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my problam is like love at one side
she know me but we dose tlak with each other once
and she is in a relationship with some one (link)
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Okay. I understand your situation hun , think about it this way does she have any feelings for you? because if she did or if she did love you she would leave her boyfriend for you. However personally its also hard for her to just like leave him if you have only spoken once..
ask yourself this .. is it really love? or is she really worth it? ...
you could tell her how you feel but that might seem to confuse her;
You say she knows you but has she gotten to know like the real you inside? what if she has feelings inside for you but is scared to to tell you because she might end up hurting you and her boyfriend. If she does has feelings for you i suppose she could be playing with your head + feelings aswell... you have to talk to there but dont be so clingy niether , like ask her normally what her thoughts are about you.
GOOD LUCK HUN IF ANYTHING IM HEREEE :) XXXX
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ok like my frind kelsey and i have been friends for a long time. and now like sara is trying to take her away from me and like i dont know what to do they only hung out for like a day before sara spent the night and sara doesnt even like her that much until now. and i have no clue of what to do. pls pls help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Talk to kelsey tell her how you feel , and how much you don't wanna lose your friendship. If she was your real friend she would always be there, second of all you can't choose the friends she can hang out with , she is entitled to be with who ever she wants to be with.
I think you could be jelous :| no lie.
but then again this Sara trying to provoc you or get your attention , she sounds kinda immature :S like really she needs to get over it (Y) seriously.
keep hanging out with your friend !!! like if you end up walking away , the sara girl is gonna end up laughing in your face or even behind your back.
I think sara sounds like a two face cow , whats her problem if she don't like your mate why she hanging with her? she has a real problem honestly.
talk to this chick init be straight up about her :) if you walk away your going to end up looking like a coward.
GOOD LUCK BABE Xxxx
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i am a 13 yr old female and right now guys are very complicated for me. one guy that i like likes me too but i've got a bf nd the guy that i like kind of a player. i like him A LOT! but im not sure what to do. he has hurt me(not physically) so many times that im scared to give him a chance but i really want to. and my boyfriend is huggin up on some other chick all the time and it bothers me but i don't know what to do about him. it seems like the guy that i like is the only person i can kind of trust. me and him are a like in so many ways it's not even funny. im just not sure who to go with. :( (link)
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First off all babe your 13 :) think about this don't be stressed over a guy who ain't worth it , if I was in your shoes I would end it straight away how could you be so silly to let your own boyfriend hugg up another chick? Have some common sense , sorry if I sound rude but I'm being straight up. I'm 17 and when I was your age I use to be sprung over any dumb guy , as I got older I thought very different about everyone and everything.
Second of all the guy you like is a Player? think about it , if you end up with this guy your gonna get hurt even worse and whos gonna have the blame but you? - he doesn't sound like the type of guy I would wanna be with;
You have so much time to get a real guy not even a little boy but a man. You say you trust this guy you like? but can you trust him enough to be with you? , say he plays you what are you going to do? CRY? no. I advise you to be with non of them no matter how much you like him , and how much you think your both alike, you can be friends with him thats fine.
Break up with that idiot of your boyfriend he has no right to make you feel like that , especially at your age? Life ain't easy and neither is a relationship. But i think that is tearing you up , you have become attached to him and i think it's time you let him go and your past too.
I say you have a one to one talk with your mum , thats if she knows your dating the guy , mums have more expirience she is a woman too she can help you in so many ways and i'm sure she would say the same thing to you. Everything happens for a reason :) remember that.
GOOD LUCK HUN !! keep your head up too xxx
and don't be sad he doesn't deserve to have you i'm sure about that .
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My girlfriend and I have just had some major issues and we've both come to the conclusion that this is best solved by just starting over 100%. We both agree on the idea, but neither of us really know how to do it...any ideas? (link)
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Well in my opinion if you both what to start fresh, you both have to talk about what you both don't like eachother if you really love eachother you would be able to change for one another. This creating a much stronger friendship and relationship , you say you don't know how to do it. It is hard if you have major issues , you could decide to have a sort of break but I don't think thats a good idea. Start off with being friends again take things slow , never rush them at all.. your relationship would mean alot of respect for one anothers decisions and thoughts. Make her feel that shes worth starting everything all over again , if you have been dating a really long time I do think the best idea is to start from scratch and take things in a really slow procedure. Tell her what you didn't like about your recent relationship , she would have to understand ... I also think that if you both want to be intimate you have to wait a while to gain eachothers trust again because without trust in a relationship there is nothing at all.
