umm...im tall, blue eyes really sweet and get along wit pretty much anyone i meet. juss ask me anything cuz ive probably been through it all.
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ive got this friend..and we're pretty good friends..but she is such a flirt that it gets on my nerves every once in awhile..mainly when shes flirtin with guys i like..she flirted so much with my home-coming date that he changed his mind and they went together..and any guy i like she flirts with them..in 5th period..the guy i like sits 1 seat away frum me..hers is in the middle..she didnt use to sit there tho...she just now decided she wanted to sit back over by us..how can i get used to her flirting or what can i do?!?! (link)
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if ur tellin her who u like then dont tell her anymore. if shes ur good friend then find a guy u really really like then dont tell her who it is and if she flirts w/them then tell her 2 back off u like him and hes not her man. hope i helped ya!
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Okay, There's This Kid Named Jacob That I Really Really Like. Problem Is, I Live In Pennsylvania And He Lives In Florida! I Didn't Meet Him In A Chat Or Anything, My Friend From School Moved From Florida And Knew Him. He Visits Pennsylvania A Couple Times A Year To Visit His Friend!! And He Said He Really Likes Me And He's Just All Confused Cuz He Really Wants To Date Me And Stuff! I Like Him Alot.. And I'd Be Able To Meet Him Eventually. And I Don't Mind Long Distance Relationships, Do You Think This Is Okay?? (link)
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if u can get 2 talk 2 him on the internet or something then ya sure it should definently work. if u 2 both wanna date, then it should be fine. hope i helped ya!
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Okay well like guy..and he has a girlfriend..but he flirts with me..but when hes with his friends..hell like barely talk to me..or when hes with his girlfriend..he like say hey but then he just ignore me! i mean EVERYONE in my class that knos that i like him..thinks he likes me..but i dont think so..because sometimes he can be mean..but other times he so sweet. i could tell him anything..and i really like him..but i dont think he likes me! do you kno why flirts with me when its just us..and then when hes with his friends hell ignore me?! thanks!
.KMUL. (link)
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he flirts w/u when no 1 else is around 4 one reason: he doesnt wanna get caught. he probably likes u but cant flirt in public bcuz he doesnt wanna break up w/his chic. dont worry bout it. dont be suprised if when they break up, he flirts w/u a whole lot more. hope i helped ya!
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i get agrivaTed w/ my friend really easily and i say mean stuff and feel really bad. how do i like get nicer cuz i feel like we dont have a healthy relationship and i just wanna be happy around her cuz shes like my bff and i love her so much i just get agitated (link)
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whenever u feel annoyed w/her then try hard 2 hold it back. dont say anything if ur afraid she'll get upset. if ur worried bout ur relationship, then next time u get annoyed, tell her and she'll understand. it can make u 2 closer. hope i helped ya!
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i have 2 really close friends. Ones a guy and one's a girl, if that really matters. And they say they love me all the time, but i just dont feel it. i just dont feel loved, i feel upset all the time. Does anyone kno y i feel this way? i think it's b/c i'm so lonely, i dont have a bf and never have. Anyone have sum tips? (link)
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i definently have some tips. if ur friends say they love u, then they mean it. i dont feel loved a lot either. but dont worry cuz lots of people feel this way. its pretty normal. ive only had one bf and its hard to feel loved. im always upset. its ok to be upset, but dont let it get 2 ur head. id kno dont be like me. just plz trust me when i say its not worth worrying about. u should just remember that when ur friends say they love u that they really do. if u ever feel that lonely, then IM me and we can talk. my s/n is volleyballash101. hope i helped ya!
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i have this really bad friend... she always calls her self fat and she swears she is gonna commit suicide...thats really sad when she knows she wont do it...i think its really stupid and i think she needs to stop...cuttin urself does nothing believe me ive tried..what do you think my friend should do??? plz help.. (link)
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hmm thats hard that sounds alot like me. see the thing is that some people dont want 2 find help w/like a guidance counselor, but some people dont care. im assuming that if she says shes fat then she says that shes ugly too. u have to convince her is some way that shes not and dont ever let her say that again. suicide is something that ive definently considered from time to time. u have 2 take into consideration that she has not actually done it yet and that she probably wont do it. but maybe she feels this bad about herself because she doesnt feel like she has someone to comfort her. sometimes i feel like no one understands and i really need someone to just listen to me and just give me a big hug and tell me that its alright. ya cutting is definently not the answer. believe me id kno. i think u should determine whether ur friend is the kind of person that would be comfortable getting help from someone other then u. if she isnt, then u have 2 get some of her friends to just be there for her all the time and make her feel special. if she is the type that would be comfortable getting help, then get it rite away. this person obviously isnt comfortable w/themselves and i think that maybe u could help them feel a whole lot more comfortable by maybe getting a couple close friends to sit her down and just tell her she isnt fat, ugly or anything like that and say it in a way that she'll never forget. hope i helped ya!
