i did this ab workout and it toned my stomach. but my stomach is pretty big, and it had cellulite on it before but then the workout got rid of most of it. so i was wondering, since it already toned my stomach, should i keep on doing the ab workout and maybe it will finally be flat? ps. my stomach is not flat at all
i think you should just keep doing your work outs, it's the best way to get smaller and healthier, trust me medicine isn't natural and healthy for you.
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are there any really early sign of pregnancy?
i mean within the first week?
or maybe the second??
also
are there any signs of stds?
wow within the first week? maybe vomiting alot but im not so sure, but i think the first 1 or 2, and you should reeeeally use condoms and stuff when doing sex. And go to the doctors and ask about it, you really should. good luck!
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okay so i am like venting...but need help at the same time...so heres the deal: my mom ordered me 2 shirts from this club thing. We got them back to us like 2 or 3 weeks ago, but i just gave it to my mom a few days ago because i forgot about them, and i only got one (but i didnt know...i thought she only ordered 1) so the girl giving them back went down a list of people that got multiples, and asked them if they got everything they ordered. i didnt hear my name called and nothing was messed up with anyone else so i thought everything was good. now my mom flipped out at me because it was "my fault" and she is mad that she paid for them, and now i have to ask my club manager to re-look at my sheet...i am soooo embarrassed! i really dont want to, what if she threw them all out? ugh it was so long ago too!
lol no offense, but whats the question here? and dont worry, just if they threw them out maybe u can ask 'em for a new one because you didnt know. if theyr enice enough they'll giv u anothr one. good luck
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17/f. I have had an awful year. And I thought the worst was over at the end of the year. (I don't feel like explaining it; it doesn't really have anything to do with this...well sort of but I don't have to explain.) Anyway...I cut myself. And I haven't for say about a week, but I really have been wanting to lately. It drives me crazy; I sit there and my entire mind is focused on that. It drives me crazy when I force myself not to cut. Just like right now. I really want to and it is really hard to just not give in. And I know I should probably talk to someone, but I have a really hard time opening up to people, especially those I don't know. However, there is this teacher that I have talked to before. So, if I told him, then maybe it would be easier to talk to a counselor, or he could help me or convince me to talk to someone or something. I know I can't do it on my own. I don't know what to do anymore. What should I do? And if I do end up talking to a counselor, they don't have to tell my parents, do they? It'll stay confidential?
That's bad, my frnd cuts herself to, like crazy! she craved Love on her highs twice! huge words, it's vairy dangerous and scary, and it's good you know you need to talk to some1, and sometimes the counselors dont tell, but if theyre really worried they would.
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ok well does anyone else have times where they want their chest to be touched/massaged/or even just looked at.
cuz idk but i have them times a bunch
Lol ah,..idk but i heard girls get there chest bigger when you massage it in shower and stuff but umm,..ya it's normal.
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13/M
hi... ive been going out with this girl for about a year now and i love her alot. we get wild sometimes but not to wild. the furthest we have gone is that she gave me a hand job. but after she did i got a little worried and i didn't feel right. i thought i might be a little to young for these things.
am i to young?
are we going to far for only 13 years old?
yes! it's wrong and no offense but your wayyy too much young for this stuff, wait until at least 18 at least! and you should tell her your not ready for this and that it doesnt feel right and if she breaks up with you, which im not saying shes gonna, she might only be using you.
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16/f
ok so. i know i sound really stupid asking this question but i really need to know what i should do. and it's gonna be pretty long so if you take the time to read this question and give me advice that would be AMAZING.
basically, im 16 and i like 5 GUYS. yes 5. haha i know that sounds really funny and stupid but it's kinda a big problem. like i've liked more than one guy at a time now but usually i've kinda made up my mind and like developed a better relationship with like 1 of them. but this time i feel like all the relationships are getting better and closer to like more than friends so im so confused on what to do! my girl friends understand like the situation i'm in and like they are telling me it's fine to like more than one guy but that i should really make up my mind. like i don't really wanna make up my mind. i know this sounds bad but i'm not really interested in a relationship right now. i had a year long relationship all year last year and i'm kinda sick of the boyfriend-girlfriend thing. anyways, advice on if i need to pick one of them/who i should pick?
here's a little more about the guys..
GUY A: ok. he doesn't go to my school so i don't see him very often. i mean i could see him every weekend if i wanted to but i just haven't. he's really cute and like i really like him when i'm hanging out with him and stuff. he likes me too and he asked me out like a week ago but i told him i wasn't really sure about who i liked at the moment. he was fine with that. we text all the time and sometimes talk on the phone. he's so cute and i feel like we have so much in common.
