okay there is this totally cute guy that I have liked for about a year or more.Last weekend I was at his house I kissed him and he kissed me back. I know there was something there, but we got caught by my dad. My dad didnt know that I had liked him for that long.Now both my parents dont6 want me to see him so I feel trapped and dont know what to do. I have cried over this guy many times and never knew he liked me.He knows how I feel about him and he says he doesnt want a girlfriend right now which is totally fine but now things are weird between us. How do I ask him out without getting hurt.PLZ HELP!!!!
Invincible_Once answered Wednesday November 3 2004, 4:13 pm: Just hint to him how your feeling. As much as you dont want to get hurt...its just going to put a lot of stress on you if you dont. I was in the same situation for a while...but when my mom realized how much this guy meant to me, she started to get better. I'm not saying she really likes the guy yet, but shes giving him a chance and it means a lot to me. [ Invincible_Once's advice column | Ask Invincible_Once A Question ]
MeadowLark answered Wednesday November 3 2004, 3:20 pm: I know this sounds harsh, but going out with a guy who you've cried over isn't going to work out in the end, it's just some weird thing that almost always happens. [ MeadowLark's advice column | Ask MeadowLark A Question ]
WiseWoman answered Wednesday November 3 2004, 9:56 am: "This totally cute guy"
How old are you? It sounds more like you are infatuated with him.
I'm sorry that you got caught, I know how embaressing that can be. But putting that aside, have you actually listened to what you said. You said that he doesn't want a girlfriend right now, and yet you want to ask him out, but you don't want to get hurt?????
The only way to save yourself further hurt and further embaressment is by not asking him out!!!
Stop obsessing over this boy! He knows how you feel, so if he is interested, he will ask you out once things stop being weird. [ WiseWoman's advice column | Ask WiseWoman A Question ]
TellTayler answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 10:49 pm: well, getting caught by ure dad wen u kiss is pretty embrassing. well, just try to be REALLY good friends with him and try to keep it on the DL and try to talk to your parents and say your sry if that doesnt' work then talk to me cuz i will go on here everyday ok? by good luck [ TellTayler's advice column | Ask TellTayler A Question ]
xoalyssap06ox answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 10:02 pm: OK well this happens alot to people but its ok, this sorta thing sorta happened to me just talk to the u kissed and ask whats going on just let him no how u feel get his s/n or #
I_love_horses answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 9:51 pm: What your parents dont know, wont hurt you, lol! Just try to get to know him more, ask him his digits(Phone #) or ask him if he has an email... That kind of stuff. [ I_love_horses's advice column | Ask I_love_horses A Question ]
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