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Hi All, My name is Tara, 22 yrs breathing, and living in Houston, TX. BORN AND RAISED... I am currently a Junior at UH, and work at a school. I am an education major... so as you can see my life is devoted to service and I love watching my students grow in character and learning abilities.... I will try to answer advice honestly and to the best of my abilities....

I've been through alot of ups and downs, but they have yet to stop me... I was that go to friend when my friends had problems as well...

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Can you tumble, if yeah what can you do?

Ummm, I really don't kinda consider it tumbling, but the Competitive squad made us do Round-off toe-touches, seems pretty complicated to meeh. But I am about to learn how to do a round-oo back handspring. (I'm very big, so I am proud of what i can do :) )

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i dunno wat to do i liked this guy alot and he did for a while and i feel like he lead me on and today he asked out this other girl im sooo hurt wat should i do??

Let it go! It's not worth the wait, try to find someone else you may like.....good luck! beebyes!

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okay im a girl and i havent gotten my period since like the middle of august, and theres no way im pregnant ive never done anything with a guy cept making out and that cant make you pregnant, so i have no idea why im not getting my period. i got my first one like around xmas 2002 so culd it just be irregular? what culd make it stop? is there sumthing wrong with me? anyone help me please! im kind of scared!

It's Just Irregular, body changing, I was actually on my period for 4 months straight last year around this time, so I went to the gyn (female) doctor and she put me on birth control, so don't freak out, wait mabye one month and if it still dosen't come you may consider going to see a doctor. Hope this helps, good luck, god bless, and I am sure everything will be fine! :)

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i need a homecoming date and all these girls wanna go with me but i dont no who to take. i like them all but none more then the other. i dont wanna make ne of them feel bad. wuts a good way to pick the right one?

A good way to pick the right one is by not picking ANY! Go by yourslef, and you can dance with ALL OF THEM! Hang out wich cha boiz, and yall can dance with them all. Then they can't get mad cause they got their dance in! Hope this helpz, EnJoY YoUr HoMeCoMiNG!

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me 15 boyfriend 17

ok..well i cheated on my boyfreind twice..n he says he loves me alot n i belive him n i really care for him alot...i jst don't know y i did it! but i talked to him tonite about it n he said if i ever cheated on him hed dumb me...so it was jst a plan out emotional convo...n i told him he shouldn't love me cuz i think i might mess up n cheat on him...cuz thats wat happened w/ the last guy that meant alot to me...well i'm scared that i'm goind to cheat on him n i don't want that to happen...but then i don't want to lose him cuz i really love him alot...wat should i do?

First of all, I'd like to congratulate you on being honest about cheating, it's takes a big person to do somthing like that. But now to the bad news. That's not coo, you know that if it was vice-versa you'd have a fit, and would prolly wanna dump him....so you need to let him know what your doing, and let him decide for himself what he wants to do, and if your lucky enough, he could possibly take you back. Hope this somewhat helps! God Bless, Beebyes!

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I really like this guy... lets call him M. Well M is SO incredibly nice, and hes cute and funny too! We're good friends, so he's usually easy to talk to. I wanna talk to him, about being more than friends though, because I really like him... Well, everytime I go to talk to him, I can't. I guess he intimidates me because he's so GREAT. How do I approach him without seeming nervous or unconfident?

BeEh YoU! Don't let him go gurl! He sounds like a keeper! Be calm and jux approach him....if you really really think about it, what is the worst that can happen? Are you gonna lose your life over this? NOPE! Boiz come and go but FRIENDS are forever! So yeah, take a chance, if you never ask you'll never find out, but if he says no, who's loss is it? HIS OF COURSE! Take a chance! May God Bless and Good Luck! Beebyes!

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im 13 and never had a boyfriend. How old were you when you got your first boyfriend??

I was 14 one month before turning 15....boiz are so complicated! :-D But can't live without them...

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i was just wondering, what's a "redneck" ?

A Caucasion Person (if that is how you spell it)

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Well my boyfriend was here today and we were makeing out and he got my shirt off and then i told him to stop but i love him so much and we could of had sex but i told him to go home and he knows what makes me feel better and stuff like that well he was kissing my neck (which i like ALOT) and then he took my shirt off. I then told him to go home and but i think i am ready (well at least i think so) What do you think is wrong?

Your not ready. Your smart... You care enough about yourself stop what was happening. They all say sex abstinance is worth it in the future, so that's what I am doing. Honestly, I think you should wait, but it's your body and you can do what you want with it...So nothings wrong, your jux not ready. I hope you understand! Good Luck & God Bless! Beebyes!

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okay well my two best friends go out... why does that bother me i mean i dont have feelings for my friend [hes a boy] but why does it bother me?? please answer people keep sayin i like him but i dont i need help soon

I hate to break it to ya, but you do have feelings for tha boi. As much as I didn't wanna admit it about my best friend, I gave in. I understand you denyin that you like him, but I think you tryin to deny it cause you don't wanna like him when you do. The only thing In can say is to stay away from them when they together. It's the only thing that will prevent the feelings from comming if they haven't. Well I hope you understood this & I hoped I helped. Good Luck & God Bless! Beebyes!

