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ok well this ?????? really isnt for me its for my best friend but anywayz. he is having REALLY BIG Trouble wid his gurl friend like i think she is prude or sumthin b/c they have been going out for 6months & they havnt hugged,kissed,made out or anything yet & like today @ da movies he tried to hold her hand & kiss her but she pulled away & leaned away from him da WHOLE! MOVIE! u no the ironiclly thing is me & my g/f r totally fine l0l we r perfect for each otha but anywayz i need some advice to help my frined b/c hes thinkin bout breaking ^ wid her this is serious please help! i'll give u a 5!
sincerely ANTHONY me & my friend r both m/13! (link)
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Have you considered she might be afraid...try getting friendlier with her first for a few more months, if she's still shying away then ask her why...then the worst/best thing that can happen is she gets mad and you break up and find another girl who's better maybe for you.
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I really want a boyfriend, i'm 14/f and i've never had a boyfrined... I mean i know i won't liek die if i don't have one lol, but if anyone has any tips please help! (link)
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1)Don't be too eager!
2)Talk to people so they know what kind of person you are, then maybe a guy will think your the kind of girl for him and start something so you don't have to.
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3)Pick a guy who you know is what your looking for but also has respect for you, and try to hang with him more often to get his attention.
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like a couple weeks ago i thought a lot of girls were hot and i liked 2 poeple but now i dont and i dont relly think those people r hot either and i look for somebody u no like my friends that i thought was got but i dont now i mean i like girl of coures but i just cant find anybody speacil (link)
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Be patient, you need to find a good reationship, and that takes more time than you will think you have, give it time.
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ok well theres this guy that i like but hes 2 years younger than me and i wanna go out with him but he sees me only as a friend and he knows i wanna be more than. he just doesnt understand and i have talked 2 him about it. wut should i do?? (link)
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You need to wait for someone more your age sweety. No one likes to wait but two years younger is getting a little far apart if the girl is the one older. Or maybe he likes someone else. My best advice is to try to let it go, find someone else, even if you have to wait awhile, patience is important in love, unless you don't care what the relationship is like.
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I already saw someone with an ADD question, but I'd thought I'd make my own. Lately I haven't been concentrating on anything in class. I don't have THAT much stuff on my mind, and when some people get bored, they're still able to concentrate--just being bored. I can't even do that. My question is, what are the signs of having ADD, and what is it exactly?? I would tell myself in class, "Okay, I need to concentrate..." seriously like 10 seconds later, I'm off in space again...and I won't realize it until like a minute later, and even then I won't concentrate, I'll just keep thinking about other things. And that same pattern just goes on and on again...
Also, if you for sure have ADD, what are you supposed to do about it? Do they give you medicine or anything? (link)
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It doesn't sound like you have ADD. The classes might just not be stimulating your brain enough to pay attention, or the teacher is monotone, boring, studders, can't focus, or something else that won't keep your attention.
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This guy kissed me on the cheek and on the hand. and is always snuggling up to me and stuff. But he's a year younger. Do u think he likes me or what? (link)
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Yes, most definitely sounds like it. Of course I don't know the guy, but he might just be messing with you for the hell of it, be CAREFUL. And if he's a year younger, maybe you shouldn't even consider it!
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Okay so I have this friend and she has a boyfriend and I am his friend a little bit like he talks to me and stuff and he gives me money but I asked him if I could have a sip of his Powerade and he said yes so I took a sip and my friend saw me and she got all mad at me and said that I have been flirting with her boyfriend, and that I like him even though I have my own boyfriend....I sent her a text message saying sorry and I even tried calling her but she won't answer. I need help what should I do (link)
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First of all, if you were friends with the guy before they started going out, your friend has absolutely nothing to get mad over. Second, there shouldn't be a problem with you taking a sip of his powerade, it doesn't mean you like him, and if you told your friend u dont like him and u have your own boyfriend then she should believe you. But my main advice is to let her get over it by herself, she needs to grow up a little bit, even though that sounds harsh. Sorry if I offended you or your friend at all, but i hope i helped.
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okay there is this totally cute guy that I have liked for about a year or more.Last weekend I was at his house I kissed him and he kissed me back. I know there was something there, but we got caught by my dad. My dad didnt know that I had liked him for that long.Now both my parents dont6 want me to see him so I feel trapped and dont know what to do. I have cried over this guy many times and never knew he liked me.He knows how I feel about him and he says he doesnt want a girlfriend right now which is totally fine but now things are weird between us. How do I ask him out without getting hurt.PLZ HELP!!!! (link)
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I know this sounds harsh, but going out with a guy who you've cried over isn't going to work out in the end, it's just some weird thing that almost always happens.
