OK well I used to be the happiest person.. at least it felt like that. I was kinda popular, and I actually felt kinda pretty. Its not like I'm ugly or anything its just that Ive never had the greatest self esteem. Well then I went to high school and my life kind of went downhill. I wasnt very popular, I dont have like any friends it feels like, and ive been crying myself to sleep some nights. Its not like I like doing this! I hate it! I feel like my life sucks... and everyone knows me as the ALWAYS HAPPY girl and stuff... but really I'm not like that! I want my old life back and the friends I used to have. I want to feel as happy as everyone thinks I am. Its not fun being miserable or anything... I dont know what to do. Im hating my life. and I cant run away from it. Help...
okay lets get real, stuff that used to happen last time will never come back again, no matter how hard u try to get it back. its good that u wanna feel happy, thats why i suggest each time u feel that the low spirits are coming in, quickly remind urself to replace it with a happy thought. gradually, whenever ur feeling down, almost immediately, a happy thought will come in and take ur low spirits away, its like creating a new GOOD habit. u must believe in urself that u can change that current life u have now. i believe that u can do it, nothing is impossible! take care and good luck -Rei
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How can I bring my self-esteem up? I'm really loathing myself and not liking it :(.
write down ur goals in life. sitck it all over ur room, ur books, anywhere u can see them. this will constantly remind u of ur presence in this lifetime, and why u wake every morning for.
dun loathe urself, move to a new beginning by loving urself for u are first. then will ur self esteem go up.. good luck in bring ur self esteem up! -Rei
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Ok heres the problem.. my friend got her peroid in 5th grade.. so she gets it normally now.. but when she was supposed to get it this month she didnt.. She never had sex.. what could be the problem?
dun worry theres nothing wrong at all! sometimes periods are not always "on time" so tell her not to worry so much. she could go see a doctor if shes still worried about it.
hope shes okay.. good luck! -Rei
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My friend, lets call her Sarah, is completely obsessed with her ex boyfriend. Ive been trying to tell her forever to try and get over him! Hes been such a jerk to her, and he broke up with her to immpress one of his friends. How low is that? How can i get it through her head that she can do better, and stop wasting her time dwelling on the past?
talking to her might work if u constantly remind her that the reason why their relationship ended was becoz he was "using" her and playing with her heart. but this obsession will slowly die when she notices that he no longer shows interest in her. often people dwell on the past because they are afraid of what might happen to them in the future.. reassure her and support her, give her loads of care and hugs and tell her its time to move on. of course try not to sound too irritating, she might not like it.. -Rei
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I gave up on love awhile ago..even though I don't want to, it just happened. Most of the guys I've dated were jerks. I don't trust guys and I resent all of my ex's and I can't help it. I haven't met a single guy in my school or area that was decent and I'm really starting to hate men. I'm not going to like females but I don't understand why men are such jerks. Someone help?
please tell me ur not gonna give up. the game of love isnt over yet. the right guy will come along soon enough! not all men are jerks, wait till u see the other side of them.. its still early to say. forget the past relationships, look forward to a new one that might be just around the corner. dun take this one for granted, relationships are fragile and need to be handled with loads of care. good luck!
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Hi! I'm a 14 year old girl. I'm noticing that I'm interested in girls more than guys. I want a girlfriend. Not a boyfriend. But I can't tell anyone about my sexuality because people don't accept gays. I can never have a girl spend the night thought because I don't want something to slip. But I really want an intimate relationship with another girl. Its that ok?
who said people dun accept gays? u should be proud of who u are, dun let wad other people say get to ur head. an intimate relationship with another girl would be a tough one, like would the girl accept ya, etc. things like this will take time, accepting itself will take time. u gotta be patient and dun rush things! being urself is the most important. only then she will see the true you and accept ya for who u are.
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how do you tell when contact lenses are expired?
when u wear them and ur eye gets really really red and bloodshot kinda, then ya its expired! get it out ASAP and see a doc!
