I tryed to apologize to my friends for freaking out and they replyed with this text: "Well maddie doesnt care and neither do i because you do it all the time and now its getting old and we're sick of it and we arent do the buisness thing!!!! That mite hav sounded mean but youve done WAY worse. You think your perfect and your hav 2 compete and you think every time you apolagize no one ever cared . Your still my friend but can you pleaz work on that. If you do EVERYONE will 4giv you and so will me and maddie. Diff people hav diff opinions and everyone can be rite cuz everyone has a diff opinion." How should i reply to that?
Okay so this is what you say: I will try to change my ways and I want us to be friends again. If you say this they will probably except that you are trying and you guyz will be back together in no time! Hope this helps, thanks for asking!
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im 19/f
i met this guy and he is great. we hit it off quickly. we got alot in common and we like eachother. but i put myself in a bad situation. while we were talking he started going out with his ex who cheated on him 3 times before and lives 2 hrs away. but he comes over and we hang out and go places and we have even had sex. my feelings for him are soo deep and i cry knowing he isnt mine. but he says he is in a bad spot and to give it time. i dont know how much longer i can take this. please help! and ive even met his daughter and he kissed me in front of her which was a surprise. what does this all mean?
thank anyone who answers this
This guy is going to end up breaking you heart. he wants both you and his ex. his playing you and your letting him. your going to end up hurt if you don't end it soon. some thing else you could do is tell him that you don't want to share him so its either you or his ex. but don't continue like this because its unhealthy.
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20/F
Iv'e been told mean things by my family and being told those things has caused me to not think highly of myself & not be motivated also be lazy and think that what i want to achieve isn't worth trying to achieve anymore i feel like giving up completely and think that my life isn't worth living and i'd be better off dead and i will never be good enough for my family also feel like nothing i do is right i'm having a hard time motivating myself i keep remembering all the mean things my famiy has told me & i'm starting to believe that maybe what their saying is true i feel like i'm a failure who's worthless & a nobody how do i motivate myself & how do i stop thinking the things i am? Without letting what's
been said to me get in the way
Ignore what your family is saying. Their probably just jelaous. try and set little goals for yourself and then once you achieve one then you will feel more motavated and to do the next. and then soon all these little goals can lead to one big achievement. don't listen to your family because they are just trying to put you done so that you become what they say you will. don't let them win. get ahead in life and show them that you are something in life. hope this helps.
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Hi, I ejaculated and got sperm on my fingers. I washed it with water from the faucet but I don't remember if I washed it thoroughly. After 3 to 5 minutes, I fingered my girlfriend. If she is ovulating, will she get pregnant?
yes there is a possibility that she might get pregnant of you did not wash all of the sperm off. during ovulation is when she is at a higher chance of getting pregnant. but i'm not a docter so se show go to one or take a test.
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I'm 17 turning 18 and i'm a girl.
Whenever there is a silence in the house, my parents always bring up the subject about my future, they always say stuff like 'what will you do when you grow up'. When i tell them i do not know, or i can't decide, my dad just said that i'm some sort of highschool dropout even though i get Bs or As, sometimes Cs in my classes. They're always saying stuff like: you're such a disappointment, can't you do anything right?, why can't you care about your future?, you are so ungrateful, etc. They never praise me, and if i do manage to get a good grade average, they say stuff like: you better keep it this way, why can't it be like this all the time?
One of the worst things is that my mom puts words in my mouth, she rants on and on about how her friend's daughters are so successful yet i'm not. And whenever i do something wrong i get yelled at for about an hour about it. And sometimes my mom says stuff like: maybe i should just leave and never come back, i'm so tired of you, you make me miserable.
What should i do? I'm afraid to stand up to them because they might kick me out. Thanks to their ranting and insults, i actually have a phobia of being wrong. I always expect someone to lash out at me or something. Sometimes i think they don't know how much to hurts for them to say these things about me. They even talk behind my back even if i'm there in the same room. Please help!
this is wrong what they are doing. they should not be putting you down. what you need to do is talk to them. they might not realize they are even doing this. marbe if you talk to them they will stop. hope this helps.