GUY B: ok this guy also goes to a different school.here's the problem. this guy also likes me but he is best friends with GUY A. i like GUY B a lot but the thing is he's not very attractive. i know that sounds bad but when i don't find someone attractive it's harder for me to like them. i really like him when i'm talking to him on the phone and stuff but i just don't like him that much when we're hanging out. he's kinda awkward too. he's also friends with the guy i went out with for a year so it would be kinda mean of me to date him. i really like him though and i can trust him with anything and everything.
GUY C: ok. aslkgjalskjdasg this guy is the most confusing guy i've ever met in my life. but i love it. it's so fun and like he's so mysterious. i like can't figure out what's going on in his head. i've known him for a long time. he goes to a different school than me. i've liked him on and off. but whenever i see him, which isn't very often, but i could see him more often, i always start liking him again. there's just something so cute about him. like i can't explain it. anyways, i like hooked up with him a few months ago and it was totally out of nowhere because i know he's never made out before and so i was his first time? so that must mean something right? he's definetly had other chances. he like flirts with me a lot but he's like confusing because he flirts with EVERY girl. i'm like not sure if he likes me or not. but i was talking to him on aim the other day and he was like 'hows GUY D?' and i was like 'what?' and he was like saying that he saw our convo on facebook or something (we were like flirting or whatever) and i was like 'oh...he's really good :)' just to see if it would piss him off. so then he was like 'do you like him?' and i was like i dont know.. i like a bunch of guys. and then he was just like ok gtg bye. like it seemed like he was mad because he's always like love you bye and stuff like that. i think he got mad either because he thought i liked him or because he thinks i like GUY D. i talk to GUY C a lot on aim but we never text or talk on the phone. he tells me he wants to hang out with me all the time but he never really calls me anymore. idk if thats because he feels like if he calls me to hang out i will think he likes me.. or what? should i like make the first move and text him or something? we used to talk on the phone sometimes and text. ugh. HES CONFUSING. but i like it. its more of a challenge compared to the other guys that i like already know like me.
GUY D: he goes to my school. he's one of my best guy friends. i went out with him 2 summers ago. he like flirts with me all the time and he like makes suggestions that he wants to hook up. we text and talk on aim all the time. he's really cute and i have fun talking to him. i hung out with him yesterday for the first time in awhile and it was really fun :)
GUY E: ok this is getting ridiculous already i know. this is the last one i promise. anyways, he goes to my school too and he's like good friends with GUY D. and he like knows that GUY D wants to like hook up with me and stuff. but he's really cute and he's also one of my good guy friends. i see him at school a lot and we talk a lot. we text sometimes. he's really cute like he holds my hand sometimes and like i dont know. he does that to a lot of girls though. hes the touchy kind of guy. i'm not really positive if i like him or not but i hung out with him yesterday too and we like flirted a lot or whatever but thats just how he usually is.
HELP!?
lol pick C! haha kidding thats only in my opinion but umm,..it's okie to like more then one guy at a time, but if your dating a guy, you shouldnt eye anothr guy...it's wrong. and well but you seem to have anothr problem , most the guys doesnt go to your school, its not a good relationship from afar. good luck!
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ok heres my prob my friend likes this guy witch is the guy that i like and well we were holding hands today and well i think that hes going to ask me out tomarrow so, but she likes him and i like him and this other gurl amanda likes him, and this morning amanda and stephanie got into a fight all about him (i would have bine in it but i wasn't there so i couldn't defend stephanie)and i don't know what to do go after the guy or stay with my friends.
pick friends over guys, trust me if you pick the guy, you might regret it for a looooong time
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16/F
So i have NEVER had a boy ask me out before.
All my friends have gone on dates etc. I am very socical, and not weird or anything. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?
I havent even had a homecoming date.
and im a sophomore!
how can i become more pleasing to guys?
why dont you approach them for once? maybe theyre afraid you'll reject them :p but try and maybe try to hang around your gf's more so maybe theyre bfs hav a nice guy for you =p good luck
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is that normal havin period like Nov 25 then dec 25? on 3 or 4 day period?
vairy normal, if you only had it for a few years and dont feel bad i dont usually get mines for 2months =\
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the girls at school wont stop teasing me im a tomboy (the only tomboy at school and im happy with the way i am i wouldnt trade being able to play ball with the boys and dress the way i want for the world) so that maybe the reason they tease me but i never teased them in my life teasing is mean i belive you shouldnt be mean to some one eles to treat other people the way you want to be treated but i feel really bad about the things they said one girl even said "at least im not afraid to be a girl" to me it made me feel really really sad here are some of the things they have said to me before:
"You are lesbian"
"The proms coming up soon who are you going with,oh wait no one would want a mud covered boy looking girl to go to the prom with"
"Where have you been wresling pigs"
"You are so freaky why cant you just be a girl"
Those are just a few of the things that they have said to me and every time my birthday comes around all the girls give me make up sets and those pink butterfly shirts the only people that are nice to me are the boys what should i do about this i really want them to stop thank you so much to whoever answers this question i really apreciate it
lol, i get the same probs but not from girls, from GUYS, it's awful then again i usually jus say something back, teehee but you should just relaxe they are probably jealous of you because you can knock 'em out, or you can just ignore 'em or tell on them, i kno it's snitching but, if they dont stop, you should really do something about it. for me i would just beat the guys up or throw my shoe at them, haha, well good luck ^^
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So this is my first year of college. Just my luck, I get a roommate that has no life except her boyfriend. He stays in our room for weeks at a time and has no life himself. Mind you, it is against the rule to have boys stay the night in our dorms. I have talked to my roommate about him TWICE. I told her I didn't like that he was here so much and I thought it was fair that he only visited once a month and didn't stay on school nights.