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Ok... I am 14/f and I weigh 100 lbs. My friends think I am anarexic and last year my teacher turned me in for anarexia. I eat, alot, do you think I should she a doctor about my weight. (link)
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it depends if u are a tall person or like about 5'7" then yes that isnt healthy but some people just are underweight no matter how much they eat. u should consider ur height into all of this. hope i helped ya!
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my parents are always giving me compliments on how beautiful i am, blah blah blah. i hate it!! it annoys me so much, and i don't know how i'm supposed to respond. it doesn't bug me when my friends compliment me and stuff, but i absolutely hate it when my parents do it. i cant even fix my hair in the mirror without my parents looking at me and saying to eachother "look at my daughter, shes so pretty". i used to wear my hair up all the time and i used to wear glasses. my parents got me contacts, and i liked wearing them, but when i didn't they would get mad, especially my dad. they would be like "wheres your contacts, you're so pretty. and wear your hair down!" omg, so i stopped doing it because i hate getting compliments from them. i wear my hair down and contacts now because they stopped complimenting me about that, but still they compliment me. i cant even put on makeup in front of them because my mom would just stop and watch me. i hate it! what am i supposed to do? i feel like i cant even groom myself and try to make myself pretty now because of them saying something. i don't like it when they do it. what do i do? (link)
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this is something u cant go over the top about. all u have to do is tell them that u love that they think ur pretty, but lay off the compliments. tell them its startin 2 get annoying, and that u need ur personal privacy. if it makes u happy then wear ur hair up and wear ur glasses. if they question u about it then say that u like ur hair this way. hope i helped ya!
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The girl who hooked me up with my boyfriend now is obsessed with him. She flirts with him, she hugs him, and she talks to him on the phone. I can tell he doesn't like it that much, but I just don't want to lose him because of my so-called "friend". What should I do so I won't lose my boyfriend? (link)
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simple. tell ur friend to lay off. that is ur man and she set u 2 up and it could destroy the relationship if she juss can back off. hope i helped ya!
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ok well here it does one of my friend complains 24/7. thats all she does is complains. and she cant just be my friend she has to be my Best friend. i cant stand her complaining tho. i mean yea sometimes i complain too but sometimes i just want to say to her "thats life, deal with it" but i dont want her to get mad at me. what should i do? (link)
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well ur friend just feels like she can run 2 u for all of her problems and u gotta set her straight. ur her friend and u are happy that ur friends but she just has 2 stop complaining. hope i helped ya!
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what is the real definition of cheating on someone?
just wondering (link)
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cheating on someone is doing something or goin out w/someone else while u are dating someone.
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i like this guy who i never see because he not in any of my classes. Im to shy to go up to him and my friends suggested that i write him i not, whut should i say, im totally confused when it comes to these things.
Thanks! (link)
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well, make sure he knows who u r. u should just come out and say that u like him or tell him 2 call u and tell him there. if u dont wanna rush into this, then u could always tell him 2 call u and u could set up a day 2 hang out. hope i helped ya.
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Ok, well i just got back from bball practice like 2 hours ago and my lower back is killing me! Does anyone known any streches or anything that can ease up the pain a little bit? Ive already taken tylenol. (link)
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well u can always sit on the ground and do a runners stretch. u start sitting down. then u pick one leg up and cross it over the other one. so one leg should still be completely on the ground and the other leg's foot should be on the ground, crossed over ur leg. if u crossed ur left leg, then u turn to the left and vise versa. u can also lie down on the ground and then bring one leg over top of the other while ur shoulders are still on the ground. its very hard 2 explain, but i hope i helped a little bit. if all else fails, just stand up and try to touch ur toes.
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My friend just started going out with her first boyfriend, and I am really happy for her, but he is also my X. It was kind of weird, because shes taller. And I jokingly teased her, about it. and a little part of me was because I was kinda mad she was going out with my x, but I don't have feelings for him. ANyways, she was getting mad, and I didn't know, so she talked about me behind my back to her other friend that doesn't go to our school. Then her other friend was online one day, and I said hey, then she started going off on me. I was offended, and unsure of what I should do NOW.. What should I do?? (link)
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u should just not mess w/her anymore bcuz she is startin 2 get irritated. she is only goin bhind ur back bcuz she feels bothered by u just jokin w/her. just make sure that she knows that ur just jokin and u have no feelings for ur X. hope i helped ya!
