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Haha hey babes! Well, I live in The Woodlands (In Houston), Texas. (Don't get the wrong opinion of The Woodlands, it's not just stuck-up rich kids!) I'm 13, and I'm in 7th grade. I love to go to the movies and the mall with my hott friends. Haha, well I don't know what else to say. Later babes!
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okay im going to my girlfriends house on sunday for easter and i want to know what exactly turns a girl on like what to do to her you know like kissing her neck. i need all the help i can get!! thanks
Just to let you know, if her parents are there... don't do anything they wouldn't like. Girls hate it when ALL a guy is trying to do, is try to get into her pants. Bring her some flowers and a card when you meet her at the door, maybe a kiss. Then, move on from there, don't try to get into her pants. Maybe just make-out with her. It turns a girl on when you tell her she looks pretty today, as usual. It turns her off when you try to say stuff like,"your mmmm good like Cambell soup," or something gay like that. Good-luck!
My boyfriend of over a year used to treat me really bad, he'd ignore me and barely talk to me in school, but when id threaten to break up with him he'd be like do it do it and i would and he'd be the one gettin mad.. i dont understand how he'll let me do that and he wont care but after he gets mad becuase i did it. A girl wrote i love you on his hand and he acted like it was nothing but he wont let me write something on his hand. I do get jealous fast and he knows it, and i feel like he takes advantage of it. What should i do to make him appreciate me and make him say sweet things like he used to. I tell him to just break up with me if he doesnt care but he doesnt b/c he says he cares. I wish he would show it more ut how?
I think you should break-up with this guy. Don't ever let someone treat you that way, EVER! If he really cares about you... then he'll ask you back. Tell him, if he doesn't start caring more about you, then it's over for good. You can do so much more than that. Good-luck!
There's no way in explaining what happened without using a lot of words, so I apologize. I'm 16 and female by the way. I just don't want the people that read this and give me advice to get the wrong idea about things. I've been with this guy for almost 6 months, and recently he told me he doesn't feel the love anymore and that he wants to break up. Me, being stupid, begged him to stay with me. He said that he wanted to take a break to see if he missed me and such. Throughout our whole relationship he was so loving to me and we've both cried over eachother a lot. He's being completely contradictive right now like after he said he wasn't in love with me anymore, a day later he said he still loves me just not as much as he used to. The other day he said in the really pleading voice..."lay with me before you leave baby..please?"..and he cried when he told me he didn't wanna be with me so what the hell is he thinking? I have no idea whether he's just lying to me or if he really wants to work it out in the future. I talked to one of our mutual friends and she said he's afraid to break up with me cause he doesn't wanna hurt me but a few people say that we've just spent too much time together and he needs a break to really feel the love again. We were with eachother almost every day for the past 6 months...I don't know. Someone help me. I know he's good at heart..he really is and I didn't want anyone thinking he was an asshole for what he said.
Well, I think yall should spend at least a week away from each other. If yall were seeing each other EVERY day for 6 months, I can see where yall need to breath a little. It's not splitting up, it's just spending some time away from each other. Good-luck!
Okay, so I'm 14 and I RALLY like this guy on my bus, he's 18 though. He told my friend that he thought I was hot, and I mean he is SAWWOOOONNN!!! I haven't talked to him much, but should I even bother? I mean, I doubt we'd go out, too much of an age difference but should I try to get to know him and stuff? HES SOOO HOT!!!
Hmm, that is a big age difference. I...don't think you should go out with...straight away. 18 yr. old's think alot different than 14 yr. olds do, they want to do more stuff. You know? Just try to get to know this guy first, then move on from there. I might be able to work between yall, because most couples are a couple of years apart, I know one couple that's 12 years apart. Just follow your heart! Good-luck!
ok well im a model and i have a SERIOUS PROBLEM! my periods are like MAJORLY BAD!! like they soak through a maxi pad in like 2 seconds! and the blood comes out in these huge red clots and its like rocks and really dark blood kinda like bugers and blood combined its like weerd! and its so nasty and whenever im on my period on a photo shoot i bleed throuigh all the clothes and they make me pay for it and i dont get any jobs anymore!!! poeple have told me to go on the birth control pill so that i only have 4 periods a year... but it will amke me gain weight and i cant gain weight because it is gross and im a model...DUH! so yea... PLEASE HELP!! sooo GROSS!!
