Member Since: October 14, 2004
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im 18/m. I had a gay realtionship about a year ago, and it went on for about 6 months. Im now tired of guys and im with my girlfriend. I really should tell her that i was with this guy, she has no idea that i was. She even knows the guy. How can i tell her w/o her finding out who it was, and will she leave me if she finds out? (link)
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Secrets hurt. If she trust you, TELL HER. That can really put a dent in the relationship. What ever happens happens. Try to expalin it to her in a way she will understand. The worse that can happen is her leaving you for not being honest with her.If she really cares and understand you, it will be a shock, but it will be a bigger better shock if she finds out. Things happen for a reason, remember that.
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hey!
this question isn't for me it's my friend, i need to know what to tell him.
ok..
my friend and his girlfriend were going out...all is happy. Well, then one of his ex-girlfriends gave him a note that said she wanted to go back out with him. well he hadn't talked to her in a while, and he started to talk to her again. so she assumed that meant they were going back out. well he's all caught up in it and he's not a cheater...he's really not.he hates when people do that. but now since he's gotten all caught up in it he doesn't know what to do. he really likes his original girlfriend, but this other girl thinks that they're going out and doesn't know about the other girl.
so what should i tell him?
sry it's kind of long and confusing... (link)
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Be straight up. Secrets can hurt. I suggest telling the old girlfriend, before the new girlfriend finds out. We are dealing with 3 diffrent feeling and hearts. Okay some get broken some dont , hey that is life. but I think if he really likes the new girl, keep her. Move foward, not backwards
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ok so i think i have problems... i mean i like going out with people but the relationship i am in now is freaking me out kinda... i think i love my bf of a month and a half... i kno it doesnt sound very long but we've gone out before... but anyways... i really think i love him... but i have this problem where i go out with a guy umtil i think that he really likes me and then i just kinda loose interest... thats kinda what is happening in this relationship... but i still kno i have feelings about him... like i feel like i love him... but im starting to lose interest... waht can i do to fix this... i dont want to stop loving him... especially since it would break his heart... HELP ME... im 14 and female!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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You are only 14, take it from a women who has been there and done that I am 23, sweetie, you are IN LUST. Your feeling may be strong, but if you really was IN LOVE, you will know and it takes longer than a month to determine TRUE LOVE. If you are losing intrest in this guy, and you really care about him, let him know how you feel. Communication is very important. that will help bring out the answers to your not so sure questions and feelings
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My girlfriend of one and a half years left me for
another guy. She said if I move out the flat she
would break up with me but I moved out anyway
because of her disrespectful children and loafer
brother. She did nothing to rectify the situation
but instead got the first guy she met to move
with her into another flat. is she trying to
spite me and make me jealous or is she just
using another guy to help her pay the rent? She
says she loves me but she hasnt called me for
days now and we havent been out for weeks?
I dont take shit from her children but she is so
soft on them. What should I do? Just play it cool? (link)
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There are a lot of women who does what she is doing. Its called lofting. She NEEDS a backbone, rather it be he live-in brother or another man. the person or man she needs in those kids lives are there father. I wouldn't worry myself about her to much if you dont have any kids by her. To me it looks like she just needs attention and looks at other people to take her problems away.
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