|
wondering
iight umm my bf is 15 and i'm 13 and we've been going out for say bout...a month or so,maybe a lil longer.okay and i really dont get to c him often but when we do c each other we make the best of it! and well like each time we c each other we kinda get more involed{ya no grabin and touchin,more kissin,and biting} okay i'm still a virgin and well hes not,but besides that i mean when we could have the chance to have sex,i dont no if i'll be....good or bad or somethin and i mean i no he really shouldnt care if i'm good at it or not but it'll be my first and i no some of the things that'll happen like:u'll bleed,and it'll hurt,and stuff but how much will u bleed? and actually how bad will it hurt!? and also do u think that i should have sex with him the next time we can have the chance?
and if u respond i will rate 5!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
no.. please don't have sex. sex should be a wonderful and special thing shared between two people who are really in love (even if its not the first time) and a month isn't enough.. it's ok to get hot and heavy (hell we can't deny that sometimes) but only have sex if YOU are really ready and you are prepared for the mental part of it and just really in love with him.. sex shoudlnt be just a silly thing you do with someone that's hot or makes you horny or whatever.. it should really be special.. and your guy should understand that if he doesnt. i'd ditch him.
]
Hey~OKay here's what I think. He is 15, ya know what that is his choose to loose his viginity but your only 13, do you really want to look back one that and share that to your kids?! I think that you should wait. And hell ya it will hurt!
]
You shouldn't have sex with him, i know you hate hearing this and i did too, but you are too young. I'd stick to making out and things like that. So, i really wouldn't advise having sex with him. You gotta make the best of your visits, like you are! Keep doing what you're doing and have fun doing it!
*Randy T*
You gotta enjoy it while it's here.
]
Personally I don't think you should have sex because you are so young. I really respect girls who go with abstinance. I mean you don't even love him, and he probably doesn't love him because you have only been going out for a month or so. I REALLY don't think you should have sex. I'm still a virgin so I don't know about the whole pain situation, but all my friends are having sex, they said the first time usually sucks, and hurts and you bleed. I really don't suggest doing it. If he's one of those grinding guys you are probably one of the naive 13 year olds in his mind who he can have sex with just by saying "i love you" but that's in his mind. Talk to him about it. See what he says and talk to me some more. xoxo
]
if you do have sex relex cause if you dnt its gunna hurt more
xox OUCH
]
well i really can't tell u if it hurts or not cause i am still a virgin too and i am like u in a way i want to lose but i am also freaked about it and what i say to my self is that if my heart feels the time is right then go for it and there is no rush to go have sex wait till u are more grown up doin oral i mean i do that and nuttin happens bad but stayina virgin is something i planned to do but don'tlet him perssure u into stuff u don't feel comfortable im so we can talk more about it i think u could help me.. troublewithcandi aim
]
I dont think you should have sex yet because your only 13.. and you have only been together for a month or so you said... i know that you do bleed it should only bleed for a little bit... its kinda like getting your period.. with out the cramps and all that and it doesnt last as long.. it hurts but not that bad... its okay to be scared your first time and that normal actually.. and all i can tell you is if your gonna have sex just let it happen to plan it.. let it be sumthing that is ment to be.
]
I think you're a little young and maybe should go out with him for another month or so. That's just my opinion though- it's your choice.
If you really are nervous...
- Clitical.com has tips (make sure to clear your internet history!)
- Use a condom!
- And birth control, if possible.
Also, it will hurt a little bit, and you'll bleed about half a tablespoon- not very much.
Like I said, it's your choice, but I think you should wait a month or so.
Good luck!
]
More Questions: |