Well we just got back from Christmas break and NOTHING has changed. It pisses me off to no end. I would love to just go tell on her, but #1 I have my boyfriend visit once a semester and I don't want to get in trouble and #2 I don't want to start shit with this girl since I'm going to be forced to live with her until May.
The other night, my roommate and her boyfriend were in the room doing god-knows-what on the top bunk and I was on my bottom bunk talking to my boyfriend on the phone. He could tell I was upset, but I couldn't straight out talk about my roommate without saying their names. So he told me to say #1 to refer to my roommate and #2 to refer to her boyfriend. So we did that. I didn't say anything obvious so that she would know we were talking about her.
Anyway, ever since then she's been really mad at me. I think somehow she knew what I was talking about. She won't even talk to me. I think she's being really immature because she invited her boyfriend up AGAIN. I'm going through a lot right now because my grandpa just had a major surgery and this is NOT something I want to deal with.
Here are my options:
1) Completely confront her and TRY to be calm. Ask her why she's upset and apologize if I have to for not going straight to her with my issues.
2) Move out and get a different roommate (which I'm trying to avoid just to spite her because I know that's what she wants)
3) Just go to my residence life director and tell her everything my roommate did and let her handle the situation.
What do I do? I'm so upset right now.
ya, you should ask her what's wrong, if it's what you've done say sorry, and if she keeps on doing what shes doing now to bug you, then do number 3 and find a different roommate, so a lil of all three ^^ good luck
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these boys in my school are so0o0 wierd ihave many nickanames i use to get called squints now its squinty j and it changes to squating dog and i got mad and kyle was like you know you like the attention. does this mean they like me
sometimes, not all the times, because guys are just in their abnormal puberty stage, lol, well just ignore them, some guys if they really like you, they'll back you up :P
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i like this guy and im pretty sure he likes me because whenever we're in the hallway together he walks faster to catch up with me, even if he doesn't say anything, he speeds up just to walk next to me. we have one class together and we sit next to each other, thats how we started talking in the first place. he's also on my guy friends' soccer team. ANYWAY, i asked for his screen name for AIM a month ago and he happily gave it to me but he's never online. i don't want to ask for his cell number because i think that would be too forward but i want to get to know him better. how can i make this work?!
Lol, be forward, unless he has a gf,..ermm then just ask him to go on aim more often ^^ or ask to hang out sometimes, get to know him better then rush into things.
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ok i am gay and well my manager is bi and he said that he liked me.. i really dont like him in a sexaul way but he also calls me and texts me "i miss you" and " i want you" he always makes me laugh, the biggest problem is that i can be a flirt.. besides stop being a flirt what should i do?
Hmm,..im sry but i wasnt sure if your a girl or a guy. so anyways you should just tell him straight up you dont feel that way about him,..but dont be too harsh,..since he is your manager.
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my friend mark and i go to different schools, he was on my baseball team in 4th grade and weve been best friends since pre k
we now go to different high schoools and he doesnt want to talk to me anymore
ignores and/or doesnt respond for years on IMS
doesnt call me as much
neveer wants to hang out
im his best bud and hes too busey for me
i just dont know what to do i really want him and i to be best friends
he does all this stuff with his new friends and he wants to hang out with them more
im not saying hes being like a bad friend
im just saying he could atleast try with me and work with what time we DO have together, or time that he LETS us have together
NO offense, but he seems like a jerk, maybe he's moved on, you should to, find a bestfrnd that can spend times with you and all, dont just rely on him, or maybes hes got something on his mind he doesnt want to tell you or something, just wait and see if his attitude changes, if doesnt my advice is to move on and forget about him.
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13/f
Okay, so me nad this guy like each other. Sounds simple right? Just go out? One problem. I don't date because I have this thing where I DO NOT trust guys. My last relationships sucked, so... And, I don't know why he doesn't date. But, I know I can trust him. I mean, he's sweet. Nice and everything... I mean, perverted, but that's me too. We're both perverted. Like, ya know? Dirty jokes? No, I would not have sex with him even if I wanted to. *shudders* Anyway, I just want to know what I should do at this point. I mean, he knows I like him. I know he likes me. We're both aware of this, but what do we do? Can somebody NICE please help me?
p.s I mean nice as in, nice advice. And, no comments about being perverted. That's me, not you. I am me. :3
you know, maybe your feeling this way that you cant trust guys yet because your still young, no offense but,..you guys should maybe i dont know try going out? but you should wait a little longer if you should go out with his guy or not.
