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My girlfriend of one and a half years left me for
another guy. She said if I move out the flat she
would break up with me but I moved out anyway
because of her disrespectful children and loafer
brother. She did nothing to rectify the situation
but instead got the first guy she met to move
with her into another flat. is she trying to
spite me and make me jealous or is she just
using another guy to help her pay the rent? She
says she loves me but she hasnt called me for
days now and we havent been out for weeks?
I dont take shit from her children but she is so
soft on them. What should I do? Just play it cool?
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I think your better off with out her...if she says she really cares for you then she would at least call...or try to have you come back or something...she was just prabably using you to help pay the rent..and watch the kids...but yea your way better off without her...there's always someone better out there for you...you naw mean? Good luck man...
--PinoyBoi
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There are a lot of women who does what she is doing. Its called lofting. She NEEDS a backbone, rather it be he live-in brother or another man. the person or man she needs in those kids lives are there father. I wouldn't worry myself about her to much if you dont have any kids by her. To me it looks like she just needs attention and looks at other people to take her problems away.
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You need to leave her. she might just be playin you. you never no! she probaly hes trying to you jealous.
<3kilee
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Go elsewhere. She is probably both using the guy for the money and spiting you at the same time. If you can't get along with her children, you shouldn't be with her because they come with the package.
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Yeah, you should just play it cool. Most likely she's just mad because you didn't stay in the same house as her and she's trying to make you jealous. Also, I wouldn't take crap from her children either. If they don't respect you, then don't respect them. That's what I think anyways. Anyways, if she doesn't have enough money to pay rent then she's probably also trying to get someone to help her since you aren't anymore. I hope I helped and I'm sorry your in that kind of position. -Kayla
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If I were in your shoes, I'd be finding me another girlfriend. Here's why:
1.) She sounds like a control freak. And no one should give ultimatums in a relationship.<br>
2.) You have no right to her children. You have no right to disipline her children. And they are her children. They come before you do. If you have a problem with the way she is raising her children, try talking to her about it in a nice way, tell her how you feel about her parenting methods and ways she can improve them. If she doesn't want to change, she isn't going to. <br>
3.) She's got another guy living with her now. No matter if he's there only to help her pay the rent, I would be extremely paranoid and suspisious that she found someone to move in with so fast.<br>
4.) Lack of communication. And I say this almost all the time when giving relationship advice. If there isn't open communication in a relationship it tends to fall apart after a while. And from what you are saying she hasn't even tried to pick up the phone and see how you are. You might want to try reaching out by picking up the phone and asking how her and the kids are getting along.<br>
I know it's hard giving up in a relationship after any long period of time, but it just sounds like you need to be moving on.<br>
Good luck and I hope everything works out for the best.
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right u should ignore her get her jealous tell her new bf somthing or if u still love her call her BUT DONT TAKE SHIT FROM KIDS SHOUT AND MAKE THEM RESPECT U WITHOUT VIOLENCE NEED ANY MORE HELP NEEDED E-MAIL pain_and_upset@hotail.com
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