lonely, ect all for no reason. It just kinda hits me. 3. I take all my anger out on people who aren't involved! Like if I'm mad about something that my friend did I'll take it out on my mom! 4. I often consider sucide! I never do it I just imagin about it a lot. Like I can see me killin myself and my family finding out and my funeral and everything. 5. I think of very gory ways to commit sucide or hurt myself. (even though I never do them) sometimes I ever write goodbye letters. Please help me! I'm starting a new school and I dont want to be affected by this. And I dont know how to tell my parents. :(

i think that you need to cause there are ways of helping you with this stuff and u cant do it alone you need to tell them sweetie im here if you need me more
-Cass-

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im not in any of my friends classes and i feel depressed ive had such a bad day.. and im really starting too get back at the "im ugly" stage

[its not really about advicenators]

i think that you just need to chill yeah that happend with my friends too and everything but i mean youll still see them and everything
-cass-

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What the hell does IDK mean?

i dont know thats what it means

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wut does eat u mean? also i reallllly like this guy and hes gonna prob ask me out idk, but if he does we'd maybe makeout, and he has b4 but i havent im soo freaked out! come some1 plz help!

eat u means wen a guy goes down on you and good luck with the making out just stay cool
-Cass-

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my bf and i have been together 4 2 yrs now.. we love eachother completly and we trust eachother and all.. my parents r really strict and they dont noe im wit him! i found out tat my bf is going to another skool so he can improve his grades.. n i really dont mind i meen i do cuz im not gunna see him as much but i trust him and he told me tat no matter wat we r gonna b together.. he said tat we could see eachother during the weekends n stuff but i dnt think ill b able to see him tat much and i donno im scared about the whole thing.. any advice would b helpful.. tanx

i mean if you love him trust the fact that youll see him and everything i mean i woud if i were you and all i know that you can do it, it will be hard at first but you'll learn to work around it
-Cass-

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hi im 14 yeears old and i hasve had my period for quite awhwile, when i was 13, i have been using tapons for almost the hole time when i was taking it out it hurt and i couldn't get it out i looked and theres like a piece of skin not liek a piece but its suppose to be there, the string got hooked around it and i had to untangle it to get it out, is that normal??

I think that you might need to go get checked out by a doctor cause that doesnt sound normal
-Cass-

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My best friend and i are practically sisters and now my mom mite have to move into another state because of her job in the next 2 years. I kinda want to move because where we live- everything is boring and nothing ever happens it seems like- and our house is teenie tiny and i wish we had a new one- and we can afford one- but i really don't want to leave her. We grew up together and we are like all each other ever had!! My parents are asking me about my opinion on this and i don't know what to tell them. I know i'll have friends there but i will never find one like her. I could probly visit her a lot too. Just i dunno how i will be if we do move- i am scared.

u need to tell teh rents how you feel cause if you dont they wont understand you when your crying maybe or something over the fact that you miss your bbf and everything you need to talk to them trust me
-Cass-

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