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Truely Love?
ok so i think i have problems... i mean i like going out with people but the relationship i am in now is freaking me out kinda... i think i love my bf of a month and a half... i kno it doesnt sound very long but we've gone out before... but anyways... i really think i love him... but i have this problem where i go out with a guy umtil i think that he really likes me and then i just kinda loose interest... thats kinda what is happening in this relationship... but i still kno i have feelings about him... like i feel like i love him... but im starting to lose interest... waht can i do to fix this... i dont want to stop loving him... especially since it would break his heart... HELP ME... im 14 and female!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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You are only 14, take it from a women who has been there and done that I am 23, sweetie, you are IN LUST. Your feeling may be strong, but if you really was IN LOVE, you will know and it takes longer than a month to determine TRUE LOVE. If you are losing intrest in this guy, and you really care about him, let him know how you feel. Communication is very important. that will help bring out the answers to your not so sure questions and feelings
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i know exactly what you are talkin bout and i have no idea what to tell u i think thhat you should just let fait tell you whats up because thats about all you can do unless you force yourself to stay with him!
~*~JeSSiE~*~
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hey..you should take it a little slower...its only been a month and a half...thats not realt serious..plus your 14..its probably puppy love...dont sweat it...and you should still go out wit him just because your scared of breaking his heart..thats wut happenes....just go and try new people...you know when your in love...
--PinoyBoi
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Well if you are loosing interest then you don't love him you might have a huge crush on him but you doon't love him.Well if your losing interest i suggest you to hang out more often.I know where your comming from i've been there but what i did how i said before we hung out more we did fun things like bike riding believe me that is so much fun and skating.i hope i helped good luck!
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You're young. You want to date a few people before you find someone you truly love and want to settle down with.
Please don't be upset by this, but odds are, what you're feeling isn't love. You wouldn't "lose interest" in someone you really loved.
I think a good idea would be to sit down with a piece of paper and a pen and list all of the things you like about him, and all of the things that bother you. Be completely honest to yourself, too. One of the worst things you can do is lie to yourself.
Once you've finished your list, weigh the pros and cons to decide whether or not you want to continue the relationship.
Just don't immediately jump to the 'L' word. Along with love comes a sense of obligation that, at 14, you're really not ready for.
Good luck, hon. :)
♥ Lorelei
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well u cant do anything about it.. well stop ur self not to do that..
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