Good Luck :) !! every action has a consequence.
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me and my bestfriend have decided we like eachother in a way that most people thinks wrong. we're both girls, i'm fifteen and she's sixteen, and we've ended up making out and doing little things when we're really drunk but we don't know what else you can do? we're going to try doing something sober to see if it's for us, but we don't know what to do, as we're both slightly uncomfertable with going down on eachother as its just a bit weird, and like, i don't know. we just need something to do but we're unsure of what girls can do with eachother. suggestions welcome! thankyou(: xxx (link)
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Have you thought about the fact that your bisexual or lesbian? Are you attracted to girls? Cause if you was , and knowing she is your best mate you wouldn't mind doing anything. However since your both unsure on going down on eachother I think you both need to wait on that, no pressure. Make sure you 100 percent positive on what your doing.
Right you say you both feel weired , maybe you lot doing things at a certain age is uncomfortable I personally think you both need to like relax totally and think before you do things because say one of you ain't up to it and ends up regreting it. If you both like eachother just stick to the basics to rush things unless you both want to end up being in a relationship. If your only going to do things while your sober then there is no point in doing anything at all , for you both to do intimate stuff you both have to feeling something strong for eachother and have alot of trust knowing that only you two are gonna be the ones who will know what your doing. Yet again both have to respect eachother by this I mean you lot are really young and if your best mate aint up for it you can't force her at all. Talk to her about this and especially on what you feel for eachother. Honesty is always the best policy , you wanna do something that its nice and yet your both gonna be happy with :)
You can make out its alright its normal , you can use toys but in my opinion i think you both are really young for this. I've done things with girls before in the past but to be honest it don't feel the same when your drunk and i ain't bisexual because this was when i was like around your age. Think carefully on what you do , good luck babe :) xxx
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My family is very stern about meeting the guys I date. I usually wait to see how the relationship goes before I introduce them to each other. In the past my boyfriends have gotten along good with my family, but I am nervous about this one. My boyfriend has red orange hair and I am afraid my parents will judge me. They've always made jokes about people with orange colored hair and I don't want to be teased. I want my boyfriend to feel comfortable, more so. He's very sweet and I want my parents to see how happy he makes me. But I am scared they'll be so mean. Any advice? (link)
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Looks arn't everything in life , always remember that they just capture the eye but not the heart. Your the one who is dating him not them, if they can't accept your happyness then they are selfish sorry to say this, but sometimes parents think they can control everything they can't choose who you fall for. If they don't like him cause of his looks then they are stuck up and therefore that means you have to intefere and stand up for yourself and your relationship. Tell them how you both feel and he has to explain to your dad how he feels for you and how much he respects you.
Personality is the most important thing and respect ! Good luck :)
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My boyfriends parents are divorcing and I want to give him a kiss and hug him and tell him its all going to be alright. But we havent kissed yet. We have been dating for four years, How should I go about doing this? (link)
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OMG !! no kiss for 4 years thats a record.
Main thing is that you should be there for him give him all your support :) show him that you would stand by him no matter what. A kiss can wait if you waited this long , little longer won't hurt anyone right? Go for it !
