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Hello, i'm new to here...
well I've been an airline pilot for 2 years and me and my girlfriend are talking about marriage and stuff. Generally speaking she is pretty attractive and hot...but if we get married, I will always think that she will cheat behind my back when I'm off to work...(usually for a few days)
What should I do? I'm not good at love relationship at all, i mean I can fly a big jet, but hey, i'm not good at this kind of stuff... (link)
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maybe you and your girlfriend shouldn't get married if you think she's gonna cheat on you. No relationship can work if there's no trust. I think you should wait until you are sure you can trust her and if that day doesn't come then you should maybe fine someone you can.
~shandz~
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Alright. Well. I Found Out In The Beginning Of The Year That My One Friend Alicia Said Something Pretty Hurtful About Me To Our Other Friend Jasmine. Well, Alicia Said Something About My Weight && It Was Mean. I Didn't Bring It Up Then Because I Was Too Embarassed && Stuff. But, Should I Just Forget About It? Or Bring It Up Now (Not Like Get Mad, But Ask Her About It)? Or Is It Too Late && I Just Should Let It Go? I'll Rate && Give Feedback. Thanks! (link)
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you should bring it up because your obviously not over it plus friends shouldn't talk about each other behind backs so i think you should talk to Alicia and tell her that what she said hurt and she's obviously not a true friend for saying it in the first place. you'll feel better once you tell her how you feel and she should hopefully realize how hurt you are and not do it again.
good luck,
~shandi~
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how old should i be to have sex in your opinion (f)? (link)
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whenever your ready and it feels right
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ok so ...
theres this goth/skater/punk/whatever the freak he is. well for the past few months he has been seriously flirting with me. problem: he and i both know that i already am seeing someone. a while ago we went to this play out in the city. of course i had to sit next to him because we sat near each other on the bus. on the bus he kept looking back and staring into my eyes and stuff like that. then when we got to the play and everyone was settled in their seats, the lights went down. i was watching the play and then i felt him touching me kind of uncomfortably like all over my legs and arms. after a while it was bothering me so i would slap his hand because he was annoying. but then every five minutes or so he would start stroking me. after the thing was over i was like whatever and we left.
now in school he comes to my locker every morning and afternoon even if my bf is standing there (my boyfriend gets pissed off too). also, the guy always wants a hug in the halls and sometimes makes sexual comments online. in 4th period (language arts), he always tries to catch my eye and when he does, he makes very ... innapropriate body language. if you know what i mean =/
he's in my social studies class. i think it's normal for him to act like that to girls because theres another girl he tanterizes in my ss class and even a group of his friends he has who like his behavior at lunch. he likes touching our hair and hes always finding a way to touch someone -- and one time he even licked my hand. but you have to see that most of the times he jokes and plays around. but im not sure. gosh does that even make sense?
he's nice and makes me laugh sometimes but what kind of friendship is this?
what can i say when i just want him to quit it? (link)
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set him straight, tell him you don't like the way he acts with you and you much prefer your boyfriend, and if he still doesnt stop then yeah kick him in the nuts, hard!
hope this helps,
~shandi~
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Ok well the last time i saw him was in january and its now April! ive not seen him so long now he went to hospital and i asked him what hospital he was in and he would not tell me so i guessed and i sent him a get well soon card because he said do not come and visit me then he said hes transfered to another hospital for surgery so i said what hospital i will come and visit you he never told me and it was obvious he never wanted me to see his family like his mum and dad. I had not seen him for a year before i saw him in january but i realised i like him alot in fact i actually thought id fallen for him but since he told me in a text hes ok i thought it was best to leave him alone so ive done so, and ive heard nothing from him not even hello!! It frustrates me that he never contacts me he sits on msn but set to away and im just waiting and waiting for him to say something to me. I mean when i saw him he told me he loves me but if you love someone you usually contact them. Also when i phoned him when he was in hospital as i cared about him he was pretty rude he said don't you think its abit late to be calling me? it was about 10.30 so what im wondering is what shall i do? leave him alone like im doing but not hearing even hello? Thank you in advance for your answers (link)
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this guy is so not worth it, if he doesnt want to talk to you then he obviously doesnt really care about you. the best thing for you to do is find someone else who is gonna care about you.
