i meen i really want a boyfriend but i guess im can be picky about who i like , some of my friends will go out with sum 1 that they have very little feelings for but i want to go out with some i really lik e but i dont liek anyone in my shcool and theres jsut no one thats i liek yet i jsut wish i would find him is this ok should i look harder be less picky or will i find him
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Lachiquitaloca9 answered Thursday October 28 2004, 3:36 pm: Be picky!!! IT'll be well worth your wait!!! If you have high standards it means you are intelligent and by no means should you settle for someone below par. :) Eventually you'll realize that people aren't perfect and you do have to put some things aside, but until you figure out what is insignificant don't change your standards. If you're still in High school or below...no worries...life changes after high school and those guys before, won't even matter. I didn't date in high school because my standards were high and I knew I had no intentions of staying local afterwards, so I lived up the time with my friends. It was a lot less stressful and I was able to concentrate on school. When I got to college I went wild though and have been enjoying it ever since and dating guys up to my standards. They exist, trust me. Good luck [ Lachiquitaloca9's advice column | Ask Lachiquitaloca9 A Question ]
MeadowLark answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 6:59 pm: lol, don't worry...everyone's prince charming is out there somewhere...if you're picky, you'll get someone who you'll truly be happy with. If you aren't picky enough, you can get your heart broken more times than if you are picky. Everyone needs to know what they want, if you do know, then you'll be a happier person in the end. [ MeadowLark's advice column | Ask MeadowLark A Question ]
Strawberriilova92 answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 6:26 pm: Heyy Hunn!
I'm pretty "picky" myself. You probably aren't picky there are just certain qualities you want in your boyfriend. Keep looking follow your heart even if they dont meet your standards!
piink_x0_shad0w answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 5:56 pm: whenever your ready there will be that one guy that you will juss fall head over heals for trust me. Its not juss gonna happen but untill that day comes look around and explore you cant expect the BEST cuz no one is perfect. Give someone a chane im sure there is a cute sweet guy somewhere out there who you can give a chance to! good luck i hope i helped =]
chaz answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 4:06 am: well if you just ask someone out that you like the most and maybe you will actually like that person the person that i am going out with sed 2 me that she had a crush on me like 7 months before we went out [ chaz's advice column | Ask chaz A Question ]
dinoold answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 3:17 am: why NOt be picky?? I mean it is not like a law that you have to date. Why not pick the best if you are going to go out with someone.
Only good thing about dating around a bit is that you get some practive with datin and being comfortable with guys.
think about what you are really interested in and then join an activity that might have some guys in it with similiar views.
But again...don' worry..they guy who you really like will come along..and tust me..it will be a geat thing as you KNW what YOU like! [ dinoold's advice column | Ask dinoold A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 11:17 pm: Hey, I'm like...the pickiest girl ever, and I found my dream guy.
Don't lower your standards. You'll find a guy - don't settle for one you don't quite like enough. You'll just end up with an icky breakup. I mean, if I found a guy, it's possible for ANYONE. Be stubborn about your standards, if you want to.
Or lower them. it's up to you, but you'll find better guys for you if your standards are higher. Trust me on that one...^_^
I hope this helps!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
PerkyPeacock answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 9:52 pm: don't change your standards. the reason your friends can date so much is because they aren't picky enough. they choose to date those that like them, not those they like. just wait for someone you want to date, it's as simple as that. [ PerkyPeacock's advice column | Ask PerkyPeacock A Question ]
Squirrel_on_fire13 answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 8:55 pm: ha..here's my favorite saying for this situation:
Every girl has a prince out there...I almost got mine, but he took a wrong turn and is too stubborn to ask for directions.
XxRockon answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 8:15 pm: I think that is okay i've known a few ppl to be in that position. Maybe you can meet guys from other schools, like if some of urfriends know guys from other schools ask if u can have their sns so u can start talking. Another thing is, if you're extremely picky though i would try and ease up and just look for guys that are nice and u cud see ur self liking and see if maybe u like him and always keep and open mind :) best of luck, ull find one! [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
Briht_knee_89 answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 8:12 pm: okay, heres my boy lecture for you. Boys are soo complicated! but they find us ladies to be just as confusing. so before you go and 'settle' on someone think about BOTH of your feelings. i mean okay.. first off.. you dont wanna be put into an akward relationship, or a hurtful one. and by lowering ur standards you will prolly do that. and be lowering ur standards, and settling on any guy or what have you, your feelings could change. and you would end up hurting him, and he wud feel led on. so, if i was you, i wud just wait, ask some of ur 'easy-boy-settling' friends if you guys go out more, or go to places where some boys hang out.. from different schools. and be bold, and brave, get some numbers or screennames, and if theyre not right for you, they have friends. so good luck. hope i helped. and didnt confuse you! :o/! *brittany* [ Briht_knee_89's advice column | Ask Briht_knee_89 A Question ]
hersheykssz9 answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 8:08 pm: You will adventually find your "romeo" just search around and start making conversations with boys.Usually your guy-friends are your soul-mate.But all you have to see is if you find someone with a great personality then go after him.He doesnt have to be the hottest boy in the world! [ hersheykssz9's advice column | Ask hersheykssz9 A Question ]
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