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When i was really little, i was raped by my cousin, someone i thought i could trust. i can no longer trust people anymore, it is very hard for me. What do you think i can do to help me cope with this and how can i explain this to my friends, who always want to know why im such a cold, hard shell of a person? (link)
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Your friends don't think your a cold shell, otherwise they wouldn't be your friends. And you should be older now and able to tell more clearly who you can and can't trust, if you can't try opening your mind a little more, you can't live on fear of something that hasn't happened yet, and probably won't happen again. And getting help might not be so bad, even if it's from your friends.
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there this guy that i thought i kinda lyk'd but he lyks one of my best friends. It kinda sucks cuz im so use to feeling this way cuz everyone likes my best friend. I dont wanna stop being friends with her because of that cuz thats juss stupid. Well i told this guy that i'd try to help him and my friend be together although it would kinda suck. My friend doesnt really like him lyk tha but still i have a feeling its gunna happen. I dont wanna tell him that i like him cuz im pretty sure he doesnt feel the same way and afterwords it'd juss feel akward... what should i do? (link)
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Just go with it, I had/have the same problem with my best friend a lot. But if you wwait for someone who likes you as much as you like them, it'll be worth the wait, love's got to go both ways in the end you know.
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Ok here is my problem!!...
There is this guy i like.. Lets call him rascal..
He brings me to school everyday and takes me home when he has time. He offers to do this 4 me!! IDK y tho. I like him A LOT!!! he knows that too. But today he asked me to go to the Mt. Pleasant Halloween Parade to watch him. Im going anyways because my little sister is a cheerleader and shes in it too. But anyways.. Does this sound like he likes me? Or what the heck is goin on?
He also told me that hes gonna make sure i c him in the firetruck!! Should i be scared or not?
Then this weekend we're going to this party for halloween. Do you think anything special will happen? I hope.. I like him very much!!
We text messege each other all day while hes in tech. and while i have freshman classes.
What should i do?
Signed..
Alf Alfinator (link)
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Go for it...everything sounds so perfect according to you! Why not go for it? It could be a great relationship waiting to happen.
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i meen i really want a boyfriend but i guess im can be picky about who i like , some of my friends will go out with sum 1 that they have very little feelings for but i want to go out with some i really lik e but i dont liek anyone in my shcool and theres jsut no one thats i liek yet i jsut wish i would find him is this ok should i look harder be less picky or will i find him (link)
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lol, don't worry...everyone's prince charming is out there somewhere...if you're picky, you'll get someone who you'll truly be happy with. If you aren't picky enough, you can get your heart broken more times than if you are picky. Everyone needs to know what they want, if you do know, then you'll be a happier person in the end.
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i kno wat ur sayen..but wen me nd lets say "S" is my boi fren and "j" is his brother..well me nd "s" we goen out..he told me 2 make out wit hisz brother "j"..nd like i shuld be tellen this..well ive like "j" for the longest time so after i thought about it 4 like a hour i finally said yeh..dont think im like a hoe..and then "s" was fine with it and even thought it was a go0d thing if u kno wat im sayen..nd he stil liked me..but i think josh is cuter nd a better boyfriend type..cuz me and "s" have went out 4 like 2 months nd never even kissed..nd its bad i even kissed his brother nd not himif u kno wat i meen..so do u think i shuld go with his brother ? plz help!! (link)
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If your bf hasn't kissed you then maybe he's not ready for a deep relationship that involves more "romantic" things you could say. And if he told you to make out with his brother and he acted okay with it...maybe he's trying to tell you something, even if that was an accidental kinda thing, it depends how it sounded to you. But the way it sounds to me, you should try for his brother because he sounds like the better guy for you, especially if you think he's a better boyfriend kind of guy. Hope I helped...
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What age would you let your Child date?? What would you allow them to do with Him or Her? (link)
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Let them decide because only they will know when they're ready to find out what reality holds, just keep it under control if they're really young and they should be okay.
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me and this boy have been going out for almost two months..i really like him but he has cheated on me..but he was honest and told me..i also like his brother which likes me too..i dont know if me and my boyfriend should breake up and i should go with his brother or stay with him..can you help me? (link)
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If he's cheated on you definitely break up! But you going out with his brother might hurt him, so you might want to talk to him, but if he's cheated b4, then he will again...most boys don't change in that catagory.