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Well, This guy in my class, let's call him ' L ' and my best friend ' D '. Well I recently started my final year and this guy, my bestfriend and I have to like look after a class during lunch, it's called monitoring. He kind of started looking at me sometimes for a minute or two. And we like argue sometimes friendily though. And someone started a rumour that I fancied him though I didn't. We were playing tig, my whole class. kind of babyish I know. I said to him ' If you go et( as in the catcher) I bet you can't get me.' So I like tried to run but he got me. It doesn't seem like much but I thought we kind of had a moment. Then I started to fancy him, I sit next to him in french class and I always have to help him. I live in anther village and he and my bf live in another and she has a twin brother that is friends with him and he goes to her house and stuff. But while we were on a abroad school trip she asked him out. She didn't know I fancied him though. He said to her he was too scared to ask her out cuz he fancied her too which is really unlike him because he is like the one that gets onto trouble. She is really pretty and I'm well I have no idea. I'm taller than him too and I'm really upset about him and her and stressed about some acne I have. So I'm getting alot of headaches and am crying alot. I feel ugly, worthless and I will never have a boyfriend. Advice or tips welcome.
Don't stress your self this is just one guy. there will be plenty of others. trust me when the time is right you will get a boy fiend. and you are not worthless. so one guy doesn't like you its not he end of the world. i'm sure you are very pretty. just stop stressing because your body will react to it hince the acne. hope this helps.
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okay so i have a friend who is dating a guy that had warts and skin tags if she kisses him will she get warts or skin tags??
yes there is a possibility that she could get them to if she kisses him.
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hi. teenage guy here...
i feel like i irritate everyone with that attitude.
"moody" that is.
i know what you mean. There has to be something that is making you moody. so find out what it is and then change it. some times it may not be anything that is making you moody so just do something that will make you forget about your moody atitude. hang out with friends that might help. :)
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(long distance) I am a junior and my boyfriend is a sophomore, he is homeschooled I am not.
Sometime it feels like he has his life going in this great path. He is already taking college courses got a major picked. Yet I am just starting my junior year and I really don't know. It just seems like his life is great right now and I love him but I don't know if he will have time for me anymore, we hardly have time now. I know things will just get busier over the next few years, and I guess I am worried whether or not we should be together, because I don't want to slow him down. Why can't this be easier, why do things have to be so complicated? It also feels like sometimes I am more in this relationship then he is, idk. I'm confused and I am not really sure what I am asking at this point. Advice would help a ton though.
okay so it sounds to me that you two are on different levels. my advice is talk to him if feel you are more in this relationship then him then let him know. the best thing in a relationship is communacation. but also understand that he may be just worried about his future. so talk to him and if you feel like its not working then break it off, but not before trying to work it out.
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I'm really just not into this guy at all any more... we've been dating for like six months or something and I can't stand him. He likes me way more than I like him. But he recently moved like an hour and a half away and we're still dating i guess and I have a car but I really don't want to drive an hour and a half there just to break up with him and then drive back so is it completely cruel if i just text him? I'm just so done with him UGH
Deffinatly do not break up with him throw text. is it really going to kill to drive an hour and a half!?! trust me if you end up breaking up with him over text it could end up alot worse for you. so just please be nice and drive to him to give him the bad news.
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How to make my boyfiend stay interested?
you can mix it up alittle bit. don't do things that that you always do. be spontanious and do somethings that he likes. it also deppends what age you guys are. as long as you vary the things that you do he won't get bord. hope this helps !
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So recently I found myself face to face with my ex that I'm like still in love with..we started texting again and now flirting too. He's really sweet but he lives a town away abd in a totally different school.
My friends dislike him, say he's a gang member --which he's not..he does smoke&sell weed but told he wants to stop.
