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Question Posted Tuesday January 22 2008, 10:27 pm

13/M

hi... ive been going out with this girl for about a year now and i love her alot. we get wild sometimes but not to wild. the furthest we have gone is that she gave me a hand job. but after she did i got a little worried and i didn't feel right. i thought i might be a little to young for these things.

am i to young?
are we going to far for only 13 years old?


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ciao77 answered Thursday January 24 2008, 12:46 am:
If you have to ask, then you are too young. You are having doubts,your girlfriend (or whoever) felt worried, and you said you "didn't feel right." These all point to the fact that you are not ready to be doing these things. When you are ready, you will not feel this way.

Sorry to say, but you are too young to be doing these things. Your brain is not fully developed till you are around 20, so yeah, emotionally and physically, you are both too young to mess around. I'm not giving you a timeline or anything..but a few years of waiting will not hurt you at all.

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Jadie answered Wednesday January 23 2008, 9:14 pm:
yes! it's wrong and no offense but your wayyy too much young for this stuff, wait until at least 18 at least! and you should tell her your not ready for this and that it doesnt feel right and if she breaks up with you, which im not saying shes gonna, she might only be using you.

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sml111992 answered Wednesday January 23 2008, 8:01 pm:
ok weird feelings equals NOT READY im 15/f and if she keeps this up at that age by the time she gets to 9th grade shell be the class whore and you the pimp. and no girl likes a pimp and slut well her fault there. so ya i think your to young you yourself think your to young. if it feels wrong then it is WRONG. now if this were my lil sis who is at this age i would be like um wow dont do that! just think if it as if ur lil bro or sis were doing that now!

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rachela answered Wednesday January 23 2008, 5:47 pm:
hi
14/f
ok i think your too young
sorry but thats what i think its what you think that matters tho
do u think your going to far do you think shes the girl you "truly love" your 13 take your time but its good that you waited a year befog you did anything.

im sorry if i didnt help and im glad if i did help:
rachela

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sevenmilliondown answered Wednesday January 23 2008, 1:53 am:
It's all a matter of how you feel about it.
Are you comfortable with what you're doing?
In the future are you going to be okay with having done stuff at such a young age?

Personally, I think you're too young, but that's my own opinion. In the end it's all on you and your partner.

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CarliCutiePie answered Wednesday January 23 2008, 12:39 am:
You aren't going 'too far'...just only go as far as you feel comfortable.


And don't do anything you might regret.

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