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theres this little kid at school. maybe 4 years younger than me, im 16. Now this guy keeps gettin into our faces at lunch and laughin, proper being cheeky. from far, he laughs, and when we walk over to him, runs. His little friends are stupid aswell. now ive tried talking to him to him and tell him to shut his mouth, but he was "ok!" and once i let go of the guy, runs away doing some stupid laugh. im so close from hurting the guy, but he's so small and im proabably twice his size, what should i so? dont tell me to "tell the teacher's" because im not going to tell off a little kid who's annoying me. should i just smack the guy across the face or something? or what? its getting really bloody stupid as every lunch he's outside the shop we go to get lunch! any help?
lol, wow if i was there ill just beat him up for you but since i cant,..you should just play it his way, he'll get bored of it and eventually get lost, lol! like if he says anything like you two are datnig or whatevr just say like so? at least i can get somebody,..thats just an example but he'll move on.
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lets call him J. we were together for 2 months, but we had been really good friends before that, always liking each other, always having a good time. i can tell him anything, he's like my other half. we argued, but we always got over it. and the only reason we argued was because we had so much in common. anyway, on the 15th of january, we were texting and he kept dropping hints that he wanted to take a break. so i came right out and asked him what was going on. he told me that he can't handle the fighting with his parents anymore and the only thing he can think of is to break up. so we did. his parents are reallllly strict, they like me and everything, but hes in 9th grade and i'm in 8th, we live in different school districts. they dont let him go to the movies with just me, and whenever he asks them to hang out with me, they always get in huge arguements over me. so he couldnt handle it anymore. even though my parents are divorced, my moms a whore and my dads an alcohlic and im gettinga new stepmom, i guess he feels the need to complain about how hard his life is when really mine is 10x worse. we had been talking on instant messenger up until last night, he kept saying how he wanted me to still have fun and live life, and not be obligated to him, but he still didnt want this to be the absolute end of us. then, at like 12am, he called me, and was like crying, and he was like Kendall, i love you. and i was like......i love you too....and he was like i've been thinking and i just i love you. i dont want to see you date other guys or anything and i cant wait until next year when i can drive to date you. i cant wait that long. and he kept saying all this stuff and it was like in a movie. it was so cute. but im so confused of what he wants. we havent talked yet today, he's at school, i skipped school. he put 11.20.07
Hmm,...not so comlpicated ^^ haha if i was in the
situation i would just have a secret relationship, dont tell, but you might not wanna do that...so you should tell his parents you love him, i know that's a very hard thing to do, but if your willing to love him, you have to show you can do anything to be with him.
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15/f
I have a 'semi' guy friend. What I mean by semi, is that we talk a lot in the halls and laugh a lot and like each others company. However, I don't have his number, only his screenname [he rarely gets on]. I have a crush on him, and really like him a lot. Recently, he transferred out of the one class that I had with him because he didnt like it. There's this cheerleader, and when she saw him in the hall, she goes "OMG [his name]! It's SO GOOD TO SEE YOU! OMG CLASS IS SOOO boring without you! You should switch to my art class" and he goes "yeah I know, [class name] sucks". I was right there, and I was about to go and talk to him. She's always making flirtatious remarks when she's around him, and quite frankly, I think she's obnoxious and a sl*t [she's been with 4 other guys, hooked up with them, gotten drunk, had pics up on facebook semi naked and her in her thong]. I recently found out that this OTHER girl has a crush on him as well. I was a little depressed when I found out that he had transferred classes. We still see each other during passing period, and my best friends locker is right next to his.
I talked to my mom about this and she said that if he's a good guy, he'll realize that I was right there to begin with. The Sweetheart Dance is coming up in early February. I'm a little scared because I think that he will ask the cheerleader to go with him. My mom said that again, he's not a little kid, and will know who the right girl is. He's not like most guys who only try to get in a girls pants. He's not a major flirt, and he's really nice [not to mention cute]. I know that I should probably get over him, but I'm not desperate or anything like that. I want to hang out with him and just be around him more. He only talks to me and occasionally the cheerleader when she approaches him. I want to be the one to make the first move, but my mom said that I should let him do what he wants, and if he truly likes me, he'll go after me instead of me going after him.
Any advice? Sorry that this was so long.
You should tell him straight up that you like him, before later on you'll regret not telling him. But make sure to youself is he worth it? If he likes a sl*t, is he the guy you'll really wanna like? But if your positive you like him, tell him before it's too late.
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