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Im tall,brown eyes, really tan,black hair bout 5"9'...my hobbies are breakdancing and cars...im filipino, and am all about flip side pride! and am willing to answer any questions you might have so...go ahead and ask...well im out
PEACE!
Gender: Male
Location: Florida
Age: 18
AIM: PinoyRemix04
Member Since: October 14, 2004
Answers: 105
Last Update: November 22, 2004
Visitors: 5132


My 14 yr. old brother will be turning 15 soon and I was wondering if anyone knows where I can buy him some vintage t-shirts (i.e. Atari, Nintendo, etc.)? Thanks! (link)
hey you should go to "Hot Topic"...they usually have tee's like that...you naw mean? peace

--PinoyBoi


I recently had sex for the first time (about a month ago) and since then I've needed to pee an unusual amount. And when I do pee, it can really hurt. I now have trouble controlling when I need to pee too. Like, the second I get home from school I have to run to the toilet or I'll like pee myself. It's so embarrassing. The other night I even peed while in bed and got really freaked out. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME?! (link)
hey..i would relly have theat checked out..that dosent sound right at all..i mean really..you naw mean?...well good luck with that..peace out


--PinoyBoi


I just found out my daughter is going to be asked by her boy friend to marry him. But before he does, he wants to talk with me and ask my permission. I respect his wanting to ask my permission before he "pops the question"

He is ten years older than my daughter, [30] and I have met him once. He is not from our community and I do not know that much about him.

Here is my question, What questions should I be prepared to ask of him when we do have the "talk?"

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hey..well i would want to know his background and wut he does for a living..get to know about his familiy and if you could have a police report done on the guy....just to be safe you know..but other than that..just ask him about him..and wut his plans are for the fututre..if they sound legit then hell...give him a shoot..you naw mean? well peace out!

--PinoyBoi


umm theres this guy that likes me alot and he is def. not my type...... but my friends tell him i lik him bc they feel bad for him... But i dont like him... Im going icekating on my birthday and soo is he.... he is giving me this real diamond ring and asking me out... what should i do? (link)
hey first of all..i know its not real..i mean really..but you should tell your friends to quit saying this to him...even though it soounds like the right thing..you shouldnt pitty someone..treat them like an equal...and then tell him that you dont like him like that..and just as a friend...you naw mean?....peace!

--PinoyBoi


Me and my best friend have been friends since kindergarden nd imma freshman now! tha other day we got into a fight! this is wat happened!..tha nyte b4 i got drunk bc i was allowed nd i didnt feel good tha next mornin nd he kalled asken if i wanted to chyll w. em nd i told em no bc i was sick nd wasnt inna good mood! well he got on tha computer nd we were talkin nd shazz nd tha next thing u kno he tells me not to take my shazz out on hym nd i didnt do ne thing! soo he went to jessicas nd she told hym nd my b.f things tht werent true soo i got dumped bc of it! later tht day i got on tha computer again nd was talken to my best friend nd he tells me tht he dont wanna talk to me nd imma rapist nd a stalker soo i went to his house w. my mom to talk to hym nd he ran outside from tha situation..well tht jessika girl was there well she kalled me nd my mom a bitch nd soo i walked down tha road nd asked her y she did it nd shazz nd soo he ((my bff)) ran out tha door telling me to stay outta his life! i feel soo bad i mean i didnt realli do ne thing mean to hym ir ne thing! i do a lot of stuff for hym nd its hard not talken to hym! wut shudd i do?! i mean weve been bff since kindergarden! ive cried alot about this! plzzzzzzzz help me! (link)
hey..wow that was confusing...but yea you need to get new friends and meet some new people because your friends and choice of boyfrineds suck really bad..i mean not to be mean...but who does that shit? thats crazy.i would just stay away from those gay fucks.their just crazy!! so surround yourself with some new friends and be happy..you naw mean? peace out!

--PinoyBoi


ok i got this bacterial infection in my throat adn i was prescribed pills but i dont care much for them. i took them how i was suposed to for a week and i have like a bunch left but i feel fine, should i continue taking them even tho i feel fine?
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hey..no first i would ask your doctor if you should take more..it wouldnt be safe to just keep taking something wit out knowing from your doctor first..you wouldnt want to die...that would suck..you naw mean? well theres ma common sense...peace out!