gd luck xx
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Hey everyone I will make a long story somewhat short. I am 15/f name: Kayla his name: Brandon. well, a year ago I started to like this guy and he liked me we flirted hung out all the time in school we did so much together everyone in our grade knew we liked each other including the teachers!!!! The thing is he had a girlfriend. Well over the summer I went to all of his baseball games and hung out with him hes such a great guy with a great family l know too. Well when school started back he was the same he would let me wear all of his stuff like hats etc. And I would let him wear some of my stuff for fun (sunglasses)and I finaly told him I liked him even though he probally already knew it and he said he liked me too. By then he didnt have a girlfriend so I said are we gonna...?(go out) and he said idk and so we talked at school I was so happy I figured he was thinking about us going out I thought he was probally a little scared because his previous girlfriend broke his heart and treated him bad. Well then after a while he texted and said I like you I just dont want a girlfriend right now and btw this was back in Augast when this was going on. About a week after that though he stopped talking to me completely and started hanging out with preps and never talked to me once and guess what now its April. It has been forever he tore me to pieces I love (still do) but sinse then I have cried myself to sleep so many nights felt like just giving up with everything I even developed stomach ulsers It tore me up bad. Now recently he just started barely talking to me just a couple of words I was shocked and I started to get a little hope then one day I don't if this means anything but he dropped his calculater infront of me and said Im sorry Kayla do you forgive me and he smiled and I said yes Brandon. But he may have ment it about the calculater idk IM SO CONFUSED and I have recently includin just an hour ago went to his baseball game with my friends and he noticed I was there and as he was walking by me as I was sitting and he looked right at me and all I could think was memoriesss. Btw a lot of times in class i catch him staring at me because our eyes will meet and we will look away fast. (He still is all buddy buddy with the preps tho) I just need your help what do you think about this? what do you think I can do to get my happy ending with him and things. Please help me I love him I really do and he means so much to me. Please dont give any answers like 1.) your to young don't worry about it or 2.) your crazy get over him. Just help please Thank you(: p.s. sorry this wasnt short! (link)
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Your still young, i was like madly in love with some guy at that age aswell we dated till forever but lied to me about his feelings... he said he loved me while he was loving someone else YES it torn me apart but i was like 'FORGET HIM' i deserve someone better.
However when someone gets off a relationship it takes time to move on to another one.. it has been a long time but i think he's being a loser. He's pratically dissing you ! People never realise what they have until its gone .. one day hes gonna wanna run back to you and your not gonna be there for him anymore .. he is gonna want you and your not gonna like him !
I think you deserve someone so much better than him :) you seem like a lovely girl. Plus your really young !
Dont cry for someone who wont cry for you , for someone who dont love you. If he liked you as much as he said he did he would have made a move to you and yet the guy is taking his time PATHETIC. Some guys at that age are really immature they don't even know want... little boys really. You don't need a boy what you need is a MAN. sooner or later he would come ...Memories is all thats left; You could try being friends but thats gonna hurt you more, ignore him pay him no attention he would realise what a idiot he has been.
GOOD LUCK SWEETIE :)
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There is this new kid this year I like. I found out I cannot stop thinking about him. I can tell he doesn't like me, but when I am in the same class as him, I feel like flying. Today he got hurt in P.E. and I hurt and felt like bawling. Is it love? If so, please tell me how to get him to like me. (link)
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If he likes you, he would like you for who you are. Be yourself :)
Start off with a friendship but don't get so clingy because he makes the guy annoyed, don't seem desperate for him ! Make yourself like a play hard to get type of girl ... talk about things and see what things you have in common , see what kind of guy he is :)
If he compliments you its a nice start you could do the same but not as much ... don't be so flirty because it makes the guy think your easy and flirty girls arn't always nice.
You have a crush not love, love takes time to be formed.. you have to get to know the person first before you fall for him. Personality always captures the heart and looks the eye.
best of luck hun !
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ok so im 19/f and sometimes i masturbate. when i finger myself it doesnt feel good. it doesnt feel like anything. it only feels good if i rub my clit but thats it. why is that? are my fingers too small or something? i want it to feel good like how having sex feels. help please. (link)
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why don't you try new things? like toys? sometimes fingers gets a bit boring , its always a good idea to go and explore new things.
Masturbating wont give you the same feeling as sex believe me , it could be close but not the same. Fingers dont really have nothing to do with it ... like are you usually horny when you finger?
I've masturbated but when I do i'm in one of them moods i do use fingers but i think its plain ... i've tried toys but i think sex is a better feeling; If you want the real thing just have sex. Rubbing your clit is a nice sensation! Like i said try new things or a male partner to do it to you ... like he could finger you , getting fingered by your boyfriend is really nice depending how your feeling aswell.
Good luck !
