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i can be really wet yet my nipples arent hard! can someone please tell me why and if this is normal. and how to get them hard?? thanks! :) (link)
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All breasts are different your nipples don't have to stay hard for you to be aroused. Not a lot of womens nipples stay hard unless they are being constantly played with...it's not weird or anything it's very normal.
Chelsi*
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when i get turned on i feel like im about to pee
then randomly this white stuff will come out
idk but its wierd to me??
and only my vaginia will randomly itch
not all the time or everyday or anything
but when it does it like itches ill have to it it or cross my legs or ometime stick my finger in a itch it (link)
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The peeing feeling is normal because everything is rushing towards your clitoris and vagina..which puts pressure on you. The itching is normal...every part of you itchs sometimes right? Why not there...it's just like when guys scratch their stuff all the time...we're just more shy about it.
Hope I helped.
Chelsi*
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14/F
I get really horny really fast. I've fingered myself, but thats not warking anymore. I dont want 2 go out and just have sex witha guy. Any advice? (link)
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Buy a toy, something that will entertain you for a while, experiment with yourself figure out what feels good.
And I think it's great that you don't want to just go out and sleep with whatever.
Chelsi♥
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I'm going to switch birth control. Do I have to wait a week or a month before having sex? And I mean with a condom. I don't have unprotected sex, so I don't need a lecture thanks. (link)
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My doctor told me that with any sort of birth control after two weeks you are in the 95% safe zone, and then after a good month you are up to 99% safe. So if I were you I wouldn't wait if your still useing a condom but your just not in the 99% safe zone until a month later...but it also takes time for your other birth control to wear out of your system.
Hope I helped.
Chelsi*
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What does it mean when someone bends the spine of the book? Is it like when the side of the cover is white and crinkled and there's lines on it from opening the book too wide? Well i think that's what it's called.
I'm borrowing a friend's novel, how can i make sure i dont' ruin it? (link)
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Books only normally do that if they are paperback novels...but you can't really avoid it if it is. The paper automatically does it.
*Chelsi
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i love masterbating.
i do it everynight with the shower head in between my legs.
but are there other techniques that are AMAZING?
please share!
like other ways to stand or massage with the shower head or
with anything else around the house?
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I'm a huge fan of my vibrator...you might want to look into investing in one..they aren't very expensive at all...like 15 to however much you want to spend on one.
Try the pulse on your shower head...it might change it up a little and lead you on more.
*Chelsi
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17/f
so when me and my boyfriend mess around he just masturbates me but he hasn't "fingered" me yet but after about 30 minutes or longer my legs start shaking and I start breathing harder. is this an orgasm?? if not then what is it?? (link)
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It's hard to explain an orgasm...you'll know for sure if you've had one..it's like your whole body tightens and all at once you go weak with this amazing feeling of relief.
It's hard to explain.
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is it possible to get climax during period time? (link)
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Yes you can.
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ok well does anyone else have times where they want their chest to be touched/massaged/or even just looked at.
cuz idk but i have them times a bunch (link)
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Yes...I have those all the time, but luckily my husband is very caring about my needs and my moods.
I think it's normal because I get like that a lot also.
Hope I helped.
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I heard that after having a child you can have your pussy tighteneed. Like surgically. It is this true? (link)
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No it isn't true...you don't have it tighened you have to do it yourself with a thing called Kegal exercises which tighten the muscles around your vigana back to normal. When I was in the hospital after I had my daughter they told me to do at least 100 a day and I was there for 3 days.
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15(F)
I'll be 16 in a few weeks.(Feburary 7th)
My boy friend is 17 (a year and a half older)
First off I just want to thank all of you in advance for reading. I really appreatiate you taking the time! But please refrian from bias opinons. Please don't judge my choices or tell me I'm wrong. I'm just looking for honest advice (experiance recomended)
ok well let me start by saying my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months. I am totally in love with him and this will sound stupid, but I really feel that he will be the man I marry. He's my best friend, but also one of hte only people I trust. (Here's where you won't judge me! =0])
We're not sexually active as of right now. We do alot of foreply but no sex.
The other night, we were in my basement and we just really started going at eachother. We were both totally turned on. So after a little foreplay, I asked him if he wanted to try to have sex. He always keeps a condom on him...just in case anything ever happens. He said "Yea, but only if you're sure you're ready. I am a virgin, so is he.
One of the reasons I'm in love with him is because the way he looks out for me. He always makes sure I'm comfortable with what we're doing, and that he's careful.
I said I wanted to, so he put the condom on. I was really scared/nervous since I'm no on birth control. He said that he wouldn't cum in me, but he would still use the condom. He also wants me to be on birth control.
The second after, my mom yelled down to tell me something and I felt a little releavied. I just was so scared about getting prenant, I forgot how much I wanted to share this moment with him. I kept asking him what he was thinknig but he seemed to maintain composure. Is his age at all a difference as to why he was so calm?
This has happened a few times in the past week where we have ALMOST had sex. About 3. This was the closest.
So the mood was gone and we stoped. I felt bad because I know we're both ready and he really loves me. A few days after I told him that i felt relieved, and he told me I probably wans't ready. He doesn't mind waiting. He said he'd wait forever.
Sorry for the lenght!
but here are my main questions!
Will he change after sex...will our realationship be any different?
Are there any ways I can approach the birth control situation with my mom?
Will I get pregnant if I'm on birth control, he uses a condom, and he pulls out?
PLEASE HELP!
Sorry for the length
Please don't judge!
Thanks in advance.
I will rate you!