--PinoyBoi


OKAY BUT LIKE ALOT OF GURLS LIKE HIM SO IDK LIEK WAT TO SAY CAUSE ITS KIND OF HARD AND ANYWAYS I WILL GO UP TO HIM AND BE STRAIGHT UP TO HIM CAUSE HES SWEET WHEN IM COLD HE GOES BY ME AND ASKS ME ARE U COLD AND THEN HE GIVES ME HIS JACKET OR JUST HOLDS ON TO ME I THINK HES MY TYPE BUT MY FRIENDS ALL HATE HIM THATS WHY I DK WAT TO DO I SITLL WANT TO BE HANING WITH THEM
WELL I G2G
K BYE (link)
hey listen..you can go out wit anyone you want to..i mean really whos stoping you..dont let your friends stop you from being happy...its your choice alone...if he makes you feel happy then go with it...but you can also have friend time on the side..they will just have to get used to to fact that he makes you happy..you should tell them that..if they were real friends..they would respect that and leave it alone..maybe they will find he not all that bad after all... you naw mean?..well if you have any more questions..hit me back..i like to answer questions...well peace out


well u see i have this friend and we always get into fights about the stupidist things ever and one time we got in a fight and she asked me a pastense question and when i tried to anwser she got really mad and was sayind things like why do u always bring suff up form the past were talking about this fight noy ones that have happened in the past when i tried telling her the i was only anwsering her question she would not listin! what do i do? (link)
hey well looks like you need a new friend..yea sounds about right..thats not a good friendship..but if you want to keep it..then talk about it with her..and try not to bicker about stupid shit like that..i mean really..thats just stupid..you naw mean? well good luck wit it. peace!

--PinoyBoi


My friend and i used to be really close but lately shes been ignoreing me alot and its really hurtin my feelings.. what should i do! (link)
hey ask her wuts shes doing and talk to her about it...and explain how its making you feel..maybe she just has been busy..you never know..well just ask her about it and then work things out from there..you naw mean?well good luck..peace out!!

--PinoyBoi


Hey guys,
The world has brought together by internet but there are some outstandingly obscene websites and titles which are mentally disturbing. I came across one of the site which shows porn photographs and movies on the sex relationship between Mom-Son, Dad-Daughter. Can it happen? I stronlgy believe that it is highly impossible. The relation between parents and their kids is such a holy and lovely relation, that they can't even imagine such thing about each other. I am really disturbed after accidentally watching that site. Please share your sincere ideas/thoughts/experiences whether this could happen? Thanks. (link)
hey yea that shit is really gross!!! like fo real..but i can happen..its on how the kids are raised and wut they are taught is wrong and right..yea i think its really gross ..you naw mean?...peace!

--PinoyBoi


A friend of mine and i went to the movies the other night, and as were pulling up, i see the guy i like standing next to a car down the lot. I was getting all excited when he stood up, and then i saw what he was holding, and i was repulsed. In one hand, he was holding a lit joint, and in the other, a half empty bottle of vodka. I had no idea he did these things!! And i have my values..i try not to associate with ppl who do harm to themselves in such ways. Even though his lifestyle goes against my beliefs, i cant seem to get over my feelings for him. I just dont how to do it. How do i 4get this guy? (link)
hey well first off try to remember that hes a nasty guy ..you know with all that shit that he does..and then think about yourself..and how if you ended up eit him how it could effect your life and maybe mess it up like that..and when you do that..you dont just effect yourself but everthing..like family and school and how people look at you..you shouldnt have to change for anyone..and if its for the worse..then just forget it..your better than him and deserve better than that shit..you naw mean? well good luck wit it..peace!


Hey, I was going to have a sleepover party for my friends on Halloween after we go trick-or-treating with each other. My one friend that I invited is allergic to dogs, cats, and guinea pigs -- which are all of the pets I have. She can't even go in my house because of it. I was considering sleeping out in a tent in the backyard, because it's really big, but it might be too cold by October 31st for that. I don't want to just uninvite her because that might screw up our friendship and that's pretty rude. :\ What should I do? (link)
hey..why dont ry to move the pets somewhere else for the night and then get a air filter to clean out the air and then try to clean up the carpets and the house of all hair and pet dander...that way it would be good for youe friend to come over...but then again you coulod do the tent thing..just make sure you have good sleeping bags to keep warm.and plus if there are alot of people in there..the heat from your bodies should warm up the tent..and it should be warm in there..you naw mean..well have fun..peace!

--PinoyBoi


out of the kindness of our hearts my husband and I opened the door of our home to my son and his wife. (Just til they get back on their feet) its been 2 years and they are still here!!! My son won't keep a job and is lazy!! He will cook every now and then. Both my husband and I work. my problem is HOW DO I GET THEM OUT OF MY HOUSE?? they have nowhere to go. ITs been 2 years and the daughter-in-law has her first time to wash a dish or sweep a floor. She does not cook or clean.Does only their laundry(I usually have to put it in the dryer-so I can use machine) they pay no rent, nothing on electric(they use a personal electric heater in winter and air conditioner in summer) or water (I pay for city water by the gallon)they eat out a lot and go to the movies all the time...I can't because I can't afford it. so what do I do? how can I tackfully get them to leave? any advise will be appreciated. (link)
hey..i would sit your son down..and tell his trifulling ass to get up and get a job and get on his feet....i know it sounds harsh but its been 2 years..and sometimes force is something you use to make things happen..am i wrong? thats way too long to be somewhere and trying ti get on your feet...im mean fo real..or do it the gentle way..talk to him about the situation and make sure he understands wut your saying..and tell him that he needs to be a man and move on..live his own life with his girlfriend..they way its supposed to be..and also that hes to old to be spoon feed by his parents..well theres ma insight on that one...good luck wit it..you naw mean?..peace!