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HEy ok so my boyfriend and i broke up like 2 months ago now in school we sit RIGHT next to eachother and like he will always turn and look at me and i will say what and he will smile and look away what is he trying to say?!?! oh and then other times hes all flirty with other girls:( haha ok plzz help! (link)
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He wants attention from you when he flirts with other girls, in this case he wants to make it seem as your desperate for him. You shouldn't even stare at him acting as if you don't care but deep down you do ! No don't be convinced by his looks , looks lie if he still liked you he would come after you yet has he done that? Mmm... if he don't chase you ... you should just let him go ! Im sure you deserve better;
In my opinion i think school relationships are hilarious i dont think you have any privacy at all, I think you should talk to him ask him whats what and why is he all of a sudden looking at you? And if he did care or like you he wouldn't flirt with other chicks its uncool. Take care !!
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i have a boyfriend and we love eachother very much but i never told my parents and only some of my friends i trust know and if we even get to kiss we have to sneak.
i really need some help because i don't want to hurt the people i love. and i want to know if its worth all that trouble (link)
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Right .. honestly if these people you call your friends cared about you and your happines they wouldn't care who your with :) I had the same problem but with my mum she disliked my ex boyfriend so much but it came to a point where i couldn't take it anymore & i confronted her.. I told her how i felt about him and how happt I was with him.
You need to realise things babe! Your parents had a chance when they were young , now its your turn to live it ... if your happy then don't end it. Don't let your friends take that opportunity from you its not worth it because if you do at the end of the day your the one whos gonna be hurting yourself only. Listen sorry if i sound a bit erm harsh but it you both loved each other you wouldn't care what people thought especially your friends who come and go , real friends are there for you they support you and stand by your feelings yet they don't seem to be doing that right? Talk to them first don't make any harsh choices. You both seem to have a healthy relationship but its going to come to the point where he is gonna get fed up of everythingg ! Im sure you dont want him walking away right? You dont wanna hurt the people you love but fact is the people you love are hurting you and you aint realising it... they should respect who your with. Unless the guy your with has done wrong things but if thats not the case I think you should stand up to your parents and family both of you. Makes you seem more mature ! and it would make your relationship stronger cause your fighting for something you believe in. Good luck babe :) hope i could help.
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i am 13, i have gotten fingered and felt up multiple times.. it isnt bad because it feels good but im also only in 6th grade. i have sent pictures.. but with a bra on. i am not dating the person who fingered me or felt me up, and it has happend with more than one guy. please tell me what u think. (link)
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Im sorry to say this but you have no self respect! your 13!? seriously.... Urm i'm no one to give you bad names but as you grow up people are going to start naming you things.
You have to change .. your still a child!
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im goind out with this really CUTE guy but wen we talk his and my friends always come around and it bothers us and he and i get mad at our friends and if it keeps happening our relation ship might end and i dont want that to happen i'll be sad forever :,[ please help!!!! (link)
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you need to talk to your so called friends its not their relationship its yours. You both need time together... if your friends and his friends cant see that then their completely stupid.
Dont make your friends tear you both apart , they could envy you both knowing that you spend more time with eachother than them.
:) good luck
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how do you know if a guy really loves you, or if he is just using you for sex? (link)
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if he loves you he would wait until your ready to give yourself to him.. !
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I AM AN INDIAN
hey i love a girl but she is not interested in love affection so how make fall in love wid me
MALe 18 (link)
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hello... first of all you can never make someone fall in love with you, love takes time. You could try being friends with her first, get to know her what she likes hobbies etc.. what kind of person she really is. I think what you have is a physical attraction towards her ... maybe
start off basic never rush things , everything has its own process in life.
Be a gentleman to her :) be sweet aswell. You would start to see what sort of guys she likes.
good luck!
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19 female-My boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me two days ago. We've been off and on for the past 4 months because he is battling a serious drug addiction and doesn't want to drag me down while hes trying to get help himself. When he broke up with me he was here visiting because he lives 7 hours away. He told me how much he loved me and seemed really undecided. I know he needs time to figure out his life. It just hurts really bad and i begin to have a lot of doubt that he will ever come back. We were off and on because of the drugs and never really fight about other things. I am really self consious that maybe he just wanted out and didn't really mean when he said that he wanted to meet up later in life when hes figured out things and is working towards something. He kept saying that we were meant for each other and it makes this really hard. I know that he seriously does need time to himself and im proud of him for actually trying to change. I was a little mean because I was so sad and said things like I hate my life now cause of you but Im hoping he understands that I dont and that I was just being dramatic and upset. I really miss him and really want him to come back but I dont know what to do. I know he needs time and logically it makes sense, its just emotionally the coping is hard to deal with :/ Do you think he was just saying those things to make me feel better and doesn't really mean them? Or do you think he really will work on himself and one day come back to me? :/Any advice would be helpful, Ive never really been this sad in my life. (link)
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Helloo...
