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Question Posted Tuesday November 9 2004, 2:41 am

my parents are always giving me compliments on how beautiful i am, blah blah blah. i hate it!! it annoys me so much, and i don't know how i'm supposed to respond. it doesn't bug me when my friends compliment me and stuff, but i absolutely hate it when my parents do it. i cant even fix my hair in the mirror without my parents looking at me and saying to eachother "look at my daughter, shes so pretty". i used to wear my hair up all the time and i used to wear glasses. my parents got me contacts, and i liked wearing them, but when i didn't they would get mad, especially my dad. they would be like "wheres your contacts, you're so pretty. and wear your hair down!" omg, so i stopped doing it because i hate getting compliments from them. i wear my hair down and contacts now because they stopped complimenting me about that, but still they compliment me. i cant even put on makeup in front of them because my mom would just stop and watch me. i hate it! what am i supposed to do? i feel like i cant even groom myself and try to make myself pretty now because of them saying something. i don't like it when they do it. what do i do?

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ManDA_Lee answered Tuesday November 9 2004, 9:58 pm:
well miss wanting out,
i have no idea what to say to that quwstion. my mom bugs me about how pretty i am and not to let others judge me cuz of my weight (127) but anyways. i have no idea / they are just helping i guess.. its not their fault if they bug you. they cant help its // they are parentsi mean. if it was my brother thats would be freeky hah. Lol

xxManda hope i helped.

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KiLLeROnDaCourT answered Tuesday November 9 2004, 5:22 pm:
this is something u cant go over the top about. all u have to do is tell them that u love that they think ur pretty, but lay off the compliments. tell them its startin 2 get annoying, and that u need ur personal privacy. if it makes u happy then wear ur hair up and wear ur glasses. if they question u about it then say that u like ur hair this way. hope i helped ya!

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Tuesday November 9 2004, 2:05 pm:
just tell her to knock the compliments off but they are nice every so often and if they are told all the time they arent as nice if u get them all the time and its something u want to know is ment and not just said.. weather she means it all the time but just tell her to lay low on them every so often

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dinoold answered Tuesday November 9 2004, 8:03 am:
No offense but I bet a LOT of kids would love their parents to say hey you are awesome..but you do not..so.

Tell them it embarsses you and that it makes you feel uncomfortable. Sk them to please..in a nice way..stop.

Maybe they are just stunned that they produced such a fine human being..

or maybe ..they just love you....

Accepting a compliment is part of life...

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