good luck
~ shandz ~
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there's this boy that lives like two houses down from me and he's like sooooooooooo cute. he's 19 and i'm 15 and i really like him but i don't know if he likes me. he's always staring and smiling at me like he as something to say but never says it. should i go up to him and ask him does he like me or should i just wait and see what happens? (link)
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get to know him before you ask him, see if he's going out with someone, get to know what he's like and what his interests are
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my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and at school there's these 2 kids that pick on me and talk bad about my mom constantly and iam about to get fed up with it.Today the boy Justin is the worst he took my purse and ran around the classroom with it and he took my soda and shook it up and he told me that my outfit I was wearing looked like a nurses uniform.The girl told me that I was mean becouse I told on them.I feel like fighting both of them what should I do? (link)
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urgh i hate bullies they suck. all you can do is tell someone - not just any random somebody - but someone you know that could do something about it and im affraid thats all there is unless you'd prefer getting expelled?
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I Need alot of help right now with this guy but i would rather not post it. Anyone on here that owuldnt Mine Helping me Thru Instant Message? I would really appreciate it.
17f (link)
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i dont mind listening to someone thats got something to say - my msn is gem_1_05@hotmail.co.uk and my AIM is CharmedFanFL
Im usually on msn
xshandzx
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Okay, I like this guy Lewis. Lewis's best friend is Carl. Carl found out that I like Lewis and he's really mad about it.
Carl doesn't like me at all, so I can't really go talk to him, and he is going to tell Lewis.
What do I do!!?? (link)
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tell lewis yourself first, and why was carl mad? it's not like you 2 are close or going out right?
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I'm confused why people come here seeking advice and then when they don't like the advice they send horrible feedback.
Just because you don't like an answer doesn't mean it's wrong or bad. Don't people ask for advice to get all the angles and then make an informed choice?
how do should we handle mean feedback? (link)
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i totally agree with you, but theres not much we can really do about it apart from ignore the rude, inconsiderate people who send the feedback
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I truly want to learn Latin and i heard it was a lot of fun though i have been taking Spanish for a year and i know how useful it wuold be...i could take both languages but i am afraid it might be too much...WHAT SHOULD I DO? (link)
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It's hard to do two at a time, i suggest you pick 1 first then do the other when your brain can handel it.
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So I'm 15. And I'm a female,
is there something wrong with me?
I'm attracted to older guys, I'm sure they dont like me. Or wont ever, but I find myself wanting older guys, like they seem more appealing to me, because like ALL the guys in my grade are so imature. I wish theyd grow up. I dont know though.
I just hope its nto wrong for me to like odler guys? Because I have no interest in any of the guys in my grade =/ (link)
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theres nothing wrong with you, your not the only one that prefers older guys, plenty of other girls do to because they are more mature and don't go round acting like 4 year olds. I'm into older guys aswell, usually around 17 and im just turning 14.
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I know that there are some people who are just naturally really skinny, but there are some people who are mega needle thin. Is that possible for people to be naturally that thin??? Brigitte Bardot had a 20 inch waist-----Scarlett O'Hara from "Gone With The Wind" had a 17-inch waist. 17 inches! Jesus! I just can't see how people can be just born that way. (link)
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most of them arn't naturally skinney but try to pretend they are because they know it's wrong to be so skinney if your notborn like that
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my name is Rachel and my stepdad is always accusing me of talking to people I don't know on the internet and yesterday he told me to get off the computer becouse I was talking to one of my friends from school,but he thought I was talking to somebody in california what can I do to get him to trust me? (link)
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talk to your step dad and explain to him your not talking to strangers on the internet that they're your friends you know from school.
and if you are talking to strangers on the internet i can see why he's conserned.
