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I miss him so much ([please help me!)
Hey everyone I will make a long story somewhat short. I am 15/f name: Kayla his name: Brandon. well, a year ago I started to like this guy and he liked me we flirted hung out all the time in school we did so much together everyone in our grade knew we liked each other including the teachers!!!! The thing is he had a girlfriend. Well over the summer I went to all of his baseball games and hung out with him hes such a great guy with a great family l know too. Well when school started back he was the same he would let me wear all of his stuff like hats etc. And I would let him wear some of my stuff for fun (sunglasses)and I finaly told him I liked him even though he probally already knew it and he said he liked me too. By then he didnt have a girlfriend so I said are we gonna...?(go out) and he said idk and so we talked at school I was so happy I figured he was thinking about us going out I thought he was probally a little scared because his previous girlfriend broke his heart and treated him bad. Well then after a while he texted and said I like you I just dont want a girlfriend right now and btw this was back in Augast when this was going on. About a week after that though he stopped talking to me completely and started hanging out with preps and never talked to me once and guess what now its April. It has been forever he tore me to pieces I love (still do) but sinse then I have cried myself to sleep so many nights felt like just giving up with everything I even developed stomach ulsers It tore me up bad. Now recently he just started barely talking to me just a couple of words I was shocked and I started to get a little hope then one day I don't if this means anything but he dropped his calculater infront of me and said Im sorry Kayla do you forgive me and he smiled and I said yes Brandon. But he may have ment it about the calculater idk IM SO CONFUSED and I have recently includin just an hour ago went to his baseball game with my friends and he noticed I was there and as he was walking by me as I was sitting and he looked right at me and all I could think was memoriesss. Btw a lot of times in class i catch him staring at me because our eyes will meet and we will look away fast. (He still is all buddy buddy with the preps tho) I just need your help what do you think about this? what do you think I can do to get my happy ending with him and things. Please help me I love him I really do and he means so much to me. Please dont give any answers like 1.) your to young don't worry about it or 2.) your crazy get over him. Just help please Thank you(: p.s. sorry this wasnt short!
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Your still young, i was like madly in love with some guy at that age aswell we dated till forever but lied to me about his feelings... he said he loved me while he was loving someone else YES it torn me apart but i was like 'FORGET HIM' i deserve someone better.
However when someone gets off a relationship it takes time to move on to another one.. it has been a long time but i think he's being a loser. He's pratically dissing you ! People never realise what they have until its gone .. one day hes gonna wanna run back to you and your not gonna be there for him anymore .. he is gonna want you and your not gonna like him !
I think you deserve someone so much better than him :) you seem like a lovely girl. Plus your really young !
Dont cry for someone who wont cry for you , for someone who dont love you. If he liked you as much as he said he did he would have made a move to you and yet the guy is taking his time PATHETIC. Some guys at that age are really immature they don't even know want... little boys really. You don't need a boy what you need is a MAN. sooner or later he would come ...Memories is all thats left; You could try being friends but thats gonna hurt you more, ignore him pay him no attention he would realise what a idiot he has been.
GOOD LUCK SWEETIE :)
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well im 13 and if he means that much to you have you tried to get him alone to tlk of you can send him a note and explain how you feel he might just come around
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