I think you should support him in every aspect of his desicions & you should be by his side even as a friend, you never know if he could really need someone right now. Drug addiction is a major thing to get out off and it takes time, he cares about you because he doesn't want to make things worse, if he loves you he would try and win your heart again further on in life. It's all in patience like I always say 'Good things come to those who wait'.. living so far from eachother is actually quite hard but its also possible to make the relationship work. Being mean to him in a situation like this makes you seem like a jerk , or like selfish and its totally not the way to handle something. Being upset is absolutely fine breaks always hurt especially if they are for so long. Take it easy babe I think you need a break from your social life or at least talk to your mum about it if you both have a healthy relationship its never good to be alone in a time like this. Never give up and always stay positive if it was meant to be , he would come back for you after his drug treatment. Hope i could help hunnie !
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Should i masturbate since my boyfriend is at work and im bored? (link)
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Right... don't maturbate I find it pathetic and really just don't cheat it ain't the best option. I say you invite your girls over have some fun no lesbian action ahaha but like keep yourself entertained .. if you cheat you've made the worst mistake ever. GOOD LUCK
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okay, this is long but i really need help.
about 5 months ago, i started getting over friendly with a boy i was friends with. when we were together all we did was flirt and joke and i loved it. we started texting and i told him i liked him. things were good and he said he liked me back. we got together one night and it was amazing. i forgot about everyone around us and we spent the whole night together just kissing and cuddling. he told me he loved me after that but i thought he was just being silly. things after got bad as we could never meet and he always seemed so needy. i ended it a few times but we always got back. then i ended it for good 2 months ago. i thought i wasnt ready for anything he wanted. he took it hard and begged me to come back but i thought i was over him. then valentines we were at a disco. i was talking to him and just wanted to kiss him. I told him and he ignored me. at the end of the night i seen him kiss another girl, and it felt like a kick in the stomach. i was completely gutted. i told him i still liked him and he told me he didnt like me anymore. i was shocked it had come to that. i then started to constantly think about him, i realised i was madly in love with him and i started to fall out with him over nothing all the time. i felt bad and i knew he tried to be friends. he told me one night he always loved me and then told me he had a new girlfriend. i burst into tears and was very upset. things went down hill from there, he is a flirt and flirts with all my friends + me even though he has a girlfriend. he seems to not care anymore and doesnt really make an effort with me, but its breaking my heart and i dunno what to do. i just want to be with him and no one else :| (link)
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I felt like I had to answer this, first of all breathe its not the end of the world ... realise that everything happens for a reason .. maybe in the future you would be together. But at the moment I think its better you move on, honestly why love someone who doesn't love you back? It's a matter of fact, it may be lust but you never know. NEVERRR beg !! it makes the guy think your dying over him, personally i think you should be strong and i imagine your a beautiful girl, hide your pain never show what you feel its not worth it I think you smile.
If you loved him as much as you say you do you would be happy for him that he found someone else even if it's not you , think about it you can't be selfish with feelings... He may be with this girl to get you jelous but don't pau attention because at the end of the day your going to find someone so much better and that would love you the same way you do to them. It takes time to get over someone but you should keep your mind busy and never lose hope because life its short and you should enjoy it the way its supposed to be enjoyed. I understand you wanna be with him but the more you feel depressed the longer it's gonna take for you to get over him, you may think that what I'm saying is wrong but i'm no one to make your choices i'm here to help you and i've been through the same but when you think about the things that the person has done to hurt you it makes you get over them quicker. It was his loss if he didn't see what he had infront of his eyes.
Always say to yourself that your beautiful and that someone out there one day would love as much as you would love , but they would you for who you are not what you look like :) take care !
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should i skip with my boyfriend and amke out with him? (link)
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How long have you been with the guy , thats the main question and is there enough trust to actually make out with him. Dont just make out cause your honry babe seriously , always think twice before making actions.
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