I still like him. But should I trust my friends and leave him alone, or rekindle what we both feel is so real.
15/f 16/m
i say you trust your friends. he sounds alittle iffy to me. i think that yeah you can talk to him and everything but just do your hw and figure out if he really stoped the smoking and selling weed and also consider the reason you broke what ever it is. hope this helps :)
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i love him but i still havent had my first kiss and am really scared to kiss him i cant even hug him with out blushing or laughing
maybe your just not ready for a kiss. when its the right moment you'll know.
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What do you say to make your girlfriend feel important, cute, and make her say awww?
complament her. tell her she beautiful, and that shes the only girl for you. women love those kinds of things. most of the time if you tell her how you feel about her it will get her saying aww.
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i have two friends that i'm particularly close with. the three of us used to hang around each other all the time. one of my friend, A, used to have a guy that she's close to. obviously to all of us he was just playing with her but she really loved him. after they broke up (he really broke her heart), she confided with the other friend B the most. then we all found out that B is dating the guy. Now B and the guy are all lovey-dovey and A is heartbroken. The problem is im loyal to both of them and it's hard for me to remain sane. When im with A, i get mad at B for being inconsiderate. When im with B, i get mad at A (she doesnt have the best personality). I end up saying things i don't want to say to each of them about the other friend. I regret things i've said and talked about. i feel like a hypocrite. how can i go on? how do you split your attention between two best friends who hate each other?
okay i was in the same situation as you. you have got to stop talkng about them because its only going to make it worse. also your friends, you cant force them to forgive each other so just give it time. your going to have to be like a vualt when one of them tells you something you cant tell the other. thats the only way to do it and just hope they make up soon. you've got to stop talking about them because your going to seem like a hypocrite. hope this helps!
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I really can't handle my mom. Like, I really can't. She use to be my BEST friend, but now she's like crazy. I stayed home while going to the university. It's been 2 years now, which means I have 2 years left. I've been thinking of transferring to another university, because I feel like my mom isn't letting me live. She doesn't respect my schoolwork or academics. She doesn't understand all the work I have to do. She doesn't congratulate me on my grades. She's extremely jealous. Every time I have a date or I'm out with a friend, she gets super jealous, texts me every five minutes, asks me when I'm coming home. If I'm with a guy, she'll call me constantly. She always wants to drop me off and pick me up, whether it's a date or whether I'm going to a nightclub. If I'm at the library, she's worried about the time she has to pick me up when I just got there. It's really too much already. I feel like I'm going to lose my patience and flush my phone down the toilet. Some things are out of love, and I understand that. But, it's become an unhealthy obsession. She goes out and buys me like $200 worth of clothes, when she knows I needed that money to buy books and she didn't let me use it. She thinks I'm like this barbie. Right now, I just want to get away from her. She's annoying me SO much! But... here's the issue. My university is my home. It's where my friends are. It's where everything is. I'm involved in 8 organizations at school. She's not even proud of that because they don't pay me any money for it. But... I just got awarded like this special thing to do for next semester. It's kind of hard to explain if you don't come here, but it's an honor. I don't know if I should just leave everything I've worked so hard here for. Then, transferring all those credits. I may have to repeat courses if they don't transfer and all of that. I'm already here. I could just work really hard and try to graduate fast so I can move out of the house. Even if I were working, I still wouldn't be able to move out because I live in an expensive city. My only way out is either finish fast and leave to another university. I love my school. I wouldn't want to leave just because she's annoying me, but it has crossed my mind because I just don't think I can handle it anymore.
Please help!
okay this has gotten way to out of control. shes not letting you be you age and live. you need to sit down with her and have a serious talk with her. she should not be acting this way. let her know that she is driving you away! but dont go to another university you shouldnt have to leave the school you love because of your mom. hope this helps good luck!
