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I'm shy how can I make a guy like me?
Hey you guys im 13/f well I used to be really outgoing and flirty but then I lost my bestfriend that brought out the flirty popular side of me and well lets just say I went down on the popularity firtyness chain. Hahaha and I don't want any answers saying 1. you dont have to be popular 2. your to young worry about it later. I just want to know how to show a guy I like him/ flirt and get guys to like me thats easy for a shy person. The guys that still are my friends are popular and stuff but like we dont talk that much anymore sinse you know im kinda shy now and they r the people I like and I know I have it in me to do this I just need help. Thats easy PLEASE HELP ME(:
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Treat the guy like you would one of your girlfriends and talk to him as if he were already your friend, parent, sibling etc and you will find that over time you become a natural and forget shyness. Be who you are goofy, flirty, outgoing and forget about a reaction. You can only defeat shyness by doing that.
Talking to them is no different than anyone else you talk to except you may wind up with a date from it. That's the key. Practice makes perfect but don't do it with anyone you really aren't interested in as you don't want to be seen as someone who teases guys and lets them go when they show interest back. I know that's not you but just saying for others.
Guys are just as scared of you and flirting as you are of doing it with them. They will admire you whether interested or not for grabbing the bull by the horns and just going after what you want. Don't hold yourself back go for it and don't think. Problem is you over-analyze something that is really not as frightening as you believe. Trust me you'll be okay.
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