Question Posted Wednesday January 16 2008, 8:37 pm
13/f
Okay, so me nad this guy like each other. Sounds simple right? Just go out? One problem. I don't date because I have this thing where I DO NOT trust guys. My last relationships sucked, so... And, I don't know why he doesn't date. But, I know I can trust him. I mean, he's sweet. Nice and everything... I mean, perverted, but that's me too. We're both perverted. Like, ya know? Dirty jokes? No, I would not have sex with him even if I wanted to. *shudders* Anyway, I just want to know what I should do at this point. I mean, he knows I like him. I know he likes me. We're both aware of this, but what do we do? Can somebody NICE please help me?
p.s I mean nice as in, nice advice. And, no comments about being perverted. That's me, not you. I am me. :3
thelaura answered Thursday January 17 2008, 8:00 am: Just because your last relationship sucked doesn't mean it should affect your future ones.
Also, you are only 13, so given time, you most probably will change your views on the whole dating thing.
Don't push yourself to be in a relationship at the moment. Just continue to be as you are and see if anything changes. Or if it doesn't, there's no harm in giving it a go to see how things turn out, right? Because you both do like each other..
The ball is in your court.
P.S, is perverted the right word? If someone described themselves as perverted, I sure as hell wouldn't want to know them! LOL :P
Anq3L_xO answered Thursday January 17 2008, 3:10 am: Well, it sounds like you're much too mature to give most guys the time of day. Seeing as how you don't trust any of them, which is very mature of you. Most women have trust issues with men. If there's something telling you that you should go for this guy, do it, what do you have to lose? If I learned anything about being 13, I learned that it doesn't matter who you dated, who you were friends with, any of that, because it will all change with time. Just have fun, you don't need to marry this guy and grow up and have kids with him, you're 13 you can go out with him and just have fun. And if things don't work out, then he wasn't Mr. Right anyways. Good luck, keep me posted! ~Love Angel [ Anq3L_xO's advice column | Ask Anq3L_xO A Question ]
masterclinic answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 11:43 pm: I know this probably not what you want to hear but... you need to start trusting guys i know you probably where in a bad situation at once but you got to give the others a chance. If you are sure he likes you then there isent much holding you back from telling him how you feel and that you are ready to take the next step. Best of luck [ masterclinic's advice column | Ask masterclinic A Question ]
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