Hmm... your very open about your period arn't you. Anyway, why don't you wear tampons? They arn't as much of a hassel as pads. If you think your having problems with the amount of blood your having and the color of it, go to a doctor. DO NOT USE BIRTH CONTROL pills or else you will seriosly screw your period up. Good-luck!
like oh my gosh i like two girls at once but i think they both like me but one i know i could get again the other one wont come back around so who should i ask out!? please help me !!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Um... well are you sure they BOTH like you? I think you should go out with the one you like the most. Which one do you know more? Which one makes you laugh? Stuff like that. Don't go out with the one that's hotter than the other, because that doesn't always lead to a good relationship. Good-luck! Please write back!
ok well here is the thing... well ill jst giv u one of my MANY examples... there was this guy and he pressures me to do stuff with him all the time and i always say no i dont want to.. and hes all like well if you love me you will... and then we will get in this huge fight and then he will like call me and be like oh we were fighting?... i forgot.. anyways can you give me head?... and its like they think im like that but im not! and they just all want all this crap and i just cant get them to leave me alone but i dont want to loose them as friends and its not like... i can just stop... because its just not that simple! i just let them run me over and play with my emotions and they make me feel so bad about myself... and i have told them no im not like that i dont want to do that but then they say they hate me and they get other people to hate me and im one of those people who HATES it when people dont like me and stuff... i just want a way to get them to leave me alone with out offending them or making them hate me.. which is almost impossible because these dudes hav like freaking have no care about me... i think they just talk to me because they think i will do stuff with them...but if i ask them they say they think im cool and thats why they talk to me... but if i say they are using me they get so mad! PLEASE HELP ME!!
Ok... it's sounds like you just have a bad rep. of doing stuff with guys. Maybe it's your appearance that gives them that perspective of you. I think you need to start over, get a new look or something. Get new friends, not the one's that have that same rep. as you. YOU brought this apon yourself, not anyone else. This is your fault, and you need to fix it. Think about your actions before you acually do them. Good-luck! ;)
hey i was woundring if theyre is anythingi can do to stop popping my knuckles , its just a habbit , i dont it all the time , and what dose it to to your hands?
Try not the think about it. I would suggest to stop because first of all, it makes your knuckles huge. And second, because it is a proven fact that it leads to causing Arthritis.
I have a friend.. lets call her... loogie. Well loogie and I have been best friends for 3 years. I love her to death! (as a friend.. duh) but she is just kinda annoying!! I mean my friend and me had plans to go to the movies. Well the night before I asked loogie to spend the night. I called the person I was going to the movies with to make sure it was still happening or whatever.. MY FRIEND GOT SO MAD AT ME!! because she wasnt invited. I mean I cant spend all my time with her! Shes not my ONLY friend!! What do I do to tell her I have other friends and she doesnt have a hold on me?
She's just a little jelous, just tell her that she's not your only friend, and that you have other friends too. Talk it out with her.
so i have a perfect, popular, really hott boyfriend. more than i could ever ask for. and before i met my boyfriend there was this kid in my class named Brandon. brandon had a gurlfriend and they been togteher for a year. well we took a feild trip (9th grade only) and his girlfriend was a 10th grader. me and brandon held hands and he gave me a kiss. this was when i was single. after he kissed me he said he cant do that because he loves his girlfriend. well after that i got my boyfriend but he goes to a different school than me and brandon. now brandon and his girlfriend are broken up. he broke up with her for me. he didnt know i had gotten a bf until i told him today. but he keeps hugging me (just as friends) and he asked if i wanted to go to the beach with just him this week (spring break). he gave me this easter egg with his number inside of it!! im soo happy right now because i liked him soo much and hes finally single. but i havev a boyfriend now and i dont want to break up with my boyfriend. what do i do? and if i go to the beach should i tell brandon were just going as friends? im so confused
How much do you get to see your boyfriend? I think it depends who you like more, your boyfriend or Brandon? I think you should go out with Brandon, because he's right THERE. You know what I mean? Who gives if your boyfriend is popular, and really hott, go with your heart. And if you do end up going to the beach with Brandon, I think you should go just as friends until you figure things out. Good-luck!
Ugh. I screwed up big time. There's this kid (Joe)..and he's going out with my best friend..at one point and time he liked me and vice versa.. but now i hate him big time and vice versa. but the thing is , is that out of everyone on the bus we rather sit with each other because I guess we're both anti-social in a way. Well we were fighting (physical fighting)..and just kissed, I dont know, we were into the moment i guess..it only lasted about 15 seconds, but still.. i have no idea what I'm going to say to my best friend or even whether or not I should tell her... any ideas?
I think you should tell your friend what happened. Tell her it was a total accident, and tell her if she's mad at you, she has no reason to. If you don't tell her sooner or later, she's going to find out anyway. And when she does, she's not going to be happy. Good-luck!
My name is Amy Bussel and I am 21 years old, my fiance and I have just seperated, because I cuss to much at him. Although this is not the first time that this has happened and every other time he has came home to me this time my hope is very low. I have never done anyhting that would hurt him and have always gone out of my way to make sure that he is happy. He has always came first in my life. When he leaves like this it is usually for a few days and even without a phone call. Can you tell me do you think that he will come back home to me this time??
Wow, I might not have to best advice for you, but I'll try. First of all, why do you cuss at him? Is it out of anger? No offense, maybe you should surf the web to see if there are any solutions to cussing so much. Call him, and talk it out. Go to a marriage counselor. Good-luck!
