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Hey! my name is Andrea but I like to be called Andie* I am 14 I love helping people out with there problems. I'm SpUnKy . BuBbly . outgoing . trustworthy . responsible . and fun to be with! Please dont hesitate to ask me anything! I understand that teenage years will definatly be the hardest to go through..it has for me at least...Boys*Friends*Family*Death all sorts of stuff so I will answer every question you have! I hope I'm helping you guys out! ♥Andie

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k,Well like all my friends already have there period and i am really scared i will get mine ain school....HELP

It's okay that you didnt get yours yet. It is perfectly normal. If you ever get yours at school dont freak out! lol Just put 1 or 2 pads/tampons in your backpack, or just go to the office. If might seem weird to go ask for something but trust me you probably arnet the only one that has asked for one. I hope I helped! =) Andie

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What does crunk mean... im afraid to ask someone who would know.. i know i sound lame.. but please.. im confused!! all the rap songs use that word.. and idk what it means!! HELP

to become intoxicated, drunk I think. I hope I helped!

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Hi andie...
im in love with my best friend (CALL HER BETSY) and i have asked betsy out twice...both times she said "no we are only friends" but today i asked her if she thought it was a good idea if i went on one knee and gave her a gift...in this case a necklace...and she said ya i told her i dont know if i wanna becus if she says no, it will be embarasing but she was like JUST DO IT! and idk cus she mite still be mad at me from a cpl of days ago and is saying she isnt! idk if i should take the risk of that much embarassement over a girl even tho i love her more than the world!

Thx Andie! your awesome
You Nieghbor lol

Neighbor,
I dont think that it is really a good thing for you to ask her out again. I have learned from experience. If you ask someone out more than once they will get annoyed and will always say no to you. [sorry to break it to ya]Also they might think it is a nice gester to give them a gift but, if you really love then you would let them go and stop asking them out. Maybe they said no becase they dont want to ruin a friendship that you guys have. I hope I helped! *please rate* =) ♥Andie

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Are you suppose to wash your hair everyday?Not Because I wash my hair everyday.Someone told me It like ruins the hair or bad for it.Thanx

It depends. If you wash your hair before you go to work/school each morning that is okay. But then if you come home and then you take another shower before bed everyday it could possibly run your hair. So you can wash your hair 2 times a day if you want to but i wouldnt reccomend washing it 2 times a day everyday. I hope I helped! ♥

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i really want a boyfriend! i feel like all my friends have boy friends and i dont! i want to ask this one kid out but i dont think he likes me like i like him. how can i find out?

What you should do is ask one of his friends and try to find more stuff about him to see if you guys have anything in common. So then you should just randomly start a converstation and you guys will have something to talk about! Then once you guys start to get "comfortable" talking with each other then ask him out, or he might ask you! =) I hope I helped! ♥ Andie

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ok im a boy...lol...i am totally in love with this one girl...we are really good friends but she said that it is awesome that i am in love with her and its sweet to no some1 cares and loves her so much but she didnt want to break my heart in the end and she doesnt want to ruin the friendship...what should i do? i really love her...but she always says that! and idk..i wish she could love me back.

Well first of all you cant make someone love you, ever. [sorry to say that]and that is kool that she thinks its nice for her to think that you care for her soo much! Maybe that is all she needs right now. Maybe she doesnt want a relationship with anyone? It is also a good thing for her to care about your friendship so much that she doesnwant to jeperdize it and never be loved the way she is now. I think that you should wait a little longer untill you can maybe see that she might have some feelings for you!. If you want to show her that you care you should take her to a dance or just slow dance "as friends" so that she knows you wouldnt want to make a move on her. *plz rate!* I hope I helped! If you ever need anything else I'm here for ya! =) ♥Andie

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My best friend is really starting to wear really nice clothes and wear expensive makeup and straighten her hair with expensive straighteners and when im around her i feel really imature

I dont think that you should worry about it. It seems kinda to me like she would be trying to be like everyone else rather than who she really is. I hope I helped!

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Hey yall, i need help with a nickname...my name is Ashley i have nicknames like Asha,Ashems,Ashlynn but i dont like them! So can u help me out with a new cool nickname?
Thanks, Ashley

Ash, Ashers, Ashbabe, I call my friend Ashley that all the time. If you want you could change the spelling to Ashlee? lol I hope I helped! =) ♥Andie

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What is a discharge? does anyone know please answer!

It can be this white stuff you can get before you get your period! lol =) ♥Andrea

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My friend is coming home.. she is up for adoption and her and her bf want to hang out w/me but i already have plans w/my boyfriend and i dont want to cancle them how do i work around them

You guys could go on a double date! yup! that would be fun! Go bowling! or see a movie and then go to someones house afterwards and watch a *make-out* movie lol! =) ♥Andie

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does anybody know how to do anything to xanga's? cuz i dont know how to make mine have a cool background or anything.. so umm anybody willing to help me please :-\

Hey! I have that you can take a look at mine if you want to! http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Hunniibunnii23 You can IM me if you have any questions! AndieHunni23 ♥Andie

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Theres this girl whos my age and stuff. I'm 14/f. And my best friends grandmother just died today so she wasn't in school, and this girl actually told people she was glad her gram died. and I FLIPPED. One of her friends was like, you shouldn't flip out, it's not like it's your grandmother. & I'm like dude wtf I know, but she's my best friend, its not like I'm just going to let her say that. I'm doing the right thing, right? I'm not going to tell my best friend what happened because I don't want to get her upset. But, yeah. Thanks