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I'm 12 years old and my younger brother is basically 11. My mom has to spend days reminding him to do stuff like dishes or laundry but he never gets in trouble. My mom said if he didn't do the dishes on a certain day he wouldn't get his Ps2 right, he doesn't do it and the day after he gets it. Me, she told me to clean my room in an hour she never said when I had to start doing it and if I would get punished, after I do my home work(which takes an hour) my mom comes in and says, "Not done? No T.V. for a week." I clean my room after and nope, nothing I'm still T.V. free. Another example, there's no swearing in our house. I call Ethan a "dumbo" 'cause he's got big ears and I get my art rights taken away. He calls me a F---ing F--- and my mom says,"Don't say that to your sister. I'd get it if he was like maybe 4 or 5 years younger but this is too much.
his spoiled. your mom spoils your brother and trust me i knows how it feels. you have to let your mom know that she is doing it. my mom was the same with my brother and after talking to her and givingher a few examples of how she does it she changed and stoped soiling him. hope this helps good luck!
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My mom has been my bestfriend, the person who i could run to if or when i'm feeling down, i told her everything, we talk about everything, i always thought she was honest with me because she is a christian... My dad died when i was 12, we were sooo close and since then i 've never been the same, about 3yrs after i learnt that he wasn't my dad, from her mouth, for a month straight i couldn't look in the mirror straight because it was like i never recognize myself, my reflection....i didn't know who i was, now i don't even know how to trust her anymore.
i know you must feel really betrayed right know but your mom probably didn't tell you before because she saw how close you and your dad were and she didn't want to ruin the. your mom had her heart in the right place. i know it might seem like you cant forgive her but think about it if you knew that he wasnt your real father before would it had been the same? your mom had your best intreast in mind and in time you will learn to forgive her.
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Ive been with my boyfriend for 4yrs already we have 2 kids together. He treats me like im a piece of garbage and i dont understand why I put up with it.
Im a smart person i got my AA and now im working on my teaching degree. Im the one that works and takes care of our kids while his lazy ass sits around and does nothing yet he has the nerve to call me nasty names to tell me im ugly, fat, and worthless... I know i deserve better i just had my son 2 months ago and im not fat i have a pouch but that will go away with some exercise im 5'4" and i weigh 155. I think im a beautiful person inside and outside. I just cant understand why he treats me the way he does I do everything for him. I go out of my way to try and keep him happy I even go to the extent of taking my kids in the mornings on my days off out to visit my mother or run errans just so he can sleep and not start insulting me.
I come from a great family my parents always helped eachother out and they would do anything for me. Its sad that even after all the things that he has said and done to me I still love him and Im trying to make it work between us. I love myself too I know im not ugly im a good person i just dont understand why he is such a nasty person and why i put up with it?
this relationship is unhealthy. you are basicly taking care of your kids alone but your also taking care of him. a relationship should not be this way especially when kids are involed. i say leave him you should not be treated this way. you said it yourself your the one that works and plus you said your parents would help you. so break it off because he is not going to stop, but if you really want to try to make it work then i guess try talking to him and if he keeps treating you like this then consider what i said. hope this helps good luck.
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Ok this may sound kind of wierd but bear with me while I give the set up please. I am a teenage male and I have been dating this girl for about 2 1/2 months. When we hang out in a group of friends we have a mutual friend who is a boy. When ever my gf walks into the room he is always hugging her and sitting with her and she lets him. The catch is that this boy is gay so I should have no problem with it except that I want to be the one she hangs all over and sits closely with. She is not big on PDA but I would like her to be able to walk up to me and not act like complete strangers when we are in public. Is there something I can say to her about this mutual friend and also on a general note of mild affectionate PDA as a whole. Please help, I am not sure what to do and it is ruining the relationship. Thank you.
talk to her and tell her that you sometimes want to show some pda. tell her that it is no different then what she is doing with the mutual friend. make sure to let her know that you think this is going to ruin the relationship. comunacation is the key thing in a relationship. so comunacte. hope this helps and everything works out! :)
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