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I want to ask this guy to prom for next year!! I know it's ealry but I want him to go and I even i don't go with him i just want to dance with him!! What should I do?? A lot of ppl think that he is gay but i think he's metrosexual like ryan seacrest!! A lot of other girls are gonna ask him if i don't ask in advance!!
HELP ME!!

*4evainLuv

Try getting to know him. Talk to him, go places. Then like a month befor the prom ask him! And if you think this guy will be taken 1 month before the prom then ask him whenever you want!! good luck!



xoxo chels

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how far should you go with a guy at age 13...and don't say "however far you wanna go"--thanks

It matters how long you have been with this guy. do what your ready for. anything but sex!



xoxo chels

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ok.i got this new courdoroy tan/white skirt..what kind of shoes would be best to wear with it? Im not the best walker in heals lol. Would plain white sneakers be good? What kinda "fancier" shoes would be best?

Also..i have split ends...but i like my long hair..does layering it sound like a good idea?

Flip flops always look cute with a skirt. Look for some that would match your skirt!


And about your hair...I think you should trim it so you cut off all the spit ends not just some. Also, trimming your hair won't take langth off and your hair will be heathyer.

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im not sure if this is the rite category but im a 14 year old male and i wanna run away. i dont like tthe way im being treated at home my parents r taking away my comps cuz they saw somethin on this site that they didnt like and they think i had somthin 2do w/ it. my mom is always yelling 4 no reason she thinx im always doin somthin rong my dad gives me no privacy and tries 2 read my messages. i hate having my life consumed by them. i want a life of my own.so should i stay or should i go?

Whatever you do don't run away. life will be worse is you run away. To me, it sounds like your parents don't trust you that much. Maybe if they had more trust for you they would let you do things on your own. You could try and get more trust with your parents and maybe the will give you more indapendance. Good luck!



xoxo chels

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i like this guy...but i have a bf n everytime i talk to this dude i feel so guilty...im so confused on what to do..should i tell this guy to go away...or what? cuz i love mah bf so much yet this guy gives me the attention i need at times when my bf dont? PLZ HELP!

Tell the other guy that you just wanna be friends for now. But if your feelings for this guy get stronger i would go out with him. what ever you do don't cheat on your bf!!



xoxo chels

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ok i really need help my bf dumped me cuz i talk 2 my guy friends and now he wants me back and bad i dont know wut 2 do my friends and fam hate him and he's not the best bf dut i still miss him wut do i do.... help me

To me, he dosn't sound like a good boyfriend if he dumped you for talking to other guys. if you still have feelings for him and want to go out with him agian then go for it! don't care about what your family for friends think about him!

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i really need help please help me. ok here's the story..ok me and my friend were just getting tyte we were doing a lot of stuff together and we told eachother everything and then she goes to our other friends house that she didn't like too much and then she comes home and then all the sudden they're best friends so the other friend kinda took my place. and i'm soo sad i think i lost my BEST friend! i don't know what to do cause i can't talk to her bout it i've never been good at that i freak out and i just can't do it. and i cried when i found out that she took my place! please help i dunno what to do!!??

Maybe your best friend just got closer to her other friend. it dosn't mean she took your place. If you can't talk to her face to face try writing her a letter or talking to her about it online. xoxo Chels

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Hey...I'm just starting the 9th grade..and it sux! Last year I had SO many friends and people I knew in my classes and alot of people knew me...but they split the middle schools into 2 different highschools..and this year there is like NO ONE I know in my classes and at lunch! I can be a really friendly person but I'm really shy and just can't seem to make any new friends? Please Help..

aw don't worry you'll make friends. Give ppl a chance to get to know you.





xoxo chels

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Ok I just learned how to run the Laundry machine but the only thing is that when I dryed the clothes, they still smelt like the people who wore them, so is there any specific kinda soap to use and how much do I put in there?

~*Cleaning Ladie*~

Any kind of laundry soap works. to make clothes smell really good put 2 dryer sheets in the dryer when you dry them. thats what i use. Try it!!




xoxo chels

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I'm 14 and going into the 9th grade. Guys pressure girls to have sex and I might be ready but I dont want to be called a slut. What should I do?

Don't have sex @ this age its wayy too young plus if every one else wasn't doing it would you be? and if you don't have sex ppl won't call you a slut!

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Usher,Confestions!!!!!! or Jessica Simpson Take my breath away

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I'm only 13, but i need to save up some money 4 my Bestfriends birthday. But what i want 2 give her is really expensive. It's like 70 bucks! But i know it's wut she wants more than anything else. So, does anyone have any ideas for how to raise that much money??? thanx

You could babysit,ask your parents if you can do any chores for money. theres lots you can do for money!




xoxo Chels

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My boyfriend said that on the first date he wanted to have sex with me but I don't think I'm ready to. I told him I wanted to wait and he said okay we'll wait but now everytime I talk to him he still brings up the subject of "doing it" on the first date. What do I say to him to tell him that I don't want to go that far on the first date?

It seems like this guy is using you for sex. If he really liked you for who you are he would respect your answer and not keep bringing it up. Talk to him and tell him your not going to have sex and if he dosn't stop asking you to have sex i would dump him!




xoxo chels

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my boy friend is a really kool person and great bf. he calls me and pays attention to me and stuff but im so over him... im just not interested anymore. i want to dumb him.. how can i do it nicely?

If i were you i wouldn't break up with him. Nice guys don't come along offen,you should work this out with him. Maybe your spending too much time with him if your gettig tired or him.


xoxo chels

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Is it ok to just flirt? I used to like be obbsessed with different guys but now I just wanna have fun...is that ok?

As long as you don't have a boyfriend yea!



xoxo chels

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well..there is this guy named Miguel...he likes me...we met through my sis. and well hes like a year older than me..he sounds really nice..and he thinks i am pretty...and he said he'll even transfer schools just to see me. he wants to go out, except the only problem is- i dont know him!!

If this guy is willing to change schools for you then he sounds really sounds sweet! you should get to know him hang out go to the movie and stuff. then maybe you'll know if you want to go out with him.


xoxo chels

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I want to get a pet SOOOO bad but i cant convince my parents ive done the research i have all the money i have threee of the best dogs to choose from but they still wont let me

tell your parents that you will be more responsable if you get a pet and you will take care of it.

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my boy friend cheated on me. should i dump him? hes really srry and i really like him but i dont think he should get away with it

No guy is ever sorry for cheating. And if he really loves you he wouldn't have done that to you! If i were you i would dump him. You can do better!





xoxo chels

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hi im 5'4 and 90 pounds. im worried that i dont weigh enough. everyone thinks im anerexic but im not so i dont care but i feel like my weight might be too low. should i gain weight?

wow your wayy underweight you should deff gain weight. or ask your docter if you should gain weight.



xoxo chels

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my sisters ex boyfriend really likes me and i like him... its been a few months since they broke up so is it okay if i hook up with him?? or no??

Talk to your sister about it. It might bother her to see you two together,but if she says that she wouldn't mind then go for it!




xoxo Chels

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