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NO FRIENDS?
Lately I've been feeling out of the loop. Like, my best friend, she says some really obnoxious things to me sometimes, and they make me feel bad. And I was going to go out with a couple friends, but i guess it didn't work out, and I heard that one of them is still going. It makes me feel better. Me and my best friend hang out a lot but I always feel like my other friends [ mostly guy friends ] like her more. Not to be egotistical, but sometimes I wonder why people don't like me. I mean, I know my bad side, but I'm a lot nicer that a lot of my friends. I've been feeling really empty lately. I don't know what to do to perk myself up and I want to know how to change, for the better, to make myself happier. Also, tomorrow is my friends birthday and I have this gift for him, but lately he's just kind of been ignoring me. he's the one that still going out tomorrow. I'm kinda of mad at him, but he probably doesn't know why. Should I still give hime the gift?
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Have you ever noticed there is that one person that everyone likes. I mean for some reason they just have it. And you could be the most awesome friend..but everyone wants to hang out with them.
Am I helping no..as this is situation that will always be.
Your friend is going tomorrow..ask him what he has been distant...even he avoids your eyes ...something happened. But if he seems kind of shocked get him to open up..could be he is going through a lot of stuff.
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Well, I don't know what to tell you about your friends and what will make you happier but I do think that you should just hang in there and act your normal sweet self and see what happens. If it gets worse, then you should confront them. With that whole gift situation, it is his birthday and if he was mad at you, he shouldn't be after that, maybe just maybe your friend didn't get him a present and he will like you a whole lot more. But don't feel threatened by your friend, I'm sure she's not trying to make you feel that way, it's just how she is. If she is mean though, then ask her what you did wrong that made her act like this. I hope I helped! -Kayla
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I think you should talk to him and if he's still being an ass then return your gift and get your damn money back. He ain't worth shit.
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Of course you should give him the gift! He should like it a lot if you know what he likes, and the way to get your mind away from the people who are making your life sorta miserable is to find something really good to concentrate on...an activity or something different and interesting...because then you'll always have a topic of discussion for your friends, maybe something they can help with! But just be yourself and you should be okay.. but, just in case... “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” – Dr. Seuss
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