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theres this guy that i really really like. we had every class together last year, he's just the funniest, sweetest, most caring guy ever! i couldn't imagine anyone more perfect for myself. i dont want to say i love him cause im probably too young to know what love is (im 15), but i care about him like i have never cared about anyone else before. but i get so nervous when im around him, im shy as it is but when he's around i get super super shy! ugh i hate it but! but he talks to me alot and my friends think he might like me. but i really dont think so! anyways i dont know i should tell him? or what i should do cause its hard for me just to talk to him, i know ur gonna say just be myself but its way more easily said then done, trust me! and what i can do to keep in touch with him if we have no classes together this year? i like him sooooooo much! and all my friends say they can see us together and we would make a cute couple and stuff! i just dont know what to do, should i get over him?? ahh its so confusing i wish u could just read guys minds lol well if u could help id really appreciate it! thanks so much! (link)
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Love is NOT restricted by age. It is how u feel about another human being and deciphers wat u would do for them. If u 2 are really meant to be, something somewhere will FORCE u to tell him. Or, he will tell u if u're lucky ;-) But u're right, he may not like u, however, u NEVER know until u try it urself!! I know it will be scary and it could break ur heart, but believe me, if he doesn't like u, he's not for u. Not now, and probably not ever. Just talk to him. I know u can do it!
*Mayya
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what would be a good healthy lunch for me to eat while i'm at home?? i'm trying to lose some weight and keep healthy. thanks so much!! (link)
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If u want to loose weight, it's very simple. All u must do is eat yogurt and any other kind of less fattening dairy products, and drink A LOT of water. Also, to lead up with ur diet, do crunches every night (but make sure u only g as far as u can, don't push, and keep ur head looking up at the ceiling so there's no hurting urself) and maybe a few push ups if u can;-) if u can't, don't worry, alot of girls aren't able to do them too well, but with practice, u can! Just stay safe and don't strain, u'll loose in in just a few weeks!
*Mayya
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So, My really good friend just commited suicide and I really wanna read up on reancarnation. Does anyone know any really good books about that? (link)
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Look it up on google, and good luck bringing ur friend back!! :-// I would love to do that.. :'(
*Mayya
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My BESTfriend.. Let's call her *Liza. She is anorexic, i didn't know this before.. i just thought she was super skinny. But she left her diary over my house, and i just read some of it. She's been anorexic for almost two years, it's crazy. She doesn't know that i know yet.. so i'm scared to try and help her! Do you have any ideas on how i can tell her that i know and try to get her to stop. Cause i'm soo scared that something bad is gonna happen to her, Please, pretty please.. someone help me. Thank you so much, sorry it's so long.
Signed,
Very Scared! (link)
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Tell her exactly wat happened. She may be mad at u for reading her personal thoughts and feelings, but she'll get over it because anorexia can kill, and she'll be happy u saved her life. Atleast she should be. If not, just be happy with urself for helping a friend, it feels good even if they get upset because it always turns for the best in the end!
*Mayya
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OKay i really like this guy .. i mean like i love him n he loves me..! I just got out of this whole real love relationship n i truely loved him but i got hurt a bunch of times within that relatinship so he dumped me! Then this guy i like was going out with my best friend so my best friend dumped him n went out with my ex i was talking bout.. so now i like her ex! [[i know its confusing but try to help]] but see i dont wanna go out with him n hurt her like she hurt me.. but i like him alot! WHAT DO I DO! I RATE HIGH! (link)
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There is an unwritten law that says girls should NEVER date any guy that was involved with their friends.. Ur girl just broke that rule. That doesn't mean u get back at her though; good for u deciding that, however, the guy u like could be just a symbol for wat u used to have. I took a break from my serious boyfriend of 6 months, and then, he cheated on me before I could tell him I'm alright and I love him. That ended and I liked my friend Rob for eight months! Once it REALLY caught on he didn't like me, I noticed me liking Rob was a ploy and I was still really hurting. It's been 2 years now. I'm still bleeding, but I'm almost good as new. U owe it to urself to find another guy, but I don't advise u to keep going with this one.. I think u should wait a bit and see wat life throws directly at ur head. That's wat I did.. And I have a great boy now to prove it!
:-) Hope that helps! If u've got questions, contact me!
