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Puppy Love??
Ok, i'm 13/f and my neighbor is 14/f, we were talking one night and it was like 9:00 so it was dark, so i went in the basement and he followed, i was putting the laundry in the washer and he came up behind me and put his arms around me, i liked it so i turned around then he kissed me and we made out, a lot. we went in the very back yard on the picnic table, no one can see it cuz its too far back, and he layed on it and i sat on his tummy, he had his hands on my ass and we makeout more then he fingered me and rubbed my boobs, and we made out more then we had to go in cuz it was 11:00, we were going to do something like that again but i went on vacation, and now i havnt seen him, should i bring it up or never do it again? was it wrong of me? we have also talked about sex, i want to but i dont want the condom to break, what shold i do about everything??
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First of all, TOO YOUNG! I don't think you need to worry about sex anyway right now. I'm tellin you life right now at ur age will be much better off without sex cause boyz bring babies. If you wait, the future will be much brighter than you think! It's more than likely worth the wait! I really hope you think about this and make the right decision! God Bless! Beebyes! :D
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First of all... don't you want to have sex with a guy you truly love and care for? Obviously, you don't love and care for this guy. Just for your sake, I don't think you should do it again. MY honest opinion. It's just going to lead to sex, and you're way too young to have sex. Do you think a 13 year old is emotionally, physically, mentally, and stable enough for a child? Didn't think so. If that's all you do with him then I honestly think you should stop. Kay? Good luck, kid. :]
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That's very wrong of you. I'm 16 yrs old and have a baby because me and my bf were just "playing" around. It leads up to more and more. Ur 13 u still have along life to live don't start younger then you should. Be a kid when u have th time to. U may think that thats all u'll ur do into he wants more.. But don't do anything like that into ur much older
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omg your 13..hello..thats not sumin to brag bout on here ..that's def. what i'd call a hoe..>13<!
when i was 13..i was just having my first kiss..chill out..your too young for sex..yea maybe you "think" your ready..but 9/10 your not..you have sex with him and ppl will def. think your a slut..plus your parents could find out and you'd def. lose their trust..& thats disrespecting yourself..you should save yourself til your married..or atleast til you find sum1 you love..can you honestly say you even love this boy?..i doubt it..cuz i mean you dont just fall in love when sum1 puts their arm round you doin laundry..wtf?..
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it was def. not wrong of you!! u go girl! i think you should wait to have sex with him tho. u know, get to know him more, and gain his trust. when you do see him ask him if he had fun that night or something. if yall are ever alone again, dont get TO carried away if you know what i mean. and about the condom thing, they normally dont break but a funny way to see if it has a hole in it, go fill it up with water and see if it leaks anywhere lol. good luck and tell me how it goes!
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omg child, you are only 13, sex shoudlnt even be crossing your mind. holy jesus mary and joseph, these advicenator people really shock me. but anyway, start a relaitonship with him if you'd like but dont have sex with him omg. thats just insane. im done.
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youre only 13...that's kind of young. If you don't wanna do it again, dont. If you do...then do it. It's all up to you, but I think that you are too young. Before anything...you should talk to him about everything & how he feels. Maybe you 2 could start a relationship first?
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Find out if he actually likes you, you dont want him to be using you just to get some... If you want to do more do it, but dont let him pressure you into doing it, only do it if you feel you are ready and comfortable enough to do it...
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I dont think you were wrong, its not like your a 50 cent hooker on the corner! lol (unless you feel wrong you werent!) You dont have to forget him, maybe hes shy. Go have fun and go after him again! (only if your sure your ready) As for sex..always be safe. When you put one on remember to leave a one inch space at the top so he has room to ejaculate. I would look it up more because Ive never done it..
maybe go to talksexwithsue.com
best of luck hope i helped!
have fun and be safe :0)
-melissa
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