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My mom is a cancer survivor--breast cancer and skin cancer. recently, a friend of her's son was diagnost with a sever type of cancer. He has to go through kemo and stuff. We're going to do stuff for his family, but thats not my concern
my concern is with my mother. she's been really worried and depressed about him since she found out on saturday. everytime she starts to talk about my future or about happiness she starts to cry, and says how unfair it is for a child to have to deal with that. she tells me almost everyday she wouldn't care how many times she had to go through cancer so i wouldn't have to. she says that she wouldn't know what the hell she'd do if anything happened to me or my sister.
i'm worried about her. is that normal? is there something i can say to her to make her feel better?
sorry this is long. (link)
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people w/cancer are so unlucky. my grandma died of cancer b4 i wuz born so i kno. its hard 2 deal w/chemo. and all the stuff u gotta go through. being depressed is normal bcuz there isnt a whole lot worse u can get after ur diagnosed w/cancer. u can always comfort her by telling her that she wuz lucky 2 survive and that u and ur sister dont plan on goin anywhere anytime soon. hope i helped ya!
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14/m my parents are always talkin about how bad life used to be for them. They keep telling me how they used to get beaten for everything they did wrong. I know i'm not perfect and i deserve punishment sometimes, but this is torture! I made it known that im not interested in hearing these depressing stories and its like they don't hear me because they keep telling the stories. and its not even like they change it up, cuz they don't. I just got in trouble for saying i didn't want to hear it again about 2 hrs ago. How can i let them know that i don't want to hear the stories anymore? What should i do? plz help. thx (link)
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u should calmly tell them that u get the picture and that yes, life isnt as hard 4 u as it wuz 4 them, and that u understand. hope i helped ya!
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I didn't know what category to put this is... but what are your opinions on tall girls.. I am 13 and 5"8" do u think thats weird cuz im starting to feel self consious but every1 is sayin its good cuz i can be a model.. any thought? think boys will like me or be intimdated? (link)
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i can definently relate. im 5'9" and im 13. i felt self consious for a little while too but ya its true u could be a model. 120 lbs. is good 4 ur height. guys wont be intimidated 4 long. they will soon start their growth spurts. u will stop growing pretty soon i think. in a couple of years. hope i helped ya!
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hey.. my parents r super protective like they wont let me "date" 1 on 1 till im 16 and they have to meet him and all that crap..althou im dating now and its really hard to go out w. him kas i need to have my friends go w. me so my parents dont explode.. what can i do so i can go out w. him but not get in trouble.?
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my parents are exactly the same except i cant date 1 on 1 till im 17. anyways, u can always hang out at a mall w/him and ur friends, and then go see a movie after all the parents are gone. that way, u can still hang but ur parents wont care cuz u'll be on a group date. hope i helped ya!
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okay well this is a long story but ill try to cut it short... it all started last yr. when i was in 7th grade this guy asked me out and i said yes but then this rumor went around school saying i was using him and i only went out with him cause my friend bet me too.. but that was so not true but we broke up and we were still friends and stuff. Then over the summer we got really really close and hung out and talked on the phone like everyday and finally on 4th of huly he asked me out on the phone when i was watching firecrackers in the sky at my lake house (it was so beautiful) but anyways, later on that week we went to the movies and stuff and we make out and stuff.. and we had a good time and then when i got home his fiend called me saying he wanted to break up with me. i was so upset cause i had just had a great time! I cried all night & didnt sleep. his friend said he broke up with me cause he liked this other girl who lives in another city. Of course cause she was beautiful. and so from then on we both like never talked and we hated everother. but now we talk to eachother a lot and were good friends again but he's going out with one my best friends since halloween. and i'm really starting to like him again.. i dont know what to do!? HEELLPP! (link)
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as hard as this is to get over, u have 2 try to get over him. u can still crush on him, but keep ur options open. u might find someone u really like alot more then him. just keep looking and stay his good friend. if ur best friend and him break up, u always have another chance.
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how do i lose weight if i always say im going to go on a diet but i never do because when i try to go on a diet somehow so many yummy junk foods come around.. i wanna not eat at all so i can be as skinny as mary kate olsen but i dont know how!? heelpp!! (link)
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u definently dont want 2 be that skinny. she is anarexic and that isnt healthy. u wanna be skinny, but healthy. i would suggest not only eating healthy but exercising. rollerblade, ride ur bike, go outside and do something everyday. if u want ur stomach to be toned, do crunches or sit ups everyday. also to eat healthy. eat fruits, veggies, and DONT GO ON A LOW CARB DIET! carbs are your energy. if u have no energy, u cant exercise and then u'll never get the results u want. hope i helped ya!
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