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Where can I find lyrics to songs at. I tried www.dapslyrics.com but it wont let me in. Thanks.

www.lyrics.co.nz

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Hi my name is Jess i have this really really close guy friend who has been my friend since 1st grade now he has a g/f and i dont like him but for some reason i feel jealous. Could anyone tell me y im jealous?

Because you would give the world just to be with that person. And no matter how many times you tell them how much you care for them, they shoot you with the same speech "I like you better as a friend" Believe me, I have been through the same thing. The only thing you can do is move on. Try not to be around him when his girlfriend is there....that's what I have to do. But yeah, see if you can move on cause you are the one who knows how you really feel about him, and I guess he dosen't wanna discover it. I hope I help! God Bless, Good Luck! Beebyes!

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okay this guy i love him truly with all of my heart and i really wanna marry him we were together for over 2 yrs. and well we broke up last thursday.. and well he told me that he truly loves me that he wants to be back with me but he dosen't want me 2 hurt him anymore which i admit that i've done some stupid things but i'm truly srry for them and it would never happen again. but the thing is their's this other girl that sorta like him and he likes her a little bit but i can't stand seeing them together and i told him that i can't seeing them together and well he said that' he's doing it for us to see that i'm really the one for him i don't know what to do
and to make matters worse i think i'm pregnant

If he said it's his test, then your jux gonna have to accept it. Love takes time, Love is Patient....but you think you pregnant? You need to get it confirmed first and then let him know if you are or not. I hope this somewhat helped...God Bless! Good Luck! Beebyes!

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im really confused. I like the girly look, but i also like the punk-rock look. I listen to both kinds of music. i dont know what i should dress like this year. what do you think?

Dress Both! It's your style and wear whatever you feel comforterable in! :)

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i am in 8th grade and i never had a b/f and no one has ever asked me out!!! is that normal or am i like idk weird or sumtin

Yeah it's normal....nothing is wrong with you. Love is very blind....so just keep on smiling cause you never know who's falling in love with it. I promise you it works. I finally got a boyfriend at the end of my 9th grade year but we broke up. Now I can't get one either. But I say stay true to yourself, and be independent! Then later in life you'll be more successfull! Good Luck! And God Bless! Beebyes!

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My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*(

What the hell was he thinking???? OF COURSE (to me) you can still get pregnant! Sounds to me like he tryin to get you pregnant or whatever.....beeecareful if your not ready for babiez, might wanna stick to condoms. Well hope this somewhat helped! Good Luck! God Bless! Beebyes!

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does age matter cause im 13 almost 14 n i like a 17 year old n a 18 year old n my friend is bout ready to get me n the 18 year old out..plz help me

That's not bad as long as he respects you and your body (as a friend I mean). I liked a guy who is turning 21 and I am 16, but he won't mess with me because we are 5 years apart, and because he respects me and my family. So we are so-called jux friends. I hope this helps. Age ain't nothing but a number but beeeeeee careful! Good Luck! God Bless! Beebyes!

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Ok, i'm 13/f and my neighbor is 14/f, we were talking one night and it was like 9:00 so it was dark, so i went in the basement and he followed, i was putting the laundry in the washer and he came up behind me and put his arms around me, i liked it so i turned around then he kissed me and we made out, a lot. we went in the very back yard on the picnic table, no one can see it cuz its too far back, and he layed on it and i sat on his tummy, he had his hands on my ass and we makeout more then he fingered me and rubbed my boobs, and we made out more then we had to go in cuz it was 11:00, we were going to do something like that again but i went on vacation, and now i havnt seen him, should i bring it up or never do it again? was it wrong of me? we have also talked about sex, i want to but i dont want the condom to break, what shold i do about everything??

First of all, TOO YOUNG! I don't think you need to worry about sex anyway right now. I'm tellin you life right now at ur age will be much better off without sex cause boyz bring babies. If you wait, the future will be much brighter than you think! It's more than likely worth the wait! I really hope you think about this and make the right decision! God Bless! Beebyes! :D

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I'm 15 years old & have been with my boyfriend for a few months. He's not a virgin and he's done sexual things with many girls. He told me he was ready to have sex whenever I was. I feel like I don't live up to his old girlfriends and that I'm such a good girl - being a virgin & unexperienced. I'm a little scared to have sex but when will I know I'm totally ready and mature enough to do it? Is it that wrong to not be sexually experienced at 15?

WAIT A MIN! You honestly honestly don't need to be having sex right now REALLY! If I was you I'd wait...life without it right now will be alot easier in the future. I'm not sayin your gonna get pregnant or somthing like that, Cause I know you take care of yourself. But like I am sayin, save yourself. In the future it will be worth it. I am 16 yrs old and still a virgin and proud. I know waiting will better my future! I hope you make the right decision! Good Luck! God Bless! Beebyes!

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Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??

Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed

I don't think you should worry about what no one else is saying. It's not their relationship, it's yours. And if you love him like you say you do, you should have to worry about what other people think about yall. If he loves you just as much as you love him, then there's no problem! Good Luck and God Bless! Beebyes!

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