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Q: Hey I'm 16 years old and a guy. I eat lunch at about 12.40, to get out of school at 2.40. I work out after school, mostly cardio workouts that go anywhere from 30-90 minutes. At lunch, there isn't always a variety to choose from, since it's the last one, and I usually get PB&J, but not by choice. I add a banana and some apple juice to keep things healthy, but that doesn't work for me. I either feel sick or too hungry when I work out after school. Any other foods or sandwhiches I should try? I'm not sure what to get to fill me up, not over fill me, but give me the energy I need for after school. Thanks - will rate.
peanut butter, plain but if thats too much, then get a salad but bring an energy bar wih you. they give you the energy. also, maybe bring 2 energy bars so that you can have one befor your workout. maybe pack a lunch that is full of fruit and a ham with extra stuff for a little zam in your entr'e (cant spell..... sorry!) Hope your full!

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Q: okay..well there is this kid that had liked me for three years but like i always thought of him as just a really good friend,and i never relized how much i was breaking his heart. This year he hates me now cause he said he didnt want to get hurt anymore and now hes friends with all the people i hate...the thing is im starting to really like him now but its to late. I also just got dumped by my boyfriend but i want to tell the other guy how i feel and i dont know how to tell him and i dont know when to without looking like a girl that goes from guy to guy.
wait a while, then talk to him on the phone or someplace private and tell him how you feel and then discuss why he hates you and tell him how sorry you are. try talking it out and always stand your ground. just because you dont want him to get hurt, doesnt mean you should

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Micaela

Q: ok. 15/f
my boyfriend and i have been together for a year. but jwe broke up about 2 weeks ago. is there a way i can keep him as my friend but not cry myself to sleep.
SoOo sorry! i think that you should talk to him and tell him how you feel, but if your not a touchy feely, then just talk to him on the phone and try to convince yourself that he isnt worth you tears. Put youself back on the market and dont drag on just one guy! ther are other fish in the sea ;)

love always
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Q: This is going to sound dumb. But every once and a while i get this really sharp pain right under my left boob like behind the rib cage. and it hurts so bad i cant breath. it knocks the wind out of me n i can't move, but this literally 15 seconds later its fine. it use to happen like every couple of months. but its been happening a lot this week.
wtf is this? lol i never bothered to ask anyone cause it didnt happen a lot. but now its becoming more frequent. any one else get this?
you should go to the doctor. I learned that you may have a type of cancer or disease. im not 100% sure, but you should visit a local doctor.

HIH
hope i helped

.M.i.c.a.e.l.a.

Q: Ok, Tomarrow Is My little sisters birthday party... She is having a hawian party... Im waering short shorts and a speggetie strap top... My question is how should i do my hair? I can put a lei or somthing in it... I am not sure.. Gimmi some tips and You get a 5.. website with pictures are GREAT also *Thanks In Advance!!*


-Luv, Meg-
www.leisofhawaii.com/nanimal1.jpj this is like the most common.. lol ok well hope i helped good luck

Q: ok so at my highschool we got a pool and have to go swimming. the problem is i dont feel comfrontable taking off ALL my clothes to wear my bathing suit infront of everyone.. they think just because we are all girls and have the same body parents that it is ok but i personaly dont think that is right.. and another thing is we cant use the "girl problem" to stop us from swimming" but i have NEVER used a tampon and i have heared from my friends that the doctor has told them it is bad for you and can mess up soemthing down there?? what can i do??

p.s

i dont start PE until next term
get a note from your parents excusing you from PE or just start wearing a tamp. also you could just wear a wet suit instead of a bathing suit, or a whole piece if you want.. hope i helped!

