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i let my friend use my phone


Question Posted Saturday April 30 2011, 4:20 pm

i was texting this guy i liked and he liked me to but yesterday night i asked if he had a girl friend and he said kinda i asked whaat he ment he said they do everything a couple do then i asked what kind of things and he said he fingers her and she gives him blow jobs and other things then i said o i didnt think u were that type of guy and he said ive changed and then he said you always have billy hes only kissed one girl (which is his best friend who likes me) then my friend took my phone and said maybe i will go with billy because i dont want some body who is contaminated then he was like i cant believe u said that delete my number and never talk to me again and i dont even like you anymore and then i said im sorry i didnt mean to say that then he was like i dont care you still said it and that was it i deleted his number but i feeel terrible now :'(
o and sorry its so long


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Jasmine23 answered Saturday April 30 2011, 11:13 pm:
First of all,. you should explain that your friend ===== name=== Had sent those messages and that you were unaware. and say that even if he had been with multiple people it doesn't affect the personality of the person. And just because he is with someone does not mean he is contaminated what so ever.

Just because Billy has only kissed one girl does not mean he is not as good as his friend. Maybe he is saving himself for the right person and the person he kissed wasn't it. You don't know his reasons so you shouldn't judge him.

And last of all,. You should be mad at your friend and have a talk with her. Because she had NO RIGHT what so ever to speak on your behalf aboout something that does not concern her what so ever. Maybe she thinkgs he might be 'contaminated' but that doesn't mean you have to think the exact same thing,. let a alone if you do or not.

Hope This helps:)
~Jasmine*

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a13d answered Saturday April 30 2011, 6:23 pm:
Hey ok well similiar things have happened to me but let me tell you were you messed up. you may not could've helped that your friend took your phone but if you could've controlled it then you should have never let her have it. as a matter of fact this same thing happened to me last night but it was a little different. Now second When you texted back the guy you should have never said that you were sorry that you said it because you didn't you should have told him that it was your friend! and Im almost 100 percent sure he would've forgivin you. So my advice to you is to text him and tell him it was your friend. Trust me i have expierience ive had this happen to me a couple of times. I hope I helped(: good luck!!(:

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