--PinoyBoi


Ok, my dad just died from lung cancer on Tuesday. My friend who me and him have been really really good friend, with some benefits, for almost a year now, asked me to hang out with him yesterday, and he asked me out while we were hanging out. I said yes but Im worried that, 1. hes gonna cheat on me and our friendship is gonna be over (cause he is quite flirty with girls at times) and i dont wanna lose him as a friend cause i really need him around during this time in my life and that 2. idk if he just asked me out cause he feels bad about me because I just lost my dad. HELP!!! (link)
hey..well since you two are really good friends..talk about it..tell him how your feeling and tell him when you need him or just need some space..he should listen...if he really cares..and dont worrie about the girls...you should know him well enough that he would do that...he a guy..thats someting guys do..but they always come back home...that is if hes not this asshole of a friend..but i would worrie about it..just keep him close and always talk to him about wuts on your mind..the more you to talk about tings then it should all go well..k..well good luck wit it..you naw mean? peace!

--PinoyBoi


ok, i have been with this guy for a while, and the only time i ever see him happy is when we are together, and our mutual friends say the same thing, but he keeps pushing me away, his mom died in his arms 3 years ago and he was really close to her, some one told me it sounds like he loves me cuz he doesnt wanna lose me. does anyone have any ideas???? please help me! (link)
hey..well you should talk to him about it..maybe he just needs his room..you know some of his own thinking space..ask him about it..and just give him some time...thats a really big loss..well good luck wit it ...you naw mean?

--PinoyBoi


my gf and i have been together for nearly 2 and a half years, she cheated on me with a guy from her school and lied to my face about her flirting and teasing and getting with him when i knew what was going on,
she would not tell me the truth till i forced her to by providing evidence that i knew she had. i logged a few of her chats to find out the truth and she was slagging me off to him and flirting with him still after she promised me nothing was going on, i love her more than anything, but trust is something a relationship needs otherwise u have nothing.. what should i do? Thanks (link)
hey first of all i would beat the shit out off that other guy!!! fo real..wut your girl did was fucked up!! but really..yea i would confront it face to face..and then take all her shit and throw it out..make her feel like the lying, lowdown, cheating girl that she is...then dont talk to her...make her come back to you..if she really cared she wouldnt have done it in the first place...also she would ask for fogivness, and if you choose to accept her apologie..thentake her back..then take her back..if not then show her that you deserve better and just forget about her ass....man i feel fo you and that was really fucked up fo real..well thats all i got for you..sry bout your girl..peace out!

--PinoyBoi


can dying ur hair or getting highlights make u go bald? (link)
hey..well its not exactly good for your hair...if you do too much shit to your hair..with out taking care of it...yea you could go bald...so take care of it and just keep it as simple as you can..you naw mean?..peace

--PinoyBoi


i have a friend shes one year younger than me and shes realy mean! shes my neighboor and i don't know what to do i can't just say i don't want to be friends with you anymore it would break her heart what do i do? (link)
Hey..you should talk to her and tell her she's mean...you don't just stay someones friend out of pity or thinking you'll break their heart...that's kinda wrong..you should confront it and then try to see if the problem stop..but if it continues..I would just forget about her...you naw mean? Well there's ma insight..I'm out peace


i need help, there's this guy i met online and he keeps stalking me and im getting scared. it all started out when he asked me to invite him to my webcam and im like sorry no bye, then hes like im gonna hack into ur computer, and hes sending me messages saying i know where u live, ill send ppl to ur house and thell rape u, well get it on tape and im starting to get scared. is that possible? could he have hacked into my computer from yahoo messenger? can someone help please (link)
hey well yes and no...but most of the time..guys are just talking shit..they think their computer gods..but in reality they really arnet..so no need to worry..he full of shit..ha..but yea..hes gay and just dont worrie..you naw mean?...peace


i need to fake being sick to get out of skool tomarrow!!!! what should i do!! i need sum good ideas to get me out of the play tomarrow!!! i dont kno my lines!! (link)
hey..well heres are some things you could do..you could sleep with a whole lot of comfortors..or you could sleep with the window open and have no sheets on...either way might work..you naw mean?..well good luck wit it..peace!!

--PinoyBoi




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