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i have this really bad friend... she always calls her self fat and she swears she is gonna commit suicide...thats really sad when she knows she wont do it...i think its really stupid and i think she needs to stop...cuttin urself does nothing believe me ive tried..what do you think my friend should do??? plz help..
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hmm thats hard that sounds alot like me. see the thing is that some people dont want 2 find help w/like a guidance counselor, but some people dont care. im assuming that if she says shes fat then she says that shes ugly too. u have to convince her is some way that shes not and dont ever let her say that again. suicide is something that ive definently considered from time to time. u have 2 take into consideration that she has not actually done it yet and that she probably wont do it. but maybe she feels this bad about herself because she doesnt feel like she has someone to comfort her. sometimes i feel like no one understands and i really need someone to just listen to me and just give me a big hug and tell me that its alright. ya cutting is definently not the answer. believe me id kno. i think u should determine whether ur friend is the kind of person that would be comfortable getting help from someone other then u. if she isnt, then u have 2 get some of her friends to just be there for her all the time and make her feel special. if she is the type that would be comfortable getting help, then get it rite away. this person obviously isnt comfortable w/themselves and i think that maybe u could help them feel a whole lot more comfortable by maybe getting a couple close friends to sit her down and just tell her she isnt fat, ugly or anything like that and say it in a way that she'll never forget. hope i helped ya!
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