Q: I've been with my boyfriend for over two years, and I love him more than anything in the world. I've never cheated on him and I've never even thought about it. But last night I had a dream that I had sex with another guy. I don't know who he was, but it really wierd. And in my dream I was freaking out that my boyfriend might find out about it and that he'd be pissed at me. When I woke up this morning I called my boyfriend and told him about the dream and he's taking it really hard. He's really hurt and he thinks that I might be interested in having sex with other people, BUT I'M NOT. I don't know why I had this dream, and I don't know what to do or say to make him feel better. Another thing is that my boyfriend is in the military- and we don't get to see eachother very often, so he's probably really worried something is going on back at home with me and someone else, but honestly there isn't. I need to figure out why I had this dream, and what I can do to cheer up my boyfriend. Any advice would be awesome, thanks.
you could just tell him straight off your feelings, like tell him you love him more than anything and you wouldnt do something like that to hurt him. and tell him your not interested in sex right now. and if he doesnt understand, then i dont know what would make him. so i hope i helped...

Q: ON the last day of school my best friend told me she would be going to private school next year. I really had a tough time making friends the whole year and she really was one of the only friends i had. She's away at sleepaway camp for 8 weeks and I can't see her!!! She didn't respond to any of my letters either. I'm scared to go through a year of school without her. I'll be so lonely!!! What can I do to make the best of the school year???
you could join a club like art club or chess club. there are clubs for everything that you clould make new friends at. when school starts, ask a teacher for a club listing and s/he will get one for you. it will be an easy way to make new friends and also its before or after school, if that is a problem, you could also join a sport or some other sports. HoPe I hElPeD!

hypermickihahe

Q: ok well i'm gon out with this kid but he tells his friends that he thinks I'm prude..which i'm not really cuz i've gone farther than he has. and whenever his friends are around me like spell out prude or say oohhh looks like someones prude..well i'm wonderin..what should i say to them cuz its gettin madd annoying

tell them that your not and stand up for yourself break up with the gay loser who is spreading rumors bout u behind your back and also if you want tell them you have gone farther than them. only if you want


rate plz!
Micki

Q: I'm sixteen, yet I still haven't developed my breasts yet! I know everyone says this, but I really don't want some answer like, "Be happy with who you are." Does anyone know ANYTHING.. at ALL. to make them bigger? Any foods to eat or anything? Please help.... No surgery. All natural. XOX
try different types of bras. ther are many out there and chocolate i think make your breasts grow. thats just what i read.

dont forget to rate!
Micki

Q: my family always fights and im afraid that they might split up what do i do?
well you could try to talk to them both i mean in the middle of a fight say STOP FIGHTING LETS TALK THIS OVER and then you can sit down as a family and work things out. that will prolly help.


so sorry if i didnt help
Micki

Q: This guy is really cool. But, it's so confusing to tell if he likes me. First, he has a cute nickname for me, and he touches my shoulders a lot when we're walking. Also, he gives me complements and looks right into my eyes when we talk. I also catch him starring at me during class sometimes like at my legs or at my face. Does it sound like he really does like me?

thanks! ill rate 5's!!
wait... you said "it's so confusing to tell if he likes me."??? wats confusing? HE HAS A THING FOR YOU and duh i think he likes you.

lol hope i helped
Micki

Q: I eat 3 meals a day and lately abou an hour after my meals I start to get really hungry.
I've tried eating bigger portions but it just made me feel bloated after, I've tryed halfing my portions and leaving half of it for when I do get hungry but it makes my hunger worse and I've tried ignoring it but it just doesn't seem to go away.

Is there anyway I can stop this?
well carbs like bread soak up the fluids and help to fill up so have POP TARTS! lol they help me alot


hope I HELPED!

Q: ok i have a kitten and i sound really stupid when i say this but i don't know if it is a boy or girl.Some people say its a girl some say its a boy and i need to find a name for it. I tried to look at the thing but i can't tell it looks like it could be both atm.I thought maybe i could tell from the tits it has 8 tits! Does anyone know if a male cat has the same number of tits please could someone help.Thank Youxx
great its a gurl and her are some names


if it is brown...
1 mocha
2 co co
3 cho co


if white
1 vanilla
2 snowwy
3 cotten
4 fluff
5 pearl

if orange
1 marmalade
2 tangerine
3 pumpkin

if gray
1 shadow
2 smokey

if black
1 twile (twilight) ((i named my cat this one))
2 midnight
3 dc (dark chocolate lol)


well i hope i helped dont forget to rate!!