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my best freind Tina and i have been best freinds sicne we were 4 and we're so close! well she and i became freinds w/ this girl kaylinn and at first her and tina were really close but a couple months later they got into a huge fight and hate eachother...now im caught in the middle...i would pick my bestfrind over kaylinn cuz i've known tina for ever but im not gunna just drop kaylinn. i dont want enemies! anyway i really dont kno what to do so if theres any tips feel free to say them (link)
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I got one tip for you...let them get over it, you shouldn't have to choose a friend just because they're fighting!
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Lately I've been feeling out of the loop. Like, my best friend, she says some really obnoxious things to me sometimes, and they make me feel bad. And I was going to go out with a couple friends, but i guess it didn't work out, and I heard that one of them is still going. It makes me feel better. Me and my best friend hang out a lot but I always feel like my other friends [ mostly guy friends ] like her more. Not to be egotistical, but sometimes I wonder why people don't like me. I mean, I know my bad side, but I'm a lot nicer that a lot of my friends. I've been feeling really empty lately. I don't know what to do to perk myself up and I want to know how to change, for the better, to make myself happier. Also, tomorrow is my friends birthday and I have this gift for him, but lately he's just kind of been ignoring me. he's the one that still going out tomorrow. I'm kinda of mad at him, but he probably doesn't know why. Should I still give hime the gift? (link)
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Of course you should give him the gift! He should like it a lot if you know what he likes, and the way to get your mind away from the people who are making your life sorta miserable is to find something really good to concentrate on...an activity or something different and interesting...because then you'll always have a topic of discussion for your friends, maybe something they can help with! But just be yourself and you should be okay.. but, just in case... “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” – Dr. Seuss
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This is going to be long but if your willing to help plz do so.Oh I'm 14 a middle child i have a older brother 17 and a younger sister 12 the both hate me the constatly make me feel bad they alwayz argue with me they constatly tell me to shut up.and im the bad guy well according to them.my brother he is so mean he alwayz insoults me brings things up that happened a long time ago that can get me in deep trouble.He is alwayz tellign em things like im not good enough im a nobody that im stupid ad many other things that are even worst.My sister i can't tell her anything without her yelling at me back.She is only nice to me when my friends are around and when i feel bad she only cares when people are there or when im feeling real bad.I told my parents but they think this is nothing and that it will end soon.Well it has been like this for a while now and im feeling really bad to the point of wanting to hurt myself.And i've thought many times about suicide.i know thats the worst solution because it wont help and it only makes things worst but i have the simptoms of depression and i feel horrible about myself.I've already talked to this about a teacher and it helps a little.but i dunno what else i can do because i get worst every day that passes by.plz help (link)
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You sound like my best friend...you need to have a distraction, whether its best friends, or getting out of the house as much as possible, or writing in a journal...anything like those can get this off your mind, I know its really hard, but this iisn't going to end any time soon. It's part of their personality, and they might be a little jealous of you for something...you just need to find things better to think about than them...don't dwell on the things that make you unhappy..because every minute you spend unhappy is another minute of happiness you cant get back.
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okay well today in sports studyhall i was sittin down next to this kid lets call him *CHRIS* well CHRIS and I were talkin n then he was lookin at my cellphone n i have verizon so u can change wut u want it to say n mine use to say lets call me *ASHLEY* and so it use to say ASHLEY loves you and then CHRIS changed it to say ASHLEY IS HOTT and i was lke um k then i had to go get someone from a teachers room and then i came bak n CHRIS goes i put my number in ur phone book i was like umm ok..but the problem is i dont like him and hes been going out w. a friend of mine and she happens to be on my soccer team too and they have been goin out for like a year..so my question is y wud he do that?
i rate all 5's tnxs (link)
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He is one of those guys who sounds like to me like he wants to prove to the world that he can have anyone.
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this has really been getting on my nerves lately. and i just dont know if this should be going on. this is the thing: i could do anything little thing and i end up thinking about it for the rest of the day. like if i do something and it wont even have to be a "bad thing" then i think back on it and im like i should of done this or i should have done that and then i can never et it out of my system. its the most annoying thing ever. is somethin wrong or does n e one have advice for helping me loose this "concious" bc i think thats it... PLEASE HELP! (link)
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It's not as bad as you think, I am the same kind of person, it only drives me mad when i let it...I don't know about you but I have to be very bored to dwell on all those little things that you think went wrong or could have been done differently...I also...even though it took sooooooo much patience, started meditating just for maybe a minute of my day, during a boring class lecture or something...just breath really deeply and slowly...but not loud enough for you to hear it, and count your breathes, every time you start to think of something else just stop counting, and then start again but try to make your counting in your head louder than your very annoying thoughts that are driving you crazy...oh! and it takes awhile to do this...but dont think about what your doing while your meditating or it will make you think more...just try it...i hope it might help
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