Hey! I my classmates make fun of me and talk behind my back cause of my weight limit i mean i am a little over weight and i try to keep in shape. Why is everyone so mean to me? I never do anything mean to them? I dont get it? why do kids have to be so mean.
Well, I'm sorry to break the news, but kids are just that way. Just ignore them, because when there older, half of them will probably be overweight anyway. If your worried about how much you weigh, try to watch what you eat. Here's a weight loss program that might help: Try and drink 4 bottles of water a day, one every five hours. Maybe one during breakfast, one during lunch, one during dinner, and one before you go to bed. Bring a small snack with you to eat during the day, like a healthy mix or something. If your eating lunch during school, try not to pack anything unhealthy like cookies. If you buy lunch, just buy a sandwitch or something. Try to surf on the web for any other weight-loss programs. Good-luck!
hey i'm 13 and i'm a Christian! i would really like to know more bible verses for i'm going through so much (parents are like yea...and my friends are failing me...and i have like 2 major issues of being easily angered and jealous, i'm praying about it too) so if you know any bible verses that might help me with the above or just any good ones tell me!! thanks soooo much *i rate*
Wow, I'm so glad your open about being a Christian! Most people don't ask serious question's like that, I'm a Christian too! Here's a couple of verses that I LOVE!
Relax, God's in charge.
- I don't know the verse, sorry!
I can do all things through Him who strengthens me. -PHILIPPIANS 4:13
Remember...
His past blessings brought.
Remember...
All the things He sought.
Remember...
He is always there to meet each need in answered prayer.
Remember.
Good-luck!
When I went snowboarding with family anf friends during winter break, I had to rent a snowbaord, and the guy there (he's 18) flrited with me so much, saying stuff like "If you need to come back for any reason come back and I'll help you." and Then he started asking me what I liked to do besides boarding, and what music I listned too. Then I went home. We went back up for February break, and he was there. And this time he gave me his number and aim . We've started to talk online, and he says stuff like "I miss you so much." "I wana be with you so bad" and calls me beautiful, sweetheart, and baby. And I'm *SUCH* a sucker for a sweeet talker. he's really nice and all. But I have no idea how I'll ever be able to hang out with him. We live couple hundred miles away. I have a cottage near his house, but have no idea how to hang with him, because my Dad and rest of my family would FLIP OUT! Any Advice on what to do? (I just wana hang out with the kid, get to know him and whatnot )
Wow, this is interesting...how much do you know about this guy? And I've given this advice before, but most long distance relationships don't work out unless you see each other every now and then. Unless it's going to get serious, I suggest you and him just stay friends until further more. Good-luck!
how do you ask a guy to be your boyfirned? i mean im old fashioned and i dont think me, being a girl, should ask him, because hes a guy. i mean i dont wanna screw it up because i like him ALOT, i think about him all the time, but my friend, whos like his best friend, he just said that i should either ask him out or not like him at all, which is making alot of sense, but im too scared. how should i do it?
Well, I see where your scared to ask HIM out. Most girls are that way, it just seems right is the guys asks the girl out, not the other way around. I think you should find out if this guy likes you or not, then move from there. You could also get someone else to ask him out for you, if you feel more comfortable with that. Good-luck!
Ok, I have a b.f. in Arkansas, and we met once and i really love him. He has no email, and i can't call guy's. I don't know if we should still be together or not. I mean i've only had fealings for him, out of all the boys i've met, which iz like three. Wat should i do. I love him.
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Hmm, this is a tuff one! Most long distance relationships don't last unless you see each other every now and then, and stay in touch. You and this guy do neither of those, I suggest you and him just stay friends until you can do those things. Good luck!
there are 2 guys that like me and one is very outgoing but he can be rude sometimes but he loves me and then the other guy is very sweet but he is quiet. which one should i go for???
It depends what your personality is like... are you more outgoing, or more of the quiet type? For the first guy, is he rude ALL the time? How rude is he? Ask yourself those questions. For the second guy, it's good for guys to be quiet, trust me. Good luck!
ok so there is this guy and i kind of know him so i one time me and my friends were out and we saw him so we stopped to talk and we talked for a while and me and him just clicked. so i told my best friend.. BAD IDEA. so she was talking to him on instant messaging and his profile was I WANT THAT GIRL _ _ _ _ _ _ and my name fit! so she was like who is it? who is it? and he is so sick of her now.. but finally he was like ok its this girl named amanda from another school. that was about 2 months ago. today she instant messaged him and was being mean and they were talking and then she was like o sorry i forgot u love amanda and he was like why do u care? and she was like guess y and he goes one of your friends like me and she was like ?who and he goes (my name)? and she goes nope (so he wouldnt know) and then he wouldnt talk! o and hes always staring at me and smiling in class so my question is do you think he might like me and should i tell him i like him or anything like that? thanx
Well, next time, don't tell you friends that kind of stuff, sometimes they just say too much. Don't tell him you like him or anything like that, just talk to him a little more and more. Be flirtatious! Guys love that, trust me. Good luck!