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not so sure about which guy to go with
i am a 13 yr old female and right now guys are very complicated for me. one guy that i like likes me too but i've got a bf nd the guy that i like kind of a player. i like him A LOT! but im not sure what to do. he has hurt me(not physically) so many times that im scared to give him a chance but i really want to. and my boyfriend is huggin up on some other chick all the time and it bothers me but i don't know what to do about him. it seems like the guy that i like is the only person i can kind of trust. me and him are a like in so many ways it's not even funny. im just not sure who to go with. :(
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First off all babe your 13 :) think about this don't be stressed over a guy who ain't worth it , if I was in your shoes I would end it straight away how could you be so silly to let your own boyfriend hugg up another chick? Have some common sense , sorry if I sound rude but I'm being straight up. I'm 17 and when I was your age I use to be sprung over any dumb guy , as I got older I thought very different about everyone and everything.
Second of all the guy you like is a Player? think about it , if you end up with this guy your gonna get hurt even worse and whos gonna have the blame but you? - he doesn't sound like the type of guy I would wanna be with;
You have so much time to get a real guy not even a little boy but a man. You say you trust this guy you like? but can you trust him enough to be with you? , say he plays you what are you going to do? CRY? no. I advise you to be with non of them no matter how much you like him , and how much you think your both alike, you can be friends with him thats fine.
Break up with that idiot of your boyfriend he has no right to make you feel like that , especially at your age? Life ain't easy and neither is a relationship. But i think that is tearing you up , you have become attached to him and i think it's time you let him go and your past too.
I say you have a one to one talk with your mum , thats if she knows your dating the guy , mums have more expirience she is a woman too she can help you in so many ways and i'm sure she would say the same thing to you. Everything happens for a reason :) remember that.
GOOD LUCK HUN !! keep your head up too xxx
and don't be sad he doesn't deserve to have you i'm sure about that .
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Well I wouldn't be with either of the guys. You're not happy with your boyfriend and he's all over another girl so forget him and on top of that, you are thinking about another guy that you like more. Don't stay with your boyfriend.
Now this other guy you like, he's a player and you already know he's bad news. He's probably pretty good as a friend but anything more than that, you are probably gonna get hurt like before.
Plus you're 13 and trust me, as you get older you will have plenty other guys like you in your life. Don't stick with these guys. They aren't worth it. Good luck!
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