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I really like this guy,
but he likes my friend... i told him like 100 times i liked him but he dont care.. he just keeps on focusing on my friend you see..
he wont even spend time with me like hang out and get 2 know each other more.. than how he started liking my friend in the first place.. what do i do! i like him so much! i cant stop liking him or thinking about him
since he doesnt want to be ur friend, its unlikely hes gonna give ya a chance, then i suggest u dun waste ur time with him, there are bigger "catch" out there. good luck =)
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Hey Hey You guyZ- well i have a really high metabolism- and after every meal i eat even if its a big meal i feel hungry again- i eat alot even all my friends say i do- im 5"5 and weight 103- any suggestions on gaining weight? or will i gain weight as i get older and my metabolism slows down. Ive tried protein shakes but they didnt work-:/
ive high metabolism too! i think you'll gain weight as you grow older.. so dun worry so much. for the time being, love your body now. cause many others are dying to have a slim body just like urs :P much appreciated if u could rate me thanks! -rei
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SODAS! I took up Mountain Dew and I put on alot of weight drinking it and I tried to stop it but its like going threw withdrawl. I get headaches and everything, I throw up and my stomach hurts and this always happens when I stop drinking it. I'm starting school soon and mountain dew wont be available as it will if I were home. What can I do?
mountain dew is a fantastic drink, but it rather addictive i know, theres a certain content in it thats equal to caffeine and maybe its the absence of this caffeine thats causing u to throw up, but the best advice is, go see a doctor NOW! hope the little tip on the caffeine thingy helps lol and take loads of care! ps, much appreciated if u could rate me thanx! -Rei
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im really confused.im a catholic and bieleve in everything it teaches.iv been baptised and confermed too.but i also beilieve in abortion.i think women should have the right to choose if they want.is this a sin? does this mean im goin to hell? pleaz answer.
lol no you wouldnt go to hell! people have the right to believe in what they want to believe, its not for anyone else to say where you'll go afterlife! ps, much appreciated if u could rate me thanx -Rei
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Well there is this guy in my dance class ( I swear he's not gay) and I like him a lot and all my dance friends say he likes me and I like him too, and I've told my best friend about him and she said make a move but i don't know if it's right for a girl to make a move on a guy( I don't really think I'll be good at it), plus i think he has a girlfriend and another girl likes him in class(she's my friend too) what should i do...
hey gurl, theres nothing wrong with a girl making the first move to a guy!! in fact, i think guys actually prefer gurls to initiate first! who said u wouldnt be good at it, have u tried it out yet? try it out first! who knows it might work.. dun care about the other gurl who likes him, she should be seen as a factor, not an opponent or rival in love ;)
hope that helps, much appreciated if u could rate me and good luck when making the first move, let things go with the flow, take care! -Rei
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I need help! I love my sister to death but she is so annoying! I have no privacy and she always get's her way, I'm 13 she's 8. I really need help! Don't say talk to her, it didn't work.
little sisters are always like that. bear with her, she'll outgrow that "annoyingness" and she'll stop! it will take a matter of time, but at least it works ;)
ps, rate me please! thanx
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heyo i was hopin u could help me wit me prob. u see, me and my friends have contemplated isolating my (ex) best friend,since they were quite pissed at what she was doing. personally they can do whatever they like, cos i seriously think she deserves it. but where do i draw the line between a good lesson and plain meaness? i certainly dont wanna stoop to her level. -hikari
thankx for ur question hikari, as for what i feel towards a situation like this, a good lesson is only "good" when the person actually learns from it and changes for the better. plain meanness would be when...
A)She ends up crying/hurt, etc
or B)She doesnt learn her lesson and rebels back (one way or another)
hopefully i answered the question, lol -Rei
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I was wondering if any one knoew some good songs. It can be anything but no rap please! Thanx so much!!
Luvz,
*KrIsSy*
my all time fav: SHE WILL BE LOVED by Maroon5. that song is fantabulous, it makes me wanna cry sometimes lol
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whenever i walk my left ankle always seems to click! its really loud and people say i should get it checked out, but the thing is it doesnt hurt at all!! what do you think i should do?