Ya, I think that was a very nice thing of you to do! No one should talk like that about someone who died! that is very rude! you are a good friend! I would be kinda dissapointed in your friend if she doesnt think it was a good thing..lol =) ♥Andie

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hey, i need help really bad but i don't have anyone to turn to, and i really mean nobody. a while ago i "went through a depression stage" i guess you might call it, and it got really bad. i was builimic [sp.?] and i cut myself. [my parents and friends were compleatly oblivious to everything because i guess i'm a "good kid" and they never had to worry about me] i don't know how it stopped, but it just did. and now i think it's starting again, my parents suddenly decided we're moving and i feel like nobody wants me around, but i guess thats my fault because iv'e been pushing away the people that mean the most to me. i always want to be alone and i started keeping to myself a lot, like not talking AT ALL during lunch, unless someone asks me a question or somthing. when i get home i got straight to my room and cry, i don't know why though. and i started cutting myself again, i dug a knife into my wrist after dinner tonight and it bled and bled. i feel like i don't belong anywhere and i want to run away, but i don't know where i'd go or how i'd get far enough away from home. iv'e also sat on my roof after everyone in my house is asleep and thought about jumping off, but i really don't want to go to hell. i really need help [i'll "rate high" or whatever, just please help] -jeanine

Hey, I'm not one of those people that think you are psycho, because your not. I was like that too for a little bit. I felt that no one loved me, and that they would all be happy if I just left the world. I still kinda ignore my family and I think that my best friend in the world hates me, but it is getting better, you just have to give it time. I dont watn to sound like a pusher but I think that you should go to a psycholigist, [but you dont have to do anything you dont want to do] everything they say in there is CONFEDENTIAL. I think that you should keep a journal about how you feel about things, and then look it over about a week later and you will realize how stupid you thought about something so little. I'm sorry if I couldnt help much but I am going threw the same thing right now..so I hope I helped! leave on in my inbox if you ever need anymore help! I'm here for you! ♥Andie

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Ok ive always kind hav been a ladies man... well latly ive been seeing guys in different ways... im afraid to tell anyone but i really think im starting to like a guy...PLEASE HELP ME

There is nothing wrong with you! lol you just happen to like the same gender! lol and there is NOTHING wrong with that. If you dont feel that anyone should know about this, then it is no one elses buisness but yours! I Hope I helped! I hope you find the right man! =) ♥Andie

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All of a sudden, I've become EXTREMELY emotional. I just watched Titanic, and I cried and cried and cried. I watched Homeward Bound the Incredible Journey with a kid I babysat with, and when the animals came home I was choked up. What's wrong with me? 13/F

I think your hormones are starting to kick in! lol well yea..I am like that all the time! so dont worry, there is nothing wrong with you. You are just very emotional! *rate me plz!* ♥Andie

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Girls this is for you. there is one spot down there that gets itchy often. it is on my "pussy lip" on the left side. i was just wondering what i should do because it has been this way for a couple of months now and i don't want to go to the doctor because i don't want them to look at me down there and it could be because i rub it (masterbate)? i dotn know y it would be itchy... so im gonna stop doing that for a while but it still isnt going away. what could it be? do i have an infection? i will rate 5s

Hey well if you shave down there it will probably get rashy and itchy. I dont think that the masturbating is the problem, I think that your hands might not be clean. I know that this might sound kinda werid but wash your hands before and after you "do you thing." I hope I helped! =) ♥Andie

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hey andie. i waz just wondering if u knew ne wayz that i could become a model. i just dont know how 2 get started. lyke even if its just for kohls or shopko i would do it. anything. thanks 4 the help.

Hey! well I would look in the phone book for acting/modling classes to start off then you can ask your class teachers some agencies and start! or you can listen to the radio they have commercails all the time! Also! on the back of magasienes they have ad's like "would you like to be a model" or something like that! I hope I helped! =) ♥Andie

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ok i have a really hot and awsome bf...i get good grades...i have tons of friends...and i am lots of fun clubs..(gifted and talented siging)..my family is awsome...for some reason i feel like i am missing something..like there is a big whole in my body tht is missing..can anyone explain?

It seems like you have no time for yourself anymore!.. You should just have a couple of days and focus on you for a change and find out some stuff about yourself! :) I hope I helped out little! ♥Andie

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i straighten my hair in sections and like the bottom layer is always nice and straight but the very very top layer always turns out frizzy looking. its straight but i always have little pieces of hair sticking out or it just looks frizzy. how come? is there anything i can do to make it look non frizzy? ive used some frizz free stuff and it didnt work!

Hey that happends to me to what I use is moose or hair gell..but only a little!! I strongly reccomend only a little..your hair will look real greasy looking if you put to much! I hope I helped! *plz rate me!!* ♥Andie

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ok say i met this guy on the internet and we wanted to met somewhere but not alone i mean with like other people. What if he says he is 14 but is really 45 or something should i bring a knife or a gun????? should i have a cell phone ready just in case he tries to do something to me????? NEED HELP FAST !!!!!!!!
OXOXOX,
DONT WANNA BE KILLED

DONT GO! I personaly dont know why you would want to go...and NEVER NEVER give out your add. on the internet they can be completely differnt from what they say they are so dont go at all!!
I hope you make the right choice
♥Andie

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