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MY BF and no contact with me
Ok well the last time i saw him was in january and its now April! ive not seen him so long now he went to hospital and i asked him what hospital he was in and he would not tell me so i guessed and i sent him a get well soon card because he said do not come and visit me then he said hes transfered to another hospital for surgery so i said what hospital i will come and visit you he never told me and it was obvious he never wanted me to see his family like his mum and dad. I had not seen him for a year before i saw him in january but i realised i like him alot in fact i actually thought id fallen for him but since he told me in a text hes ok i thought it was best to leave him alone so ive done so, and ive heard nothing from him not even hello!! It frustrates me that he never contacts me he sits on msn but set to away and im just waiting and waiting for him to say something to me. I mean when i saw him he told me he loves me but if you love someone you usually contact them. Also when i phoned him when he was in hospital as i cared about him he was pretty rude he said don't you think its abit late to be calling me? it was about 10.30 so what im wondering is what shall i do? leave him alone like im doing but not hearing even hello? Thank you in advance for your answers
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this guy is so not worth it, if he doesnt want to talk to you then he obviously doesnt really care about you. the best thing for you to do is find someone else who is gonna care about you.
good luck
~ shandz ~
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This guy is the biggest jerk ever.
I'm sorry for talking about your "boyfriend", but this guy obviously doesn't want to hear from you and he's making up excuses and trying to avoid you. I dont know why because I'm not you or him, but just leave him alone and find a better boyfriend. You dont deserve to be treated like that. You need someone that will actually want to spend time talking to you, and hang out with you etc. I'm sorry that he did that to you...but good luck with finding someone else =)
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I think the question you need to ask yourself is this....Do you want to commit your time, your feelings, and and your heartbreak to someone who doesn't want to be with you?
Just because he's not interested doesn't mean you won't find someone who is. You deserve to be with someone who loves you and wants to be with you always.
He doesn't deserve whatever energy you're putting into him. I think he's made it crystal clear that he's not interested. As hard as that is to hear, I think you already knew that......I also believe that you are an intelligent, caring person who will find someone deserving of your attention. Delete him from your contacts...and move on.
You're worth it girl!! Take care.
Brenda
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younggrandma is right again. Your ex-boyfriend made it really clear that he doesn't want to be with you in any way.
For your own self-respect, it's time to move on. Delete him from your contacts, delete his phone number, and do your best to delete him from your mind, too. Get yourself busy with other activities, and in time you'll find someone who WANTS to be with you.
I'm sorry this one didn't work out...but it didn't, and you need to recognize that. Otherwise, you're just hurting yourself for no reason.
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He seems to be making it obvious he wants no contact from you. He isn't going to call. Whatever you had seems to be over.
I hate to sound harsh but when someone doesn't call you or contact you its because they don't want to.
I know you have feelings for the guy and its awful he doesn't feel the same. But that's the truth of it. Move on to someone who cares. :)
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