MIckI



i said please rate so that i know how i did

Q: Okay, i've just decided to try tennis, but i have friken clue of how the hell to play it. lol I keep trying to find out things online, and it's telling me things about how u need 4 points to win a game, 6 games to win a set, and 2 sets to win a match, but i have no clue what they mean by "game" "set" or "match", I dont know what they are!!lol I also don't know how you get scored on this. If anyone would like to take the time and explain to me thoroughly and define these 'terms' to me i will love you!!!!

thank you so much
_Janine_*
well.. you can play a game, set,or match. in order to play a set you can play six games. and to play a match you can play two sets or twelve games. its just how long the game is pretty much.



hope i helped
Micki

Q: im having major problems.. cuz like i cant really tell what i feel for this one gu. ive known him for a long time and ive always kinda had a thing for him but were realllllly great friends so i cant tell whether i just love him as a brother or like more than that.. usually this wouldnt be a problem only then yesterday he asked me out and i said yea. so now i feel like, what the heck what if i dont really like him? and then theres another problem. i also like this other guy, ryan but he is friends w. my ex so then that would never happen.. so i just need to know. what should i do about the guy that asked me out ((nolan)) and what should i do about ryan? i rate high if u give good advice :)





----Jen
depends you like nolan as a broter. tell him. you like ryan as a your "boy" so do wats in your heart and say to nolan wat you mean and tell ryan if you want that you like him. go ahead dont be afraid to take a chance! :)


hope I hElPeD
Micki

Q: i have two friends and one of these friends i like much more than the other. the friend i like more is called "rosie" and the friend that im not fond of is called "mary". so mary is really boring and not very social, im only friends with her through rosie. when im with both rosie and mary mary kind of shuts down and it looks as if she is very uncomfortable. i dont want to her to feel uncomfortable anymore. we dont really have a lot of stuff in common. what are some things that i can do to make mary feel more comfortable around rosie and me? thanks so much. i rate.
well talk about some subjects she likes if she likes movie hang out ther and say how you felt about it if she likes the park and animals talk about your pets. talk about what she like and is interesting to her. talk.

hope i helped

Micki

Q: how do i find my perfect look? i mean one day im wearing baggy pants a tee shirt and converse hightops then the next day im wearing a skirt and some heels. should i choose one style? or do i just wear what i want? i dont wanna look weird... im going into highschool next year and i dont want to get made fun of cuz of the stuff i wear.... thanx so much i rate high
you shoudl dress how you want anydya. if you wanna be punk be punk. ifyou wanna be prep one day be a prep who cares??? and if anyone teases they spend way to much judging and not enough time looking in the mirror! :)



HOPE i HeLpEd


Micki

Q: me and my boyfriend we're making out and stuff and he tried to take my shirt off and i wouldn't let him and he raped me. He said if i told anyone he would find a way to kill me. so should i tell someone or keep it a secret?
tell someone now
he could go to jail and you would get a restraining order. he wont kill you . tell NOW!


Micki



ps i mean it that si AWFUL!

Q: okay so i have 3 EXTREMELY close friends that are moving to a different country this summer and it is rele hard because it's all at the same time and everything and i love them all to death. well i have been rele sad b/c of it lately, and b/c i never let anyone see me cry, i cry myself to sleep, EVERY NIGHT. i am rele sad all the time and even my family and friends noticed it a bit. i don't know what to do, I AM SOOOOOOOO Sad!!
-what should i do b/c i probably won't ever get to see them again? -help please!
scedual to see them every summre ask their parents if they could come/you go and ask your parents too. make a game plan
hope it works out


MICKI

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