*Mayya
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This question has to do with my boyfriend again. We've only been dating for 4 days, but have known each other for about a month. We talk even before we were dating every night for like 3 hours on the phone. So far, he treats me so great and I dont have any reason not to trust him. Let me add now that he is friends with my father and alot of my Dads friends. Well, he sometimes talks about marriage, which scares me a bit, but I honestly could see myself marrying him. Anyway, to get to the point, I was told tonight by 2 different people, my ex boyfriend and my best friends sister that I hate & she hates me, that my boyfriend has probably already cheated on me & that I need to keep an eye on him beacause he likes to cheat. Im really scared because, what if they are right. But considering the people that told me I dont know if I should believe them. I really like this guy am Im scared that if I say anything about what I heard that he will be pissed at me. What should I do? Should I say something to him & if so, what? Please let me know ASAP, I need to figure this out before he calls me later on tonight!!! (link)
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I think later on, u should talk to him about wat u heard.. but DON'T accuse him of anything. Just tell him that a former friend of ur's said this, and u positively don't believe her.. but u do have a little doubt.. He should understand u, and if he's worth marrying, he'll tell the truth!
*Mayya
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I like to read book bout drving and law. I just want more imformation for i take the test so I understand qestion... so anybody know any webpages?? thanks
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google! best advice I can give ya!! lol just look up law inforcement, information on judicial issues, how to drive written test.. anything ya need, it's right at ur fingertips! Good luck on that test!
*Mayya
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whenever i sing or act in a large group of ppl i dont, i get so scared i wanna cry. how do i get over being scared? (link)
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I'm a professional singer, have been for 2 years :-) I just took up acting, but since I sing, it's not as hard. What I did to get over my fear was to sing in front of my friends, or randomly in the streets and see how people take to it because really, u're not scared of the people, or the amount of people, just sucking in general. U probably are truly talented and shouldn't be scared of wat others think about ur voice, and just sing ur heart out and act as if it really happened! But here's some solid advice: Sing or express your lines in front of ur mirror over and over before a performance or wat not so u can plan how u'll sing things or act things out and how u'll look doing it. Also, sing in front of ur friends and family. You can always use the old tricks like thinking of ur love, or seeing everyone in their underwear so u'll always have a smile on ur face :-)
Hope it helps, if u want more suggestions, contact me :-)
*Mayya
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should i try plugging in my head phones and see if it works? if it doesnt whats that mean? (link)
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Did wat I saidd previously not work? than, yes, try that to see if the sound cooperates. Maybe it's just the speakers *shrugs*
*Mayya
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my neighbor is a 13 year old female and im a 14 year old male. she stalks me and she likes but id ont like her like she likes me wat do i do? (link)
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I think u should simply tell her that u don't like her like that.. Gently please! u don't want to hurt her! But, u can also give her a chance to show how much she likes u.. and who knows? She could grow on u :-) Hope it works out!
*Mayya
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my sounds still not working i dk whats going i did everything you said... does that mean my speakers suck? (link)
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yes, u may need to buy a new set of speakers:-) or, u can do wat I did just because I felt like it.. change where ur sound COMES from. if it is ur speakers that is the problem, disconnect them, and through the settings I explained to u until u get to the sounds and device screen. from there, go to where it says "speaker volume" and next to that click "advanced". on that screen, make sure it says "desktop stereo speakers" in the scroll down bar.. Hope this helps!
*Mayya
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is your eye doctor supposed to tell you which contact solution to use or can you use whatever you want?? (link)
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If u have a sensitive eye, then yes, ur doctor should tell u, if not, just make sure it's something water based and nothing off the internet o.0 I suggest opti-free express lens cleaning solution. It's for beginners and it works well for all :-)
Hope it works!
*Mayya
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my eye has been twitching lately!! ts gotton worse!! like its my eyelid, sometimes my eyebrow, and below my eye...not all @ once but its only in my right eye...u cant see it but i can feel it..i told my mom but she didnt really think nothin of it...wat does this mean?? (link)
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It could be over load, stress.. Relax in the tub, get some sleep (it could be sleepiness), go out for a night with ur friends.. stretch a bit.. or maybe it's something u should tell ur doctor about if those other remedies don't work :-) Hope this helps!
*Mayya
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Another thing to do is u can right click that icon and check to see that all the bars are up. Yet another thing is u can go to start menu, click settings, and go to control panel. From there, u can check ur sound options from sounds and audio devices. This advice is given with knowledge of windows XP, if u have any other type of "explorer" IM me or email or leave me a message. If the problem is still there, again, contact me and tell me more details if there are any. I'll try my best to help!
thats the fartest ive gotten. wut do u mean by all bars up? the volume all the way up? thats way to loud if it starts working. and i do hav windows xp. lol. and what the fuq iz all dis? Yet another thing is u can go to start menu, click settings, and go to control panel. From there, u can check ur sound options from sounds and audio devices. lol. i dk!! help!! (link)
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:-D it's alright, calm down. all the bars up meaning of the bottom of the slider... I'll explain more if u don't understand.. by going to start menu, clicking the option "settings", and clicking "control panel" through settings, it will open a window with optiions like add/remove programs, add new hardware... etc.. in the screen, most likely at the bottom, it will say "sounds and audio devices" u click that.. it will give u another screen of options about sound and stuff. On that screen, click speaker volume, and make sure the slider bar is all the way to the right. If ur sound is STILL not working. Please contact me again.
