My boyfriends parents are divorcing and I want to give him a kiss and hug him and tell him its all going to be alright. But we havent kissed yet. We have been dating for four years, How should I go about doing this?
RoxyK96 answered Friday April 15 2011, 11:05 pm: I know how he is feeling. When my parents went through their divorce I wasnt really in the mood for kissing my BF. I understand where you are coming from aswell about wanting to show him your there for him but i dont know if a kiss would be the best way to go about it. Try hugging him and just letting him know you care and will stand by him no matter what. Although if you are determined to actually kiss him,whether it be for support or other things ;) , the most important thing is to make sure he is up for it. Try leaning in to give him a kiss, slowly, so he understands what your are trying to do. He should respond by also leaning in and kissing you. Whatever his react you shouldnt try and push yourself onto him. If you have to, try waiting untill this mess is over.
LatinaAdvice answered Friday April 15 2011, 5:10 pm: OMG !! no kiss for 4 years thats a record.
Main thing is that you should be there for him give him all your support :) show him that you would stand by him no matter what. A kiss can wait if you waited this long , little longer won't hurt anyone right? Go for it !
nikz answered Friday April 15 2011, 11:42 am: wow four years that's a while but i think for now you should just hug him and let him know that you are there to support him fully i don't think you should kiss him right now wait until things are cooled down and he's not that pissed off because it just might backfire
Brandon261 answered Friday April 15 2011, 4:22 am: well it sounds like hes been really pissed about his family so just wait until hes not so sad and then when you lean over to kiss him he should respond with one too [ Brandon261's advice column | Ask Brandon261 A Question ]
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