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depressed?
OK well I used to be the happiest person.. at least it felt like that. I was kinda popular, and I actually felt kinda pretty. Its not like I'm ugly or anything its just that Ive never had the greatest self esteem. Well then I went to high school and my life kind of went downhill. I wasnt very popular, I dont have like any friends it feels like, and ive been crying myself to sleep some nights. Its not like I like doing this! I hate it! I feel like my life sucks... and everyone knows me as the ALWAYS HAPPY girl and stuff... but really I'm not like that! I want my old life back and the friends I used to have. I want to feel as happy as everyone thinks I am. Its not fun being miserable or anything... I dont know what to do. Im hating my life. and I cant run away from it. Help...
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yea i feel you on this one, i was like that for awhile, but life sint going to stop for you and stuff like that its going to just keep going on, trust me things will get better, go out more with ure frIends, Everyone knows me as the happy girl to and sometimes when im ot happy everyone is just like WHAT? so i def kno how ure feeling... the old frIends u had are still ure frIends! U need to get ure mind off being so miserable and like go for a walk or something to get ure mind off things and be productive becuase when u lay around doing nothing then u'll start thinking bout things again.. dont hate ure life and dont try to run away from it, i think your just going to a phase or Something right now.. Going into highschool can be hard but theres a bunch of others gurls that feEl the same way u do! And if ure known for Being the happy girl then im sure you shood make freinds fast becuase everyone wants to havE somebody like that Around.. .. dont Hate life,, try and look at the postrive way of things and i hope things get better for you!
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nope u shouldnt run away from ur life it only would make thigns worse. i was liek that 2. iw ent from beins o happy and wen i was in 9th grade-last year- evrythign was horrible, bad relationshiops, bad grades, ppl tlkain, family problems, it sucked, you need 2 make sort of a fresh start. ok so 4get about the apst, you cnat get ur old life bak but u can make yourself a nmew one-sort of. dont change yourself jus elt others allwo 2 c more of who u reelie are. theres times in everyones life where things seem bad but u can maek them better. b mroe outgoing get involved ins chool, jus talk2 ppl, have ur friends introduce u 2 mroe of their friends, join teams, clubs anything. hope i helped plz rate =)
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okay lets get real, stuff that used to happen last time will never come back again, no matter how hard u try to get it back. its good that u wanna feel happy, thats why i suggest each time u feel that the low spirits are coming in, quickly remind urself to replace it with a happy thought. gradually, whenever ur feeling down, almost immediately, a happy thought will come in and take ur low spirits away, its like creating a new GOOD habit. u must believe in urself that u can change that current life u have now. i believe that u can do it, nothing is impossible! take care and good luck -Rei
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I know how you feel I really do . You may want you old life back but its diffrent now and chances are you cant get that back so you have to make the best of it make new friends and everything else will follow you may never feel as close to these new girls as you did with your old friends but they will help you feel better about your self and you have a better time then you have been
hope i helped
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