Just tell him who you really are talking to and he should come to trust you.
hope it helps,
xshandix
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so i recently started going out with this guy. and we go to 2 diffent skools so we see each other on the weekens. we started going out on the 26th of march btw.
so he came to my skool with me on monday to meet all my friends and for fun and stuff, and cuz he doesn't have skool.
so i have this really pretty friend and i thought they were flirting and she is alot prettier than me, seriously she is almost a model and shit.
and i think she likes him and i think he likes her back. and i really like him and i don't want her to steal him from me. or for him to like her while we are going out, cause that is weird. it would be like everything is fake and stuff. so i don't know what to do.
his friend said he wouldn't cheat or go for another girl, but i am not worryed about that. i am worryed about them liking each other.
what should i do?
i don't wanna scare him off or somehthing, maybe i am wrong? but i am pretty sure there was flirting and i am really sad. i cryed for ever and every song i heard made me sad. i feel like a baby. :( (link)
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talk to your friend and in a conversation casually slip in how much you relly like this guy if she know's how serious you are about him she might back off like a good friend should, if she doesn't she's not worth being friends with and you should keep them away from each other.
hope this helps,
x shandi x
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I'm 13/f. Whenever I sometimes pick on my sister or don't let her touch my stuff, my mom keeps calling me b*tch. Even when I do stuff that's not even that harsh, she still says I'm "b*tching" around. But I'm not a biatch! And I get hurt when my mom calls me so but I don't think she feels I am. What should I do? (link)
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talk to your mom and tell her that you really dont appreciate her calling you names when you don't deserve it. If you tell her that what she says hurts she might be more understanding and back off a little.
good luck
&hearts, shandz
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Im mid twenties, and ocassionally have pains in my chest expecially when i take a deep breath. If I bend to my left I can feel a popping in my chest and i would have to straighten myself and then it goes away. When i lay in bed at night, and lay on my left side, a sharp pain goes through my chest. What could be wrong with me. (link)
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see a doctor, it could be serious
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ok so i REALLY love my boyfriend..but lately since i told him that his best friend rapped me..he started getting...controlling and like now whenever i say somthing hell scream and say BITCH SHUT UP...then hell say "oh im sorry baby" and everything is fine but he hit me a couple of times..i told my best friend and she told me to break up with him..but i LOVEE him! and..if i i do decide to break up with him..im scared hell like..kill me or somthingg!
plz help me.i dont know where else im going to get help!
~lila (link)
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you have to get out of this relationship and fast, things will only get worse for you if you don't. I know you love him an all but he can't love you back, if he did he wouldn't hurt you or yell at you.
If your scared he'll kill you or something if you break up with him tell your parents or get the police involved, both of them won't let anything happen to you.
You seriously need to get away from this guy, find someone who will love you the way you will love them.
It may take a while for you to get over this guy but it will happen eventually and then you can move on with your life.
In the end it will be for the best, honest
luck &hearts, shandi
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this week end my best friend's family is coming over for easter. The boy I like is my best friends brother so he's coming to. I'm really worried I'll do something wrong and make him not like me because i think he does like me. what should i do?? (link)
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relax, if you keep thinking your gonna mess up your chances then you will probably end up doing just that, try not to focus so much on how you could mess things up and focus on how you can find out if he likes you the way you like him and think about stuff you could talk about and what you'll wear. It should be something you should look forward to not freak out about.
Just be yourself
good luck, shandi
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Hey!! well you see...ive seen this one guy before...actually a couple times the only thing is ive never talked to hin before! i always see him with my cousin..he goes to the same school as my cousin. the only problem is im super shy and like he always has the girls around him..because i guess everyone is attracted to him. well i wanted to get to know him better..and my cousin knows i think he is hott! well my cousin thinks he is too haha but he recently just broke up with his girlfriend..or i think they are still broken up! i want to like get him to notice me..notice i exist! my cousin always asks to hangout with him..but things never workout so i never got to hangout with him before! i think if he actually got to hangout with me..and talk to me at least for a lil bit then maybe we could start talkin more? even though he GOES TO A DIFFERENT SCHOOl....
but i dont know how i can get him to notice me or get to hangout with him since every time we try and hangout things NEVER workout for some reason..my cousin and i tried like 5 times already.. what do you think i should do? i dont do the whole AIM thing..i want to talk to him in person first..but yeahh!
any suggestions? im just soo shy..and he isnt! it seems like all the ladies want to get with him..but he isnt a player..i know this.
thanks! i will rate 5 for anyone who answers
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well next time you see him, do the braave thing, walk up to him and tell him you wanna talk to him, get him on his own and ask him if he would maybe like to hang out with you , If he doesn't seem interested don't continue, if he already has something planned and seems anoyed by the fact he does just say your free anytime to hang out if he wants and if he says yes then make sure it's just you to on your own somewhere where people won't interupt you.
hope it works out for you
&hearts, xshandix
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