|
my freakin mom i know she is just watching out for me but...
ok so heres the deal i am a big tomboy i love sports and video games and everything like that but my mom thinks that if i contenue to be a tomboy im going to be lesbian gosh i have had a crush on a few boys and i have never had a crush on a girl my whole intier life all it is, is i think that boys clothes are more confertable then girls clothes and i like sports so i always wear my hair back in a pony tail and i wear a hat all the time because me and my dad go golfing almost everyday ok thats all it is its not because i have crushes on girls or anything its just because its who i am thats it so what should i tell my mom the next time she gives me the i dont want you to date a girl talk. i am not intrarested in girls at all ok i do have a crush on a boy and i hate all the girls do you know why its because they all think im freaks and i have no one to talk to when that "speacil" guy comes around or if i have a problem or if i want somthing a boy cant help me with like when im having my period and my mom dosnt have any pads i cant go and ask a boy if they have any i want one friend thats a girl but i dont want a girlfriend but i dont realy want a boyfriend either but i do like them as friends and crushes but what do i tell my mom when she gives me that really stupid i dont want you to date a girl talk again i dont want to have to sit through that what do i tell her please help
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos?
I'm sorry that your mom is persistent with this. It shows that she's not listening to you if you've been telling her this all along. She's lacking trust in you.
Anyway, you're right; the way you live your life doesn't directly reflect your sexuality. AND, someone's sexuality does NOT directly relate to the way they live and the morals they uphold.
Keep trying to talk to her; if you don't feel like she is listening to you, you can consult with other adults who can talk to her (adults tend to listen to adults more than their kids).
]
First of all, I am not going against your mother at all - I must first say. But the thing is giving you a talk about ' I don not want you to date a girl' is truly harsh. Girls can like girls - many do, and its just a natural part of life, so nobody should feel ashamed of that, its just down to personal preference. Just tell her, nicely, calmly, if she does this again, that you feel offended when she says these things to you, as you don't want to change for her, as you are you, you have your own opinions, own style - and you don't want to be changed because you are happy with yourself. I think you should let her know that you are hurt and worried about what she thinks of you, and that - in fact - you like being you, the way you are :).
She'll understand, and I do think she is being unfair :)
Goodluck
XXx
]
Well it doesn't matter who you're interested in, boys, girls, whatever. Your mother should just love you for who you are, not who you have a crush on. Tell her that it hurts your feelings when she comes to you with her speech on dating a girl. If she doesn't want to believe you, or respect your wishes, then she should really just mind her own business until she can respect yours. As far as having friends that are girls, girls are very catty I find. They only like their kind for the most part, so find some chicks you can relate to, it's hard to do that at school and stuff where everyone can be so judgemental. It's rough, but good luck. I hope I helped. ~Love Angel
]
You pretty much answered your own question there just repeat what you told us its pretty harsh but it will get her off your back. Best of luck
]
More Questions: |