*Mayya
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how much more likely are you to get cancer if you drink diet soda?? (link)
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I believe there is no less risk seeing as the same ingreidients are used in regular soda.. but u should ask a doctor.. or some one who works at the pepsi company :-) You can even check that out on google!
Hope that helps!
*Mayya
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you see, i am a female brunette and i have hair on my legs/arms. I would like to lighten my hair so it is less visible because i don't like to wax/shave because hair grows back even darker/thicker. So what products can i use to lighten my hair? Are there any home remedies so I wont have to go to the store? (link)
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I'd just like to point out that shaving is the mechanism of removing hair that will make it grow back thicker. Seeing as I have the same problem, I wax, it may hurt but it has great, long lasting results. If u don't want to wax, look for products by sally hanson that lighten body hair at ur local pharmacy! And no, there are no home remedies I know of.. except using string.. but I never learned that from my aunt.. so, Sorry! :-)
Hope it works!
*Mayya
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if i reformat my computer will my sound prolly work? its not working!! its making me so fuckin pissed!! any1 have any ideas how to fix it if they dont think reformating ill work? (link)
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don't reformat ur computer, that's too technical when a problem like that can be easily fixed. First of all, check the plug for ur speakers and see if it's plugged in. Second, if that's done, check the sound icon on the bottom right side of ur screen to see if it's muted or not highered or wat not. Another thing to do is u can right click that icon and check to see that all the bars are up. Yet another thing is u can go to start menu, click settings, and go to control panel. From there, u can check ur sound options from sounds and audio devices. This advice is given with knowledge of windows XP, if u have any other type of "explorer" IM me or email or leave me a message. If the problem is still there, again, contact me and tell me more details if there are any. I'll try my best to help!
*Mayya
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Ok, there's this guy that likes me. And he's the nicest person you would ever meet. He's so content with who he is. And i love that, and everything about him. But he's bisexual and it kinda creeps me out. I mean, im not homophobic and i love bisexuals and guy people. But i've never gone out with one, and i just think its kinda weird. Like i would kiss him, and realize that he's kissed boys before and stuff. I don't know. Is it bad that i don't wanna go out with him just cuz he's bi? (link)
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No, I believe that's perfectly normal.Besides, if u really like him so much, u wouldn't care who he's been with, and just be happy he's ur's :-) He's still the same person and may be everything u've wanted. Take a chance!
Tell me wat happens!
*Mayya
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how do you know when you are truly in love with a guy and how do you know when it is the right time to tell him? (link)
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Hmm.. tough question.. but there are never easy answers.. Love isn't based on a time or age, mind u, it's the highest amount of care u feel for a person.. They are ur reason for happiness and daydreaming.. and the cause of ur lack of sleep :-) however, ur heart will know when u r truley ready to love someone, and u will know.. just because that's the love u feel.. pretty confusing.. but u just KNOW. And it NEVER goes away.. No matter wat.. if it does, then it was never really love. The right time to tell him is just sitting with him, being on the phone, make sure ur alone, or even if ur not, the moment will MAKE u tell him. Hold on to love and let it thrive :-)
Tell me how it goes, and IM me if u like because I kinda got a little lost in my explaination :-)
*Mayya
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i always get acne everyday! in the morning, i wake up and theres another one! i've tried everything! i tried this benzclin (not sure how its spelled) which was prescribed by the doctor, i've tried proactiv, shiseido, clean & clear, neutrogena, clique, mary kay, and even toothpaste! nothing seemed to work. i feel so embarased to go out. i cant do anything. i feel like crying everyday and i have zero self confidence. please help me. i want my acne out now:( (link)
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From this predicament u write about.. It doesn't seem as if there is ANY cure for these little pesks.. but as all injuries/medical issues/ etc go, there is always cover up :-) but DON'T I repeat DON'T use oil based substances, go to your nearest pharmacy and find something water based or just oil free. Always check lables, and don't be so wrapped up in ur looks, it's not worth the time, and not heathly :-) I hope u feel better about urself very soon!
Tell me the outcome!
*Mayya
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