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Getting pregnant is always a chance not likely if your on birth controls and careful...but it's a risk. Being nervous about getting pregnant is normal too, very normal. That just means your growing up and realizing consequences to your actions.
Sex does change relationships becuase it's a new level of acceptance and growth together. Especially if your both honest virgins...it may change for the better which it sounds like it will because from what I read you guys do sound very in love...
Just be honest with your mom...the worst she can say is no...but I'm a mom to a newborn and I was thinking about situations that are going to come up in my life with her...and I would perfer her to be honest with me when shes ready to have sex rather then her just go do it. Your mom probably feels the same way...just be honest with her.
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is there anything wrong with anal sex??.. i did it over the weekend and yea, i liked it.. hurt really badly, but i liked it. thanks for the advice!! (link)
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There is nothing wrong with anal sex. If you enjoy it then you enjoy it. There are certain things you can do to enjoy it more to, if your female use toys...vibrators, or dildos to stimulate your orgasm more. If your a male a vibrator works the same way if it's placed under your balls, or a cock ring...that would help you and your partner.
Be careful though, infections can be caused if your partner enters you vaginally and he hasn't cleaned off, or changed condoms. Also it can cause pain when stools pass.
Hope I helped.
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I got prescribed the combined pill Loestrin by my doctor when I was 14 to regulate my v.heavy and almost constant periods. I never used it for contraceptive reasons until I started having sex about three months ago (I'm 17.) Not only do I take my pill every day, I take it at exactly the same TIME every day, and have done this for about six months. I haven't missed a period on it since I started having sex.
However recently my stomach below my belly button is quite swollen. At first I just thought I was putting on weight but when I feel it it is all tight and hard! And if I look at myself profile in the mirror you can tell that there is a swelling beneath my belly button.
I also read on here recently that the periods on the pill are not "true periods", they are "withdrawal" bleeds. So is it possible you could get them and still be pregnant?
Is it worth getting a pregnancy test or am I being ridiculous? I have been called a bit of a hypochondriac (for other reasons) before and have a lot of difficulty stepping back from situations and seeing if I'm being sensible or not! I can't talk to anyone about this in the world except for possibly my boyfriend, but I wouldn't want to unnecessarily worry him, and for logistical reasons it would cost a lot of time, effort and money for me to get a pregnancy test done (although of course I would if it was necessary).
Could somebody please help? Thanks in advance. (link)
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Loestrin was taken off the market of contraceptives becuase it was causing multiple births. If I were you I would take the pregnancy test and also talk to your gynocologist about putting you on another sort of shot, and or just the pill.
The hardening does happen when your pregnant but not normally until about 2 to 3 months, it may be something else all together but I do think you should take the pregnancy test and see your doctor... I would hold off on sex until you were certain of whats up though.
Good Luck,
♥Chelsi
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My boyfriend says his penis hurts after we mess around. it's after i get him hard them we're interrupted or stop then do it again and so on...it's not 'blue balls' and his penis randomly hurts and it doesn't hurt after he jacks off. i know it's a wierddd situation but if anyone knows anything about this it would really help us out. thanks! (link)
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It isn't blue balls but it's a type of it. It's just from the blood rushing to his penis when he gets an erection and then leaving and coming back... kind of like a head ache... The blood pressure is whats hurting, and when he jacks off it relieves it. So it is very normal, and kind of like blue balls.
*Chelsi
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My boyfriend and I have been having terrible sex. When we first started it was amazing...now it sucks. Well do you have any advice to get things a little more interesting? What types of roleplay do you suggest? How is the best way to play out those roleplays? Any other kinky ideas? Please explain the roleplays and other things. Not like complete details, but what I will need and how to start it. Also is there something we can do before sex and roleplaying to know each others bodies better that might help when actually having sex? (link)
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You need to communicate more in bed...maybe talk dirty to him but in a way that suggest he touch you more like you want him to. Or show him how you like to be touched...let him watch you pleasure yourself...that will turn him on and help you in the longrun. Don't ever fake an orgasm becuaes then when you try to tell him and explain to him how to touch you you are really going to piss him off becuase he'll realize you faked an orgasm. I made that mistake and had HORRIBLE sex for 2 years becuase I was afraid of hurting his feelings.
Sex toys are always good in the bedroom also...anysort really. And if you guys are nervous in front of each other you don't nessicarily jump into role play becuase that's a very on spot type of thing...you could always wear lingrini.
♥chelsi
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does anyone know what might be wrong if the clitoria in your vagina is browning & looks as though its dying.
i really need help & im scared to go to my mom or a gyno. (link)
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I'm not to sure exactly but you need to see a doctor...if it is something serious then you shouldn't wait.
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okay. my school has alot of guys that think of sex ALL DAY LONG. every school does. well i was wondering why arent they scared? why am i so scared? i want to have sex but way to scared of anything to happen. does it hurt? need help with this! (link)
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Sex is a big deal when it comes to girls, not only because girls normally attach to whatever they make love to first, men don't. That might be one of the reasons...you want it to be special just like every girl does but are afraid of losing whoever makes it special. You might be scared because girls go through more when it comes to pregnancy...you don't just get pregnant...you give birth and have a child the rest of your life..that's a lot of pressure for a girl.
Sex isn't something to be afraid of it hurts the first time...but after that your body gets use to it, and it becomes very pleasurable...but only if you let the guy know what feels good for you. Don't be afraid to be open with the person your making love with or else it may not be all you want it to be.
You shouldn't do it unless your ready becuase of all the consequences that could happen. Make sure it is truely with someone you love because then you don't have to worry about losing them, or getting pregnant being a problem.
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