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I'm 14, almost 15, and I'm a girl. I really like this guy and I thought he liked me too. He hasn't asked me out yet, but I know at one point he liked me because he told me..."I like you a lot but I don't want to go out right now." I've been waiting on him for I think almost a month now, and he's gotten me alone twice, both times he was kind of hinting for a kiss, but I thought I might have imagined it so I decided not to...twice, I kinda just said goodbye or see ya later and walked away. Now I think he's hurt by me doing that, and he hasn't asked me out, but I want to know what to do...he's confusing me. And along with that it was my ex-boyfriend who kinda hooked us up. He's the kinda guy who grinds with all the girls at our homecoming...do you think he's waiting unitl after that? do you think i hurt him by being afraid to kiss him? does he even like me anymore? what should i do?
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Aww, just give it a little more time and hang out with him a lot more. This will give him a chance to feel comfortable around you, comfortable enough to ask you out. I'm sure he likes you and he did want to kiss you, so next time you see a moment to kiss him and he's too shy or something but you know he wants to then just go for it and kiss him! If he wants to kiss you, then he'll kiss you back, otherwise he won't, but if you can tell enough that he wants to, but he is just too shy then he will most definitely kiss you back. So I he still likes you, but he wants more time, so give it to him. I hope I helped! -Kayla
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if the guy is mad b.c u didn't kiss than maybe u need a new guy he needs to understand that not ever girl is ready when the guy is and if u are waiting for him for over a month hun it is about time u find some new its not like i am pickin on him it is just that maybe he don't like u and he can't tell u in a way that u won't get hurt so just move on some one eles is out there for ya
Also if he liked u he would of already asked u out
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It's nice to know who asked this question because now I can really give my honest opinion about the guy and everything like that... I really think he does like you... he hinted he wanted a kiss but you pulled away.. don't worry he'll come around again. But don't be pressured into it if you don't feel ready. Just wait and maybe try *calling* him.. lol like i told you to do in the first place... but anyway... tell him to save you a dance at homecoming so he knows you still like him... and I'm sure he still likes you a lot...
Hope I helped!
~Lana (bowana hehe)
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