Question Posted Wednesday September 1 2004, 1:55 pm
okay this guy i love him truly with all of my heart and i really wanna marry him we were together for over 2 yrs. and well we broke up last thursday.. and well he told me that he truly loves me that he wants to be back with me but he dosen't want me 2 hurt him anymore which i admit that i've done some stupid things but i'm truly srry for them and it would never happen again. but the thing is their's this other girl that sorta like him and he likes her a little bit but i can't stand seeing them together and i told him that i can't seeing them together and well he said that' he's doing it for us to see that i'm really the one for him i don't know what to do
and to make matters worse i think i'm pregnant
mshonest4eva answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 4:30 pm: OMG girl!!!!!!! u need to tell him girl! Itll be a heck of alot of problems if that is true. If you really love him and want to have that baby with him, tell him. There is nothing worse than being a single parent because u got knocked up for someone who doesnt share their feelings. You should tell him the truth and that you are really going to need his support if you do have this baby. If the feelings mutual, than he will help you!! If there are any more questions, im me or email me... its on my page.
Thickbabyie4u answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 4:26 pm: If he said it's his test, then your jux gonna have to accept it. Love takes time, Love is Patient....but you think you pregnant? You need to get it confirmed first and then let him know if you are or not. I hope this somewhat helped...God Bless! Good Luck! Beebyes! [ Thickbabyie4u's advice column | Ask Thickbabyie4u A Question ]
PuReLuVeR143 answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 3:37 pm: first of all..he cant be trying to get back together at the SAME time he is with that other girl...u gotta tell her that exactly...i know its hurting u, but u gotta be STRONG and be like...how can u be trying to get back together at the same time u are trying to get with that other girl..because obviously, is she likes him and he likes her, somethings gunna spark between them...
about u being pregnant..do u know for SURE? if u dont, u gotta goto planned parenthood and take a pregnancy test..if u ARE then u NEED to tell him and have HIM help u...
love kristin [ PuReLuVeR143's advice column | Ask PuReLuVeR143 A Question ]
SweetStarx89 answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 3:10 pm: Hey. Yes you should get a test and see if you are really pregnant. and i dont think he is doing this for you guys. and whats with the he doesnt want you hurting him? what about him hurting you? jusdt get somethings straighten up and ask him who he wants and love. not going with this other girl cuz it's better for u guys or wutever. Hope i helped! Take Care. x3 SweetStar. [ SweetStarx89's advice column | Ask SweetStarx89 A Question ]
princs answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 2:24 pm: First off you need to take a pregnancy test to find out if you really are pregnant. If you are dont tell him right away becasue he might think youre saying that to get him back. Try talking to him or write him a letter telling him how you feel. Explain that youve made mistake and your truly sorry for them. Its ok for him to see other people to make sure your the one for him. With any luck he will realize that this other girl doesnt even remotely compare to you.
If it ends up that you guys dont get back together dont worry, after a while life will go on and you will get over it. It might take a while but in the end you'll be ok. Now if you are pregnant then thats a whole other story. Find that out first and get back to me if you need anything else!
Dont worry hun it will be ok.
Hope i helped :)
*princs
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