LOL my LEFT knee clicks when i bend it!! aww dearie, dun worry about it, its just ur bone rubbing against another bone which makes the click sound (tight bones, or something like that), for all i know its not harmful, but if u're not sure, u can consult a doctor.
try rotating ur ankle to loosen the areas around ur ankle. it might help =)
-Rei
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I have a horrible problem with my face getting red anytime i read in front of the class or do a speach. TOmorrow, i have to give a speach in english & I was wondering, if anyone had any ideas to yhelp me stop that... i odnt want stuff like " just be confident".. things like, is there anything you can take or if makeup or things like that would work. pleeease answer.. anyone who answer, i`ll give a 5
oh gosh i have the same problem as you too! my hands start to shake and before you know it, im trembling like crazy. lol how about bringing along something special, like a charm necklace. or special hairclip. at least when u stand infront of the class, u know that the special item is near you and it makes ya feel proud to show it. u could also imagine that ur talking to a group of shrivelled-up looking old grannies, or something wacky that takes ur mind off the pressure around ya ;)
i hope it helps!
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There`s this guy I like. I`ve known him for a couple years, just never talked much. Now he`s talking to me a lot more & stuff & he`s in one of my classes. How do I like start convesations & stuyff. I feel so stupid asking this. *blushes*
aww, dun feel stupid, its really not at all. in fact, majority of people find it hard to start conversations! (confession: even i myself sometimes are like that *laughs*) but since hes initating, by talking to you first, take the chance! its a gold opportunity and also a sign to show that hes interested in ya! dun let this chance slip by, just go for it! it wouldnt be as bad as it seems :)once the conversation is started, let it go with the flow. dun be tense up and worried about what to say or whats he thinking, etc. focus on his eyes, cause a person's eyes are usually the doorway to his souls and character. i wish ya luck and hope that u two can get to know each other better!
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Hey, a couple months ago me and my boyfriend got caught having sex. I'm 15 years old and my parents were not too happy with me. They had no idea that I was sexually active before. They grounded me and told me that I could never see my boyfriend again, but I talked them into letting me stay with him, thats all taken care of but how can I gain their trust back? please help..
put urself in ur parents shoes. What if one day u found your own daughter having sex with a boy you dont even know? how do u feel? think about it, cause thats how your parents must have felt.
dun worry about it so much, they cant get angry with you for the rest of ur life! as trust is easy to give but hard to gain back once lost, be responsible for ur mistake, prove to ur parents that ur worthy of their trust.
engage ur parents in conversations about school, friendships problems etc. tell them whats going on in school, outside school, etc. give them a sense of feeling that they also play a part in YOUR life. it may be hard to open up to ur parents at first, but at least give it a shot. it beats far better then not trying at all right? i hope this helps, and good luck to you. peace
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Well lets start off my saying im 13/f and I weigh 155.I use to weigh 165 but then I stopped eating and I lost 10 pounds and well not eating isn't very healthy for you body and ive tried exercising with correct eating and that still didn't help so I just completely stopped eating and I think I over exercised.I would exercise 3 or more times a day for an hour or more and well I know im going about this the wrong way.I hate the way I look when I look into the mirror and I hate when I go shopping and nothing fits.Im a size 13 in Jr.'s clothes.Most ppl tell me that Im just exagerating about how big I really am and well I might be but if you were in my position you probably wouldn't like the way you looked either.Anyways to get to the point I need another way to help myself to lose weight or to gain self-confidence and be happy about the way I look without becoming anorexic.I can still eat so Im not completely anorexic yet so I need help before I get to that point.If anyone has any advice once so ever plz give me it.And I think Im pretty and all but I just hate the way my stomach looks.So plz help.I'll rate good so plz just help.Thank you.
-Unhappy and Depressed about my weight
hey there, please dun completely stop eating as its a biggie NONO! yes of course u should exercise, but do not overexert yourself with exercise, its not good for your body. first, start off with a good healthy diet, cut out on fatty dishes and instead of just exercising, eat fruits! learning to accept urself for you are and the way u look may take some time, but once you do accheive u will also gain a higher self esteem. start of by loving the body u are in now, be happy that ur body is healthy and u're not sick with illnesses. dun worry about ur tummy, as u exercise u'll cut down fats there, try doing situps. i know its not really nice doing situps, but u gotta go through a little bit of pain to acchieve the tummy u really want.
and also remember that i support ya, and i believe in you that u can do it! take care of urself and dun forget to drink loads of water after u exercise! ur body needs all the replenishments it can take. peace
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