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i dont know what to do...
im 19/f
i met this guy and he is great. we hit it off quickly. we got alot in common and we like eachother. but i put myself in a bad situation. while we were talking he started going out with his ex who cheated on him 3 times before and lives 2 hrs away. but he comes over and we hang out and go places and we have even had sex. my feelings for him are soo deep and i cry knowing he isnt mine. but he says he is in a bad spot and to give it time. i dont know how much longer i can take this. please help! and ive even met his daughter and he kissed me in front of her which was a surprise. what does this all mean?
thank anyone who answers this
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This guy is going to end up breaking you heart. he wants both you and his ex. his playing you and your letting him. your going to end up hurt if you don't end it soon. some thing else you could do is tell him that you don't want to share him so its either you or his ex. but don't continue like this because its unhealthy.
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he wants his cake and eat it too. he will break your heart, get away from him NOW
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Sounds very hard for you :/ which why i want to help :)
it is a well known saying. "we want what we can not have" So whilst you're 'ex' was with you, of course he wanted his ex back, as he couldn't have her. Follow?
So now you can't have him because he's with his ex again, you want him more. See?
You should concerntrate on other things. Go out with mates and chill. this will allow you to clear ur head-and him to clear his. If he does want you back again, don't rush into it. take small steps. Don't tell him off for going back to his ex, be understanding.
Don't let him be controlling either. if you don't hear from him now in the next four months or so, i'd say put him behind you. it'll be hard-but if the time comes just ask on